Could this possibly be my twin flame?

You have a lot in common?

How many women have you impregnated recently...?

I would think, he didn’t just get some random girl pregnant. He was seeing her the whole time he was talking to you. Let it go and let him be, he now has a family so no point entertaining any ideas at all.

Posted by LadyNeptune

You have a lot in common?

How many women have you impregnated recently...?

Why was that comment necessary for you? I’m obviously just trying to get some advice. If you can’t do that for me - why not just put your time to better use?

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Posted by Sarayoung7777

I’m a Virgo and he is a Taurus. Does that mean anything lol—

You should be compatible

I heard a similar story - new gf included - but it involved different signs

I thought you were maybe those ppl

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Haha oh, don’t think anyone knows our story but all the best to the other people you know!

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Posted by Sarayoung7777

Haha oh, don’t think anyone knows our story but all the best to the other people you know!

Obviously, I was joking but there were parallels between the two stories such as : you ve known each other for yrs, you had an attraction, it faded, you went on separate ways, time went by, you met again, you felt the flame, yet he was going to be a daddy now, no longer a bachelor.

So I would say yes, this was your twin flame, but your time with him is not now. Maybe if his wife dies or they divorce, you could make a move . Now let him enjoy his firstborn and don't be the other woman.

But definitely twin flames. There's a silver lining here: You'll meet again later down the road

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Definitely have no intention on ever being the other woman. Really just wanted to know why I’m still feeling such a pull for the guy when I’m not even sure I’d give him the time of day again considering how things went down, and how childish he is. Really just wanted to see if the twin flame thing could possibly be why.. but thank you!!

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Posted by LadyNeptune

You have a lot in common?

How many women have you impregnated recently...?

Why was that comment necessary for you? I’m obviously just trying to get some advice. If you can’t do that for me - why not just put your time to better use?

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So you only consider it advice if its what you want to hear. Predictable.

To answer your question, yes your a bit crazy.

You reach out to him on a sm platform and he responded with casual conversation. Now your one side obsession has caused you to ask internet strangers to confirm your hopes that he's your soul mate.

But dude wake up and smell the reality.

He had half a decade + to make an effort to know you past an acquaintance … for a friendship even. He didn't.

He has a family.

Up to you if you want to waste your time pinning after someone who you think ghosted you when the reality is he entertained a casual online conversation. Thats all.

Saying he 'spiraled his life' just because you feel you were the better choice over his baby mamma is a bit arrogant. He didn't choose you. Get. Over. It.

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Up to you if you want to waste your time pinning after someone who you think ghosted you when the reality is he entertained a casual online conversation. Thats all.

in reality, as if you were there

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Based on the info given

"we were talking for about 2 months casually"

"he tells all his friends he hates me"

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Sarayoung7777

Posted by LadyNeptune

You have a lot in common?

How many women have you impregnated recently...?

Why was that comment necessary for you? I’m obviously just trying to get some advice. If you can’t do that for me - why not just put your time to better use?

So you only consider it advice if its what you want to hear. Predictable.

To answer your question, yes your a bit crazy.

You reach out to him on a sm platform and he responded with casual conversation. Now your one side obsession has caused you to ask internet strangers to confirm your hopes that he's your soul mate.

But dude wake up and smell the reality.

He had half a decade + to make an effort to know you past an acquaintance … for a friendship even. He didn't.

He has a family.

Up to you if you want to waste your time pinning after someone who you think ghosted you when the reality is he entertained a casual online conversation. Thats all.

Saying he 'spiraled his life' just because you feel you were the better choice over his baby mamma is a bit arrogant. He didn't choose you. Get. Over. It.

Wowowowoowow reading that message and laughing at how YOU could ever call someone else crazy or arrogant......

when I said we were talking for 2 months... I obviously meant seeing each other—? The fact you got from my message that I didn’t even get passed a social media conversation is hilarious! I literally said we have so much in common (I wouldn’t know much through social media) And, we hangout with the same friends lmao

I didn’t even say anything about his baby mom.... so how you got the impression that I think I’m the better choice is insane to me.... I literally am trying to figure out why I FEEL the way I do. Nothing to do with how he feels about me, nothing about his baby mom, nothing about his family... etc.

