Tall dark and handsome and broke or short light and ugly and rich?

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A spin off from the tall and ugly or short and handsome thread. But with a twist. The tall dark and handsome and broke dude is very good looking who keeps himself clean at all times and at all cost but with a nasty personality while having a good sex drive whereas the short light and ugly is wealthy with a good personality. I'm talking good personality as in pulling up a chair at dinner time for the ladies, opens the car door for them and just one with a ladies first personality in general. Sadly the short dude doesn't have good sex drive though. So which one would yall choose?
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Sounds like tall guy is sexy, were as short guy is the nice guy.

Most women gladly go for the rich and nice.

I am a bit different in that sense.

The rich shorty with a low sex drive is the markings of a platonic relationship.
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Some women prefer that, as there are women with low libido.
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Sounds like tall guy is sexy, were as short guy is the nice guy.

Most women gladly go for the rich and nice.

I am a bit different in that sense.

The rich shorty with a low sex drive is the markings of a platonic relationship.

Some women prefer that, as there are women with low libido.

None I've met šŸ”„šŸ”„
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Wait till you’ve been married to them

for a few ....

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A spin off from the tall and ugly or short and handsome thread. But with a twist. The tall dark and handsome and broke dude is very good looking who keeps himself clean at all times and at all cost but with a nasty personality while having a good sex drive whereas the short light and ugly is wealthy with a good personality. I'm talking good personality as in pulling up a chair at dinner time for the ladies, opens the car door for them and just one with a ladies first personality in general. Sadly the short dude doesn't have good sex drive though. So which one would yall choose?


Well of course I’d Marry the short guy and have the tall as my sidekick bf šŸ˜›
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Tall, dark and handsome for me ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„

Nasty personality

No money

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I know, I know. šŸ˜
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šŸ˜† but what if you have to support him with him having no money. Let's say he's the type to borrow money from some friends until he gets paid. And when he does gets paid he gambles and drink it all up on alcohol not giving a damn about you. What then? The short rich unattractive guy?
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The short guy is good manners, not necessarily personality. If the short guy is stand up comedian funny, charming and masculine he becomes a desirable personality.


Yeah that's true but somehow the good manners strikes me as someone with good personality types. And I don't know. Those short masculine looking ones look so paunchy to me. I feel like masculine belongs to tall men and looks good on tall men.
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A spin off from the tall and ugly or short and handsome thread. But with a twist. The tall dark and handsome and broke dude is very good looking who keeps himself clean at all times and at all cost but with a nasty personality while having a good sex drive whereas the short light and ugly is wealthy with a good personality. I'm talking good personality as in pulling up a chair at dinner time for the ladies, opens the car door for them and just one with a ladies first personality in general. Sadly the short dude doesn't have good sex drive though. So which one would yall choose?

Well of course I’d Marry the short guy and have the tall as my sidekick bf šŸ˜›
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šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜‚
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I don’t care about money. I don’t need his money. I have my own.

But he actually has to be nice and treat me well and with respect.

What if he leeches off you though?
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No. I wouldn’t allow that.

He needs to contribute equally as me. 50-50 effort in everything.

All I am saying is I don’t need his money, his car, his house and his gifts. I always took care of myself.

My Leo ex used to say so why do you even need a man? Lol

I guess he felt a bit insecure.
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Tall, dark and handsome for me ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„

Nasty personality

No money

😬

I know, I know. šŸ˜

šŸ˜† but what if you have to support him with him having no money. Let's say he's the type to borrow money from some friends until he gets paid. And when he does gets paid he gambles and drink it all up on alcohol not giving a damn about you. What then? The short rich unattractive guy?
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No. I will not support any guy. I never did and never will.

All I am saying is I don’t need his money either. I don’t need a man to support me in any way.
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A man transforms into something smaller, in my eyes, once I see him flex some kind of toxic masculinity.

The only man I'm mesmerize with is the Pisces. He's the right dose of healthy masculinity with a touch of femininity. He's like a perfect morning and I feel bliss but he's also the sunrise I can only admire from afar.



Sighhh I forgot your question.


That's exactly what I am. A healthy dose of masculinity with a touch of feminine. To put it in perspective I'm both.

