When you want to hang out with a guy/ be friends but you get the feeling he wants to bang?

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Posted by Adreamuponwaking

I was just invited to come prepare a meal at his apartment.

I've only talked about my interest in women around this dude

but aries men like a challenge i guess.

help please

what should i say / do

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Going back to anyone's house is the danger zone. Far better to keep to neutral places like coffee shops.
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This!

Additionally, it's not about what he wants but WHAT you ALLOW.
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Wait wut

He invited YOU to HIS house to cook FOR HIM??

Rude.

no to cook together

Ohhhh kk maybe he’s gay

i wish

our last hangout he went in for the "accidental booty feel"
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I don’t think you should go to his house. That would show interest in his eyes. He’s interested if he’s telling you that you guys can cook together and he’s trying to feel you up.

You will be in his space. And if you don’t have the guts to even say you aren’t interested and only love women, then you probably shouldn’t be in his home. Anything can happen.
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Posted by Sjess
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Sjess
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Sjess

Wait wut

He invited YOU to HIS house to cook FOR HIM??

Rude.


no to cook together

Ohhhh kk maybe he’s gay

i wish

our last hangout he went in for the "accidental booty feel"

Ew. I wouldn’t talk to him at all why are you even talking to him still?
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because he's cuddly and laughs at all my jokes.

i'm also quite lonely here on the east coast.

if i were straight i'd probably go for it
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Sjess
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Sjess
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by Sjess

Wait wut

He invited YOU to HIS house to cook FOR HIM??

Rude.

no to cook together

Ohhhh kk maybe he’s gay

i wish

our last hangout he went in for the "accidental booty feel"

Ew. I wouldn’t talk to him at all why are you even talking to him still?

because he's cuddly and laughs at all my jokes.

i'm also quite lonely here on the east coast.

if i were straight i'd probably go for it
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Try bi!