So, if my message is what someone like yourself who I should add... seems to be VERY involved in the internet world considers “crazy” maybe I should be a bit worried lmao. This had a lot less to do with him and his life than it did me trying to figure out how I’m feeling.

Thanks for your opinion though. The internet is lucky to have you !

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I hear what you are asking to know but I also read everything as ladyNeptune said. Maybe it’s the way you’ve chosen to tell your story, you do come off as, you wanting this man and also the jilted love interest.

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Posted by Sarayoung7777

Posted by LadyNeptune

You have a lot in common?

How many women have you impregnated recently...?

Why was that comment necessary for you? I’m obviously just trying to get some advice. If you can’t do that for me - why not just put your time to better use?

So you only consider it advice if its what you want to hear. Predictable.

To answer your question, yes your a bit crazy.

You reach out to him on a sm platform and he responded with casual conversation. Now your one side obsession has caused you to ask internet strangers to confirm your hopes that he's your soul mate.

But dude wake up and smell the reality.

He had half a decade + to make an effort to know you past an acquaintance … for a friendship even. He didn't.

He has a family.

Up to you if you want to waste your time pinning after someone who you think ghosted you when the reality is he entertained a casual online conversation. Thats all.

Saying he 'spiraled his life' just because you feel you were the better choice over his baby mamma is a bit arrogant. He didn't choose you. Get. Over. It.

Thanks for your opinion though. The internet is lucky to have you !

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😂😂😂💀 *High five*

Idk whether or not he's a twin flame, a soulmate or a sky God but obviously you have strong feelings there and there is nothing wrong with that nor you trying to figure out the why. I get it...I truly do. If I had to wage a guess....Pluto or 8th H synastry is involved there. Idk how well you are versed in astrology but run a synastry chart if you can (you'll have to know his birth time for accuracy) then google it all. It might help explain why you're feeling the way you do about him. Also get to know your own chart if you haven't already...it could give you some answers there too.

It seems to me you’re looking for an explanation of your attachment to him. I don’t believe he’s a twin flame based on your description. But please state what makes you so attached to him.

The purpose of a twin flame is to change your life by getting you to know yourself better. I don't think he has done that for you? Wait a few months and see how you feel. You are probably just shocked at how things fell by the wayside so abruptly before you were properly given a chance. You also seem to assume he is unhappy with his current situation and it's giving you the one who got away vibes. I'd suspect you are over-romanticising the situation as a way of coping. Sometimes the ones that hurt the most are the ones we never had. x

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by Sarayoung7777

Posted by LadyNeptune

You have a lot in common?

How many women have you impregnated recently...?

Why was that comment necessary for you? I’m obviously just trying to get some advice. If you can’t do that for me - why not just put your time to better use?

So you only consider it advice if its what you want to hear. Predictable.

To answer your question, yes your a bit crazy.

You reach out to him on a sm platform and he responded with casual conversation. Now your one side obsession has caused you to ask internet strangers to confirm your hopes that he's your soul mate.

But dude wake up and smell the reality.

He had half a decade + to make an effort to know you past an acquaintance … for a friendship even. He didn't.

He has a family.

Up to you if you want to waste your time pinning after someone who you think ghosted you when the reality is he entertained a casual online conversation. Thats all.

Saying he 'spiraled his life' just because you feel you were the better choice over his baby mamma is a bit arrogant. He didn't choose you. Get. Over. It.

Wowowowoowow reading that message and laughing at how YOU could ever call someone else crazy or arrogant......

when I said we were talking for 2 months... I obviously meant seeing each other—? The fact you got from my message that I didn’t even get passed a social media conversation is hilarious! I literally said we have so much in common (I wouldn’t know much through social media) And, we hangout with the same friends lmao

I didn’t even say anything about his baby mom.... so how you got the impression that I think I’m the better choice is insane to me.... I literally am trying to figure out why I FEEL the way I do. Nothing to do with how he feels about me, nothing about his baby mom, nothing about his family... etc.

So, if my message is what someone like yourself who I should add... seems to be VERY involved in the internet world considers “crazy” maybe I should be a bit worried lmao. This had a lot less to do with him and his life than it did me trying to figure out how I’m feeling.

Thanks for your opinion though. The internet is lucky to have you !

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Good luck with that