
Adreamuponwaking
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingThat’s interesting & different .. I would do it with the right person lol
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?
Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.



Posted by Fantummaybe you weren't the placeholder
I wouldn't like it. I'd feel like he was dressing me up to pretend I was the girl he wanted to marry, when really I was just a placeholder.
That said, there's something weird but endearing about that kink.

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Posted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.


Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actuallyclick to expand

Posted by SpaceBirdyeah but the sex is the point though lolPosted by Adreamuponwakingwell for me ..it might not include sex
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?
Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.
it could be someone you don't even know too well ....but just the play with intimacy..click to expand

Posted by Fantumof course he wouldn't sayPosted by AdreamuponwakingHe would definitely do well not to let me know I was being "tried out" either. I'm a proud one. 😄Posted by Fantummaybe you weren't the placeholder
I wouldn't like it. I'd feel like he was dressing me up to pretend I was the girl he wanted to marry, when really I was just a placeholder.
That said, there's something weird but endearing about that kink.
but secretly
he was trying you outclick to expand

Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
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Posted by SpaceBirdPosted by AdreamuponwakingI would like him to be the one to wear the ring...in that casePosted by SpaceBirdyeah but the sex is the point though lolPosted by Adreamuponwakingwell for me ..it might not include sex
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?
Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.
it could be someone you don't even know too well ....but just the play with intimacy..
well half of itclick to expand

Posted by Fantumfair playPosted by AdreamuponwakingI've seen that different guys propose to different types.Posted by Fantumof course he wouldn't sayPosted by AdreamuponwakingHe would definitely do well not to let me know I was being "tried out" either. I'm a proud one. 😄Posted by Fantummaybe you weren't the placeholder
I wouldn't like it. I'd feel like he was dressing me up to pretend I was the girl he wanted to marry, when really I was just a placeholder.
That said, there's something weird but endearing about that kink.
but secretly
he was trying you out
BUT
i think it's kind of implied when a dude in general asks you to act out one of his sexual fantasies with him
they usually propose to women that make them feel empowered ,liberated and energized them in the bedroom ( as in they are just as kinky and don't shame them)
but maybe conservative / the girl next door type outside
But anyway, the poor guy would get nowhere with me. Since about the age of 22 I've demanded to know my status before anyone touches my twat. I will not play games with sex.click to expand

Posted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it isclick to expand

Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lolclick to expand

Posted by AdreamuponwakingSure. But I get to keep the ring.
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?
Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.

Posted by STILLi don't have a match unfortunatelyPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lol
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Posted by LadyNeptunehahaPosted by AdreamuponwakingSure. But I get to keep the ring.
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?
Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingLol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?Posted by STILLi don't have a match unfortunatelyPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lol
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guyclick to expand

Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?Posted by STILLi don't have a match unfortunatelyPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lol
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
click to expand

Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?Posted by STILLi don't have a match unfortunatelyPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lol
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
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Posted by STILLno cluePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?Posted by STILLi don't have a match unfortunatelyPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lol
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLno cluePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?Posted by STILLi don't have a match unfortunatelyPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lol
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
it's just always been a turn on for some reason
you'd be surprised in terms of the amount of bicurious women who are trying to pursue fantasies involving another woman ( with and without their husbands consent)......
but to tell you the truth
sleeping with a woman who was married to me is better imho.....
the ultimate turn onclick to expand

