Is she trying to have sex with me?

So there is this girl

who is paying me extra attention

has been trying to get coffee for weeks/to chat

and is now texting me every day

she has basically revealed to me details about her piercings

as well as that she is recently single

and complained about sex with her past boyfriend

which is literally the oldest straight girl move in the book

used when trying to get a queer woman inn bed

she has also dropped hints that she is attracted to older people

has dated someone as oldest as 39.

also she is laughing extra hard at all my jokes and always walks with me for a little bit after class.

is she trying to get the goods?

or is she just trying to network?lol

Geminis are notorious flirts but i have never been approached by a Gemini woman....at least one like this

I think I know my answer but I'm in denial about it.lol

It makes me feel weird

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

I think I know my answer but I'm in denial about it.lol

It makes me feel weird

Just fuck her good

Posted by TurnedOn

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

I think I know my answer but I'm in denial about it.lol

It makes me feel weird

Just fuck her good

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I feel wrong though.

But I also like the piercings aspect.

Also, she's strange. She has pet lizzards and rides a unicycle.

Also she's smarter than me ....even at 21.lol



i think brains are hot.

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

click to expand

hmmmm...i think it's getting there

as she's still trying to suss me out

asking questions about my type/ my life etc....

Straight up ask her if she’s ever been with a woman before or if she’s open to it

Then tell her you’ll eat her poosay till she cries 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

click to expand

also i have been the girl that has done the touching sober thing...with one other girl....

and you are right I was really into her ....like really

but that being said"straight" girls have tried to only kiss me or go straight to third base in one instance under the influence of a weed brownie.......

i think their inhibitions prevent them

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

hmmmm...i think it's getting there

as she's still trying to suss me out

asking questions about my type/ my life etc....

maybe, you don't know that... friends do that too you know. i mean i cannot imagine a girl liking someone so much that they contain themselves? which is why my best advice is wait till she makes a move on you.

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hmmm friends don't laugh that hard at my jokes......lol

i mean i'm funny but not that funny

also none of my friends text me daily.......

like there's nothing established for us to really do so.

i think when you are primarily interested in a friendship you may start to text...but very sporadic

not daily...and also about random stuff..... not like school related



also i don't think there's that much effort into trying to spend more and more time with a person when you aren't trying to bang haha

someone at burning man told me i was oblivious to all the girls that who were interested in me......

which was partially true. i knew of a couple...well some were more obvious...literally saying i thought you were hot when i first saw you etc...other girls linger and giggle

it's funny because this scorpio queer woman who was telling me that i was oblivious also asked me if i was a switch instead of a top.....which she thought i'd find offensive....but was her rationale for me not knowing the Role I was supposed to play

so now i'm trying to be more self aware and apply all of what i was supposed to learn from having a social life

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

hmmmm...i think it's getting there

as she's still trying to suss me out

asking questions about my type/ my life etc....

maybe, you don't know that... friends do that too you know. i mean i cannot imagine a girl liking someone so much that they contain themselves? which is why my best advice is wait till she makes a move on you.

hmmm friends don't laugh that hard at my jokes......lol

i mean i'm funny but not that funny

also none of my friends text me daily.......

like there's nothing established for us to really do so.

i think when you are primarily interested in a friendship you may start to text...but very sporadic

not daily...and also about random stuff..... not like school related



also i don't think there's that much effort into trying to spend more and more time with a person when you aren't trying to bang haha

someone at burning man told me i was oblivious to all the girls that who were interested in me......

which was partially true. i knew of a couple...well some were more obvious...literally saying i thought you were hot when i first saw you etc...other girls linger and giggle

it's funny because this scorpio queer woman who was telling me that i was oblivious also asked me if i was a switch instead of a top.....which she thought i'd find offensive....but was her rationale for me not knowing the Role I was supposed to play

so now i'm trying to be more self aware and apply all of what i was supposed to learn from having a social life

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Just curious...don’t both women play all the roles?

Posted by emeraldgem

................I'm thinking these threads might be related.......? 🙂

yeah

all the different angles I'm considering....for when the Gemini makes her final move conveying interest....

i need to have my mind made up for what i'm going to do considering the age difference

the risk of us mutually enjoying anything etc

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by TurnedOn

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

I think I know my answer but I'm in denial about it.lol

It makes me feel weird

Just fuck her good

I feel wrong though.

But I also like the piercings aspect.

Also, she's strange. She has pet lizzards and rides a unicycle.

Also she's smarter than me ....even at 21.lol



i think brains are hot.

click to expand

So why not have fun? She's young, so that's probably what she's after, just the experience and fun.

Are you more worried that she won't get turned out since she's straight?