And the question is who do you like more. Handsome tall broke man or an unattractive short wealthy man.
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Tall, dark and handsome for me ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„

Nasty personality

No money

😬

I know, I know. šŸ˜

šŸ˜† but what if you have to support him with him having no money. Let's say he's the type to borrow money from some friends until he gets paid. And when he does gets paid he gambles and drink it all up on alcohol not giving a damn about you. What then? The short rich unattractive guy?

No. I will not support any guy. I never did and never will.

All I am saying is I don’t need his money either. I don’t need a man to support me in any way.
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Oh ok šŸ™‚
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Men who are ambitious and hard-working are sexy. But I don’t like a workaholic man who thinks he can compensate quality time with cash.

And I would also consider a free-spirited man who is pursuing his dreams like arts, music, education and travel. He doesn’t have to have much money wise. Like I said, I don’t need anything from him but just him.
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The short guy is good manners, not necessarily personality. If the short guy is stand up comedian funny, charming and masculine he becomes a desirable personality.

Yeah that's true but somehow the good manners strikes me as someone with good personality types. And I don't know. Those short masculine looking ones look so paunchy to me. I feel like masculine belongs to tall men and looks good on tall men.

Masculinity is about behaviour. Some people might argue, but incredibly short men like Danny DeVito, Joe Pesci and Bushwick Bill appear more masculine than a lot of tall men.

I know in a lot of countries good manners are regarded as being the same as good character. I don't really class it as personality, i think personality is more about attitude, opinions, mannerisms, life style , hobbies.
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Oh yeah I know it's about behavior. I was thinking in terms of looks. Like some people has a masculine looking face while there are some that has that kind of a cute looking feminine face. Would you believe me if I tell you I got that latter?
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The short guy is good manners, not necessarily personality. If the short guy is stand up comedian funny, charming and masculine he becomes a desirable personality.

Yeah that's true but somehow the good manners strikes me as someone with good personality types. And I don't know. Those short masculine looking ones look so paunchy to me. I feel like masculine belongs to tall men and looks good on tall men.

Masculinity is about behaviour. Some people might argue, but incredibly short men like Danny DeVito, Joe Pesci and Bushwick Bill appear more masculine than a lot of tall men.

I know in a lot of countries good manners are regarded as being the same as good character. I don't really class it as personality, i think personality is more about attitude, opinions, mannerisms, life style , hobbies.

Oh yeah I know it's about behavior. I was thinking in terms of looks. Like some people has a masculine looking face while there are some that has that kind of a cute looking feminine face. Would you believe me if I tell you I got that latter?
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This is interesting. I think my face is slightly more masculine looking than traditional feminine. I think most Geminis are a mix of both.

But I have curves so that helps. However, sometimes my attitude is what’s considered more masculine. All that Leo in my chart.
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If a man provides for you and you depend on him, there are strings attached.

I’ve seen my friends whose husbands act like they own their wives. They are in total control of their life. But I guess, since he is paying…ok 🤷

I just cannot imagine that scenario for myself.

My husband doesn’t even have money to buy pizza for himself when he stay at home
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Lol, that’s too bad.

He should maybe find a way to make some dinero.
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Men who are ambitious and hard-working are sexy. But I don’t like a workaholic man who thinks he can compensate quality time with cash.

And I would also consider a free-spirited man who is pursuing his dreams like arts, music, education and travel. He doesn’t have to have much money wise. Like I said, I don’t need anything from him but just him.

What about a triathlon man in a spandex onesie or whatever they wear
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Not into hikers, runners and gym goers.

Bad personality based on experience.
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The short guy is good manners, not necessarily personality. If the short guy is stand up comedian funny, charming and masculine he becomes a desirable personality.

Yeah that's true but somehow the good manners strikes me as someone with good personality types. And I don't know. Those short masculine looking ones look so paunchy to me. I feel like masculine belongs to tall men and looks good on tall men.

Masculinity is about behaviour. Some people might argue, but incredibly short men like Danny DeVito, Joe Pesci and Bushwick Bill appear more masculine than a lot of tall men.

I know in a lot of countries good manners are regarded as being the same as good character. I don't really class it as personality, i think personality is more about attitude, opinions, mannerisms, life style , hobbies.