Posted by STILLloyalPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLno cluePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?Posted by STILLi don't have a match unfortunatelyPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lol
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
it's just always been a turn on for some reason
you'd be surprised in terms of the amount of bicurious women who are trying to pursue fantasies involving another woman ( with and without their husbands consent)......
but to tell you the truth
sleeping with a woman who was married to me is better imho.....
the ultimate turn on
? What type of female is ideal for you?
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Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLloyalPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLno cluePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?Posted by STILLi don't have a match unfortunatelyPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lol
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
it's just always been a turn on for some reason
you'd be surprised in terms of the amount of bicurious women who are trying to pursue fantasies involving another woman ( with and without their husbands consent)......
but to tell you the truth
sleeping with a woman who was married to me is better imho.....
the ultimate turn on
? What type of female is ideal for you?
funny
creative
smart
at the end of the day...has a good heart.....
i"m not really looking ( not online dating ) .....because I feel like I've already found her......
well at least the prototype....but it seems it can't be
trying to be positive though.....i don't know what the universe has in store for me
it was a miracle that i even met someone that could make me feel the way she did.
today is her birthday btw......
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Posted by STILLTHANK YOU. 🙂Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLloyalPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLno cluePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?Posted by STILLi don't have a match unfortunatelyPosted by AdreamuponwakingLol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄Posted by STILLa little weird but endearingPosted by Adreamuponwaking🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?Posted by STILLPosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by STILLmaybe he had commitment issues
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
sums up my personality lol
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
it's just always been a turn on for some reason
you'd be surprised in terms of the amount of bicurious women who are trying to pursue fantasies involving another woman ( with and without their husbands consent)......
but to tell you the truth
sleeping with a woman who was married to me is better imho.....
the ultimate turn on
? What type of female is ideal for you?
funny
creative
smart
at the end of the day...has a good heart.....
i"m not really looking ( not online dating ) .....because I feel like I've already found her......
well at least the prototype....but it seems it can't be
trying to be positive though.....i don't know what the universe has in store for me
it was a miracle that i even met someone that could make me feel the way she did.
today is her birthday btw......
Well I think that's sweet. Hope it works out for you. 🙂
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Posted by Jules-lldamn
I'd think it was sexier if the guy truly was proposing...but my ex husband left me allergic to engagement rings unfortunately.

Posted by MyStarsShineHAHA!
Afterwards ask him to come with you to pick up the wedding dress and rings that you've put a deposit on
Then tell him......"Summer 👰 🎩 Wedding"
😆

Posted by Libragirl321what's your mars in?
IMO it sounds like a delicious little fantasy. But I would most def want him to wear the ring. Only because this is how it would play out in my head. LOL air signs and the mental aspect of sex is always amusing. Ok he has the ring on and that means in the game that I seduced him to go to a level that is not "supposed" to be the norm. And while I was on top in control of it all even my orgasm that watching him watching me is going to make me finish 10x harder because I somehow managed to get him to abandon all morals just for his own guilty pleasure of wanting to play

Posted by Fantumlol
Well, shit, OP. If I'd known this was your fantasy I wouldn't have been as dismissive. I thought the "dude" wasn't here. 😉
If I were into a guy and he suggested that, I'm sure I'd do it and think it was sweet, but it would also set off all those questions I posted earlier, and I'd likely end up causing a scene of some sort afterwards.
So...be careful. lol

Posted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libragirl321what's your mars in?
IMO it sounds like a delicious little fantasy. But I would most def want him to wear the ring. Only because this is how it would play out in my head. LOL air signs and the mental aspect of sex is always amusing. Ok he has the ring on and that means in the game that I seduced him to go to a level that is not "supposed" to be the norm. And while I was on top in control of it all even my orgasm that watching him watching me is going to make me finish 10x harder because I somehow managed to get him to abandon all morals just for his own guilty pleasure of wanting to playclick to expand

Posted by Libragirl321oh that makes sensePosted by AdreamuponwakingPosted by Libragirl321what's your mars in?
IMO it sounds like a delicious little fantasy. But I would most def want him to wear the ring. Only because this is how it would play out in my head. LOL air signs and the mental aspect of sex is always amusing. Ok he has the ring on and that means in the game that I seduced him to go to a level that is not "supposed" to be the norm. And while I was on top in control of it all even my orgasm that watching him watching me is going to make me finish 10x harder because I somehow managed to get him to abandon all morals just for his own guilty pleasure of wanting to play
Lol virgo
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Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.