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

hmmmm...i think it's getting there

as she's still trying to suss me out

asking questions about my type/ my life etc....

maybe, you don't know that... friends do that too you know. i mean i cannot imagine a girl liking someone so much that they contain themselves? which is why my best advice is wait till she makes a move on you.

hmmm friends don't laugh that hard at my jokes......lol

i mean i'm funny but not that funny

also none of my friends text me daily.......

like there's nothing established for us to really do so.

i think when you are primarily interested in a friendship you may start to text...but very sporadic

not daily...and also about random stuff..... not like school related



also i don't think there's that much effort into trying to spend more and more time with a person when you aren't trying to bang haha

someone at burning man told me i was oblivious to all the girls that who were interested in me......

which was partially true. i knew of a couple...well some were more obvious...literally saying i thought you were hot when i first saw you etc...other girls linger and giggle

it's funny because this scorpio queer woman who was telling me that i was oblivious also asked me if i was a switch instead of a top.....which she thought i'd find offensive....but was her rationale for me not knowing the Role I was supposed to play

so now i'm trying to be more self aware and apply all of what i was supposed to learn from having a social life

Just curious...don’t both women play all the roles?

click to expand

No.

i think it's common to have two women whom are together be versatile sexually in the bedroom

but there are those situations where one personality is more dominant than the other

at least in terms of dating and in the relationship

it's also not always the more masculine looking one

sometimes it's the feminine-looking one is more of the top in the relationship

even in the bedroom

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by TurnedOn

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

I think I know my answer but I'm in denial about it.lol

It makes me feel weird

Just fuck her good

I feel wrong though.

But I also like the piercings aspect.

Also, she's strange. She has pet lizzards and rides a unicycle.

Also she's smarter than me ....even at 21.lol



i think brains are hot.

So why not have fun? She's young, so that's probably what she's after, just the experience and fun.

Are you more worried that she won't get turned out since she's straight?

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definitely not.

when i say straight i mean she wouldn't consider a relationship ...like a real one with another woman

that's my definition

there are plenty of "straight women' that enjoy sex or even prefer sex with women

but know that they could never be with one in a serious way

aka dream of marrying a guy

that let's her have her fun on the side

......

so common

many young lezzie get hurt unfortunately because of this.



i just feel weird being older. like i'm cradle robbing or something.

she's just a kid.

a smart mature one...but a kid

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

hmmmm...i think it's getting there

as she's still trying to suss me out

asking questions about my type/ my life etc....

maybe, you don't know that... friends do that too you know. i mean i cannot imagine a girl liking someone so much that they contain themselves? which is why my best advice is wait till she makes a move on you.

hmmm friends don't laugh that hard at my jokes......lol

i mean i'm funny but not that funny

also none of my friends text me daily.......

like there's nothing established for us to really do so.

i think when you are primarily interested in a friendship you may start to text...but very sporadic

not daily...and also about random stuff..... not like school related



also i don't think there's that much effort into trying to spend more and more time with a person when you aren't trying to bang haha

someone at burning man told me i was oblivious to all the girls that who were interested in me......

which was partially true. i knew of a couple...well some were more obvious...literally saying i thought you were hot when i first saw you etc...other girls linger and giggle

it's funny because this scorpio queer woman who was telling me that i was oblivious also asked me if i was a switch instead of a top.....which she thought i'd find offensive....but was her rationale for me not knowing the Role I was supposed to play

so now i'm trying to be more self aware and apply all of what i was supposed to learn from having a social life

Just curious...don’t both women play all the roles?

No.

i think it's common to have two women whom are together be versatile sexually in the bedroom

but there are those situations where one personality is more dominant than the other

at least in terms of dating and in the relationship

it's also not always the more masculine looking one

sometimes it's the feminine-looking one is more of the top in the relationship

even in the bedroom

click to expand

Ok...men who are built to penetrate are also into oral. Same with women and sometimes it’s equally give and take 50/50 because we can...

With women I would think...why not be all because you can?

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by TurnedOn

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

I think I know my answer but I'm in denial about it.lol

It makes me feel weird

Just fuck her good

I feel wrong though.

But I also like the piercings aspect.

Also, she's strange. She has pet lizzards and rides a unicycle.

Also she's smarter than me ....even at 21.lol



i think brains are hot.

So why not have fun? She's young, so that's probably what she's after, just the experience and fun.

Are you more worried that she won't get turned out since she's straight?

definitely not.

when i say straight i mean she wouldn't consider a relationship ...like a real one with another woman

that's my definition

there are plenty of "straight women' that enjoy sex or even prefer sex with women

but know that they could never be with one in a serious way

aka dream of marrying a guy

that let's her have her fun on the side

......

so common

many young lezzie get hurt unfortunately because of this.



i just feel weird being older. like i'm cradle robbing or something.

she's just a kid.

a smart mature one...but a kid

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Oh. I think if it's just a sexual experience and know it won't really go anywhere, you're good. Maybe she's looking for some experience and to learn new things. That's usually what someone is looking for when they date up.

