45 yo Virgo male...can't read him

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So I started dating this Virgo man and can't read if it's a Virgo thing, guy trying to get laid, or if maybe by chance it's the real deal between us (is he the real deal, mature man who knows what he wants and it has nothing to do with being a Virgo).

Met online, we both want similar things (long term relationship, both have kids and would like to meet someone that we can eventually do things with our kids together, not sure about remarriage, but want a best friend/lover/partner/relationship). There is great attraction between us, but after 3 dates, haven't slept together or done more than kiss and hug. He is quite funny, I love seeing him, talking to him and being around him. I'm trying to figure out if his "moving fast" (as in talking out loud a lot of what he expects in our future together, like meeting kids, how often we'd see each other, going to Disney - I admit I've thought of these things because that is what I want in a partner but would NEVER actually share them this early!!!!!)

I don't want my suspicious thoughts to ruin this great time I'm having getting to know him, but I'm just curious about this aspect of his personality. He's so open about his feelings and thoughts!!
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Posted by 25thDecan
Ah, the steady friend called time..seems that getting to know him is likely going to tell you all about him and how either of your intentions match your goals much better than what we could. We'd be pretty myopic to assume his virgo-ness is just talking to you to hear himself wax poetic. And..we are not legion....



That's what I thought...that it doesn't have as much to do with his Virgo-ness than just whatever it is about him/his personality/us...that I have yet to find out! That's the fun part about dating! I will stop analyzing and be patient and like you said time is my friend lol

I actually hesitated to post since I *just* met him and don't really know him, but I thought I'd give it a try.