Oh yeah I know it's about behavior. I was thinking in terms of looks. Like some people has a masculine looking face while there are some that has that kind of a cute looking feminine face. Would you believe me if I tell you I got that latter?

This is interesting. I think my face is slightly more masculine looking than traditional feminine. I think most Geminis are a mix of both.

But I have curves so that helps. However, sometimes my attitude is what’s considered more masculine. All that Leo in my chart.
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Ironically I have far more masculine in my chart and you would think I'm a strong one. I feel people be taking my kindness for weakness and take full advantage of me every chance they get. Everytime when someone want or need something from me (most especially women in this case. And even worse if it's a scorpio one) watch me feel sympathy and give it to them. That's why I tend to run from women. Im just a yes person obviously.
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The short guy is good manners, not necessarily personality. If the short guy is stand up comedian funny, charming and masculine he becomes a desirable personality.

Yeah that's true but somehow the good manners strikes me as someone with good personality types. And I don't know. Those short masculine looking ones look so paunchy to me. I feel like masculine belongs to tall men and looks good on tall men.

Masculinity is about behaviour. Some people might argue, but incredibly short men like Danny DeVito, Joe Pesci and Bushwick Bill appear more masculine than a lot of tall men.

I know in a lot of countries good manners are regarded as being the same as good character. I don't really class it as personality, i think personality is more about attitude, opinions, mannerisms, life style , hobbies.

Oh yeah I know it's about behavior. I was thinking in terms of looks. Like some people has a masculine looking face while there are some that has that kind of a cute looking feminine face. Would you believe me if I tell you I got that latter?

This is interesting. I think my face is slightly more masculine looking than traditional feminine. I think most Geminis are a mix of both.

But I have curves so that helps. However, sometimes my attitude is what’s considered more masculine. All that Leo in my chart.

Ironically I have far more masculine in my chart and you would think I'm a strong one. I feel people be taking my kindness for weakness and take full advantage of me every chance they get. Everytime when someone want or need something from me (most especially women in this case. And even worse if it's a scorpio one) watch me feel sympathy and give it to them. That's why I tend to run from women. Im just a yes person obviously.
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Are you dating a Scorpio now?

Yeah. I don’t like weakness and especially when you are kind and they think they can walk all over you. That really triggers me.
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Let's be honest here, you girls want it all but you can't have it all. It's either one or the other. You want the rich guy while banging the guy you are sexually attracted to. This is modern stuff and it's no secret anymore. I've had many married women.


I think in the end, most people end up with someone like themselves. For better or worse.

Similar socio-economic backgrounds, similar physical looks and similar temper/personality.

There simply isn’t that many tall, handsome, rich guys to go around. There simply isn’t that many young, gorgeous women to go around for every guy who wants them. Most women are average in looks.

So we all compromise on everything. Little bit of bit and little bit of that.
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I don’t care about money. I don’t need his money. I have my own.

But he actually has to be nice and treat me well and with respect.

What if he leeches off you though?

No. I wouldn’t allow that.

He needs to contribute equally as me. 50-50 effort in everything.

All I am saying is I don’t need his money, his car, his house and his gifts. I always took care of myself.

My Leo ex used to say so why do you even need a man? Lol

I guess he felt a bit insecure.
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Yes I get that...i’m the same
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The short guy is good manners, not necessarily personality. If the short guy is stand up comedian funny, charming and masculine he becomes a desirable personality.

Yeah that's true but somehow the good manners strikes me as someone with good personality types. And I don't know. Those short masculine looking ones look so paunchy to me. I feel like masculine belongs to tall men and looks good on tall men.

Masculinity is about behaviour. Some people might argue, but incredibly short men like Danny DeVito, Joe Pesci and Bushwick Bill appear more masculine than a lot of tall men.

I know in a lot of countries good manners are regarded as being the same as good character. I don't really class it as personality, i think personality is more about attitude, opinions, mannerisms, life style , hobbies.

Oh yeah I know it's about behavior. I was thinking in terms of looks. Like some people has a masculine looking face while there are some that has that kind of a cute looking feminine face. Would you believe me if I tell you I got that latter?

This is interesting. I think my face is slightly more masculine looking than traditional feminine. I think most Geminis are a mix of both.