I'm dating a guy significantly younger then me too and I don't know what he sees in me, but I know it won't be anything long term either, so I'm fine with it for now.

Usually older women are easier to deal with cause we don't play games and know what we want. And can take care of ourselves financially, so it makes it easier for the younger person involved.

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

hmmmm...i think it's getting there

as she's still trying to suss me out

asking questions about my type/ my life etc....

maybe, you don't know that... friends do that too you know. i mean i cannot imagine a girl liking someone so much that they contain themselves? which is why my best advice is wait till she makes a move on you.

hmmm friends don't laugh that hard at my jokes......lol

i mean i'm funny but not that funny

also none of my friends text me daily.......

like there's nothing established for us to really do so.

i think when you are primarily interested in a friendship you may start to text...but very sporadic

not daily...and also about random stuff..... not like school related



also i don't think there's that much effort into trying to spend more and more time with a person when you aren't trying to bang haha

someone at burning man told me i was oblivious to all the girls that who were interested in me......

which was partially true. i knew of a couple...well some were more obvious...literally saying i thought you were hot when i first saw you etc...other girls linger and giggle

it's funny because this scorpio queer woman who was telling me that i was oblivious also asked me if i was a switch instead of a top.....which she thought i'd find offensive....but was her rationale for me not knowing the Role I was supposed to play

so now i'm trying to be more self aware and apply all of what i was supposed to learn from having a social life

Just curious...don’t both women play all the roles?

No.

i think it's common to have two women whom are together be versatile sexually in the bedroom

but there are those situations where one personality is more dominant than the other

at least in terms of dating and in the relationship

it's also not always the more masculine looking one

sometimes it's the feminine-looking one is more of the top in the relationship

even in the bedroom

Ok...men who are built to penetrate are also into oral. Same with women and sometimes it’s equally give and take 50/50 because we can...

With women I would think...why not be all because you can?

click to expand

i mean some women just like to receive

some also can get off by just giving oral

there's a lot of variation....

but yes a lesbain sexual encounter is usually like a free for all marathon.....

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

also i have been the girl that has done the touching sober thing...with one other girl....

and you are right I was really into her ....like really

but that being said"straight" girls have tried to only kiss me or go straight to third base in one instance under the influence of a weed brownie.......

i think their inhibitions prevent them

click to expand

What is third base? What was being touched?

Posted by emeraldgem

LOL - well, Gemini's are fun and not boring - in bed or out!

I agree 😄

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

also i have been the girl that has done the touching sober thing...with one other girl....

and you are right I was really into her ....like really

but that being said"straight" girls have tried to only kiss me or go straight to third base in one instance under the influence of a weed brownie.......

i think their inhibitions prevent them

What is third base? What was being touched?

click to expand

they go straight to vag stim with the fingers...you could argue that it's fourth

but both clothes were on

and also it was one way



i think with two girls...fourth would be some of the other options available that mutual physical pleasure is more of a concrete thing

some girls can orgasm just by giving another women pleasure though via their hand or mouth

with no physical stimulation from their partner

as a Pisces woman ( Pisces LOVE to give)..i think i could be one of those women

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

also i have been the girl that has done the touching sober thing...with one other girl....

and you are right I was really into her ....like really

but that being said"straight" girls have tried to only kiss me or go straight to third base in one instance under the influence of a weed brownie.......

i think their inhibitions prevent them

What is third base? What was being touched?

they go straight to vag stim with the fingers...you could argue that it's fourth

but both clothes were on

and also it was one way



i think with two girls...fourth would be some of the other options available that mutual physical pleasure is more of a concrete thing

some girls can orgasm just by giving another women pleasure though via their hand or mouth

with no physical stimulation from their partner

as a Pisces woman ( Pisces LOVE to give)..i think i could be one of those women

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Oh I thought it meant grabbing ass or boobs. I wold be annoyed if someone came up to me and did that as some form of foreplay or to show interest.

As a lesbian, isn't that offensive? It's not a form of foreplay at all. women are this gross? seems worse then guys and I would be way turned off!

"some girls can orgasm just by giving another women pleasure though via their hand or mouth

with no physical stimulation from their partner"

via their hand or mouth is physical stimulation. I don't get what you're trying to say.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

also i have been the girl that has done the touching sober thing...with one other girl....

and you are right I was really into her ....like really

but that being said"straight" girls have tried to only kiss me or go straight to third base in one instance under the influence of a weed brownie.......

i think their inhibitions prevent them

What is third base? What was being touched?

they go straight to vag stim with the fingers...you could argue that it's fourth

but both clothes were on

and also it was one way



i think with two girls...fourth would be some of the other options available that mutual physical pleasure is more of a concrete thing

some girls can orgasm just by giving another women pleasure though via their hand or mouth

with no physical stimulation from their partner

as a Pisces woman ( Pisces LOVE to give)..i think i could be one of those women

Oh I thought it meant grabbing ass or boobs. I wold be annoyed if someone came up to me and did that as some form of foreplay or to show interest.