But I have curves so that helps. However, sometimes my attitude is what’s considered more masculine. All that Leo in my chart.

Ironically I have far more masculine in my chart and you would think I'm a strong one. I feel people be taking my kindness for weakness and take full advantage of me every chance they get. Everytime when someone want or need something from me (most especially women in this case. And even worse if it's a scorpio one) watch me feel sympathy and give it to them. That's why I tend to run from women. Im just a yes person obviously.

Are you dating a Scorpio now?

Yeah. I don’t like weakness and especially when you are kind and they think they can walk all over you. That really triggers me.
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No I'm not dating no scorpio. It's just that a lot of these scorpio women around here thinks I'm their father. And I hate it when women say I'm sweet. I do something for them (as a favor just for being nice) that's suppose to make me sweet. According to them obviously.
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Let's be honest here, you girls want it all but you can't have it all. It's either one or the other. You want the rich guy while banging the guy you are sexually attracted to. This is modern stuff and it's no secret anymore. I've had many married women.

I think in the end, most people end up with someone like themselves. For better or worse.

Similar socio-economic backgrounds, similar physical looks and similar temper/personality.

There simply isn’t that many tall, handsome, rich guys to go around. There simply isn’t that many young, gorgeous women to go around for every guy who wants them. Most women are average in looks.

So we all compromise on everything. Little bit of bit and little bit of that.

Not entirely true. My uncle is a dark man and is married to a white woman.
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Hey, I am not disputing that it doesn’t happen. Some people truly don’t care and actually attracted to white or dark (opposite).

But most people end up with someone who is like themselves. Just observe around and see majority of people.

I have an attraction to a specific type of a man. Do you have a preference?
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Let's be honest here, you girls want it all but you can't have it all. It's either one or the other. You want the rich guy while banging the guy you are sexually attracted to. This is modern stuff and it's no secret anymore. I've had many married women.

Had sex with them?

I said a similar thing to someone when he said he sleeps with women? I said I prefer to shag them. 😸
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They say ā€œrideā€ in Ireland and ā€œshiftā€

for kissing/snogging

Whole new world lol
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A spin off from the tall and ugly or short and handsome thread. But with a twist. The tall dark and handsome and broke dude is very good looking who keeps himself clean at all times and at all cost but with a nasty personality while having a good sex drive whereas the short light and ugly is wealthy with a good personality. I'm talking good personality as in pulling up a chair at dinner time for the ladies, opens the car door for them and just one with a ladies first personality in general. Sadly the short dude doesn't have good sex drive though. So which one would yall choose?

Why so extreme choices ?

Wouldn’t it be better to be single then
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It's just for fun. I'm trying to brighten things up around here a bit.
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Let's be honest here, you girls want it all but you can't have it all. It's either one or the other. You want the rich guy while banging the guy you are sexually attracted to. This is modern stuff and it's no secret anymore. I've had many married women.

Had sex with them?

I said a similar thing to someone when he said he sleeps with women? I said I prefer to shag them. 😸

😃

They say ā€œrideā€ in Ireland and ā€œshiftā€

for kissing/snogging

Whole new world lol

I think it was one of the Roddy Doyle novels that had the phrase "I wouldn't ride if she came with pedals".
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Dying šŸ˜‚

That’s such typical Dublin humour🤣
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Let's be honest here, you girls want it all but you can't have it all. It's either one or the other. You want the rich guy while banging the guy you are sexually attracted to. This is modern stuff and it's no secret anymore. I've had many married women.

I think in the end, most people end up with someone like themselves. For better or worse.

Similar socio-economic backgrounds, similar physical looks and similar temper/personality.

There simply isn’t that many tall, handsome, rich guys to go around. There simply isn’t that many young, gorgeous women to go around for every guy who wants them. Most women are average in looks.

So we all compromise on everything. Little bit of bit and little bit of that.

Not entirely true. My uncle is a dark man and is married to a white woman.

Hey, I am not disputing that it doesn’t happen. Some people truly don’t care and actually attracted to white or dark (opposite).

But most people end up with someone who is like themselves. Just observe around and see majority of people.

I have an attraction to a specific type of a man. Do you have a preference?

Yes, I like pretty white girls.
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