As a lesbian, isn't that offensive? It's not a form of foreplay at all. women are this gross? seems worse then guys and I would be way turned off!"some girls can orgasm just by giving another women pleasure though via their hand or mouth

with no physical stimulation from their partner"

via their hand or mouth is physical stimulation. I don't get what you're trying to say.

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oh i made that comment because i thought you were familiar and subscribed to the concept of the fourth base being a penis in vagina sex between a man and woman ( which is at best...pleasure-inducing for both than man and the woman)

penis in vagina sex can't be fourth base for two women obviously

so i was thinking what would constitute as a fourth base

since third base in heterosexual encounters ( handjobs and oral sex) is very similar to what ultimate acts look like in lesbian sex ...

so i concluded it's when both parties have had an orgasm

in any shape or form which can take place without one person actually stimulating the other like i said

a top can orgasm with her clothes on from giving oral or just through manual stimulating her partner which i then would count as fourth base

( lol sorry for my long-winded explanation)

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by but_didyoudie

i'd say, until she makes a move... it means network

straight girls don't make physical moves though.

only when alcohol or drugs are involved from my experience dodging straight girl kisses and other more forward advances......

there's also this expectation that I make the move as the queer woman with masculine energy.....

there's this expectation like in the heterosexual world for the guy to make the first physical move....because that's what they are used to but they will let you know they are attracted to women

and or consider themselves"bi"

etc

no i think girls make moves when sober if* they really really like you.... physical or talking... eye contact.. touching you a certain way... you will know when she makes the move... otherwise networking

also i have been the girl that has done the touching sober thing...with one other girl....

and you are right I was really into her ....like really

but that being said"straight" girls have tried to only kiss me or go straight to third base in one instance under the influence of a weed brownie.......

i think their inhibitions prevent them

What is third base? What was being touched?

they go straight to vag stim with the fingers...you could argue that it's fourth

but both clothes were on

and also it was one way



i think with two girls...fourth would be some of the other options available that mutual physical pleasure is more of a concrete thing

some girls can orgasm just by giving another women pleasure though via their hand or mouth

with no physical stimulation from their partner

as a Pisces woman ( Pisces LOVE to give)..i think i could be one of those women

Oh I thought it meant grabbing ass or boobs. I wold be annoyed if someone came up to me and did that as some form of foreplay or to show interest.

As a lesbian, isn't that offensive? It's not a form of foreplay at all. women are this gross? seems worse then guys and I would be way turned off!"some girls can orgasm just by giving another women pleasure though via their hand or mouth

with no physical stimulation from their partner"

via their hand or mouth is physical stimulation. I don't get what you're trying to say.

oh i made that comment because i thought you were familiar and subscribed to the concept of the fourth base being a penis in vagina sex between a man and woman ( which is at best...pleasure-inducing for both than man and the woman)

penis in vagina sex can't be fourth base for two women obviously

so i was thinking what would constitute as a fourth base

since third base in heterosexual encounters ( handjobs and oral sex) is very similar to what ultimate acts look like in lesbian sex ...

so i concluded it's when both parties have had an orgasm

in any shape or form which can take place without one person actually stimulating the other like i said

a top can orgasm with her clothes on from giving oral or just through manual stimulating her partner which i then would count as fourth base

( lol sorry for my long-winded explanation)

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Why not if you can be strapped up? It's not off limits for fourth base to be between two women.

I don't know if there are lesbians who don't use them at all, though. My lesbian knowledge is extremely limited.

If fourth base is getting to the finish line and going all the way, then that could be open to all types of interpretations.

I was just familiar with first. I know that equals kissing. I was never sure of the acts of the other bases, cause that's too many limited sexual acts placed inside a box for me to wrap my mind around.

There are too many different combinations to stick to bases once a person moves past kissing.

Your explanation was great. I like in depth details. It helps me understand better.

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Have you dealt with the type of straight girl who likes flirting heavily and haphazardly with gay women? Just making sure she's not one of those. It definitely seems like flirting.

lol that sounds like me.

though i'm technically neither straight nor gay

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Have you dealt with the type of straight girl who likes flirting heavily and haphazardly with gay women? Just making sure she's not one of those. It definitely seems like flirting.

lol that sounds like me.

though i'm technically neither straight nor gay

I mean, the type who do that even though they have no interest in anything sexual happening. Maybe you do too...lol!

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yeah, it's literally me because i have no desire to have sex with anyone....

it's only happened once in my life ( not with this current girl)