So I know I'm late but I just started reading the book 50 shades of grey and for some reason I feel mr. Grey is a Virgo. Just how secretive and reserved he is. He reminds me of my Virgo bf in some ways. Well I'm hooked on the book so far. I've read up to chapter 10. And I saw the preview of the movie which I will be seeing valentines day of next year. Btw the actor playing mr. Grey is hot.. So those of you who have read the book what are your thoughts. Do you think mr. Grey is a Virgo? Are all of you Virgo men overly sexual behind closed doors? Would you Virgo men be interested in s&m— Or is that too much? Are you more dominate or submissive? Men more so then women and vice versa. Would love to hear from all of you guys and women!!
50 shades of grey and/or 50 shades of virgo

50 shades----->beginners stuff

Spoiler:
Sleeping with an earth sign you're one of two things:
-sex toy
-sex slave
Men, women...all go by this.
Sleeping with an earth sign you're one of two things:
-sex toy
-sex slave
Men, women...all go by this.

I would say that Christian Grey is a Capricorn....Anna, is a Sagittarius, and Katherine Kavanaugh is an Aries.

Posted by SirHorns
Spoiler:
Sleeping with an earth sign you're one of two things:
-sex toy
-sex slave
Men, women...all go by this.
ha! nice. +1000. to top or bottom? hmmm lol
@sirhorns
Interesting so my Virgo would be def. interested in this type of stuff!
Me being a water sign idk if it's just me or water signs as a whole, I have no problem being submissive.
But it seems like virgos are so shy. I want him to get out of his shell and get aggressive. Talk dirty to me, tie me up,tell me what you're going to do to me. I feel like he shys away like he's afraid to do those things. How do I get him out of that?
Interesting so my Virgo would be def. interested in this type of stuff!
Me being a water sign idk if it's just me or water signs as a whole, I have no problem being submissive.
But it seems like virgos are so shy. I want him to get out of his shell and get aggressive. Talk dirty to me, tie me up,tell me what you're going to do to me. I feel like he shys away like he's afraid to do those things. How do I get him out of that?
@easha23000us
Really well idk any caps.. But just from reading he seemed so much like my Virgo I just have to bring the crazy freak out of him.
Are virgos into this type of thing?
I'm interested in trying it with my Virgo when he comes back home but I don't want him to get weird and shy on me.
@kittenlarouge @sirhorns I don't mind being a sex slave ,) huge turn on!!
Really well idk any caps.. But just from reading he seemed so much like my Virgo I just have to bring the crazy freak out of him.
Are virgos into this type of thing?
I'm interested in trying it with my Virgo when he comes back home but I don't want him to get weird and shy on me.
@kittenlarouge @sirhorns I don't mind being a sex slave ,) huge turn on!!

I know I am but some girls give this vibe like don't go there but from my experience most are for it. you just got to do it.

A virgo male doing 50 shades of grey. In their dream. 😄

Posted by PiscesGoddess
@sirhorns
Interesting so my Virgo would be def. interested in this type of stuff!
Me being a water sign idk if it's just me or water signs as a whole, I have no problem being submissive.
But it seems like virgos are so shy. I want him to get out of his shell and get aggressive. Talk dirty to me, tie me up,tell me what you're going to do to me. I feel like he shys away like he's afraid to do those things. How do I get him out of that?
You're being intimate with a Virgo and he isn't doing really dirty things with you? Are you sure he's Virgo?
These guys are the dark horses of the zodiac... Scorp ain't got nothing on a Virgo, these guys are animals in bed....

Posted by JenovaPosted by PiscesGoddess
@sirhorns
Interesting so my Virgo would be def. interested in this type of stuff!
Me being a water sign idk if it's just me or water signs as a whole, I have no problem being submissive.
But it seems like virgos are so shy. I want him to get out of his shell and get aggressive. Talk dirty to me, tie me up,tell me what you're going to do to me. I feel like he shys away like he's afraid to do those things. How do I get him out of that?
You're being intimate with a Virgo and he isn't doing really dirty things with you? Are you sure he's Virgo?
These guys are the dark horses of the zodiac... Scorp ain't got nothing on a Virgo, these guys are animals in bed....click to expand
I'm glad somebody know!! 😉

Posted by AVGPosted by JenovaPosted by PiscesGoddess
@sirhorns
Interesting so my Virgo would be def. interested in this type of stuff!
Me being a water sign idk if it's just me or water signs as a whole, I have no problem being submissive.
But it seems like virgos are so shy. I want him to get out of his shell and get aggressive. Talk dirty to me, tie me up,tell me what you're going to do to me. I feel like he shys away like he's afraid to do those things. How do I get him out of that?
You're being intimate with a Virgo and he isn't doing really dirty things with you? Are you sure he's Virgo?
These guys are the dark horses of the zodiac... Scorp ain't got nothing on a Virgo, these guys are animals in bed....
I'm glad somebody know!! 😉click to expand
Oh... hahaha I am a Sag (with Scorp asc, Virgo moon + 3 other Virgo placements) we know a good ride when we get one... 😉 lol...
This is odd to me because my man is a Virgo and I'm a scorpio and our sex can get pretty wild. He's not shy at all!

Posted by PiscesGoddess
So I know I'm late but I just started reading the book 50 shades of grey and for some reason I feel mr. Grey is a Virgo. Just how secretive and reserved he is. He reminds me of my Virgo bf in some ways. Well I'm hooked on the book so far. I've read up to chapter 10. And I saw the preview of the movie which I will be seeing valentines day of next year. Btw the actor playing mr. Grey is hot.. So those of you who have read the book what are your thoughts. Do you think mr. Grey is a Virgo? Are all of you Virgo men overly sexual behind closed doors? Would you Virgo men be interested in s&m— Or is that too much? Are you more dominate or submissive? Men more so then women and vice versa. Would love to hear from all of you guys and women!!
Separate the book/fantasy from real life. You'll end up with expectations and assumptions which will ultimately end up this Virgo not having a chance in hell.
@jenova
He doesn't like to talk dirty to me. In person or via txt he doesn't. I just want him to tell me what he wants to do to me. Say something off the wall but nothing. It's so disappointing because that really gets me going. I mean it gets intense but I need words I need to be hurt a little. Make it more intense n ruff. He's never had angry sex before and that shocked the hell out of me. Angry sex is amazing. I try to push his buttons and see if I can get it out of him without having to say it but I guess I'll have to break it down for him and tell him.
@scorpy76 I mean the sex is great but it can be a little marriage like sometimes.. Predictable... I like spontaneity.. Change the scenery, change the way you approach the sex. I tried to introduce adding food into the bed and he was not having it. He was turned off that it was sticky and I was turned off that that's all he was focusing on.
But I wouldn't mind if he tied me up and cornered me a little more. I always carry handcuffs in my purse too just to use for those occasions but I rather he do it to me WITHOUT me telling him.
How do you get a Virgo to be more kinky?
He doesn't like to talk dirty to me. In person or via txt he doesn't. I just want him to tell me what he wants to do to me. Say something off the wall but nothing. It's so disappointing because that really gets me going. I mean it gets intense but I need words I need to be hurt a little. Make it more intense n ruff. He's never had angry sex before and that shocked the hell out of me. Angry sex is amazing. I try to push his buttons and see if I can get it out of him without having to say it but I guess I'll have to break it down for him and tell him.
@scorpy76 I mean the sex is great but it can be a little marriage like sometimes.. Predictable... I like spontaneity.. Change the scenery, change the way you approach the sex. I tried to introduce adding food into the bed and he was not having it. He was turned off that it was sticky and I was turned off that that's all he was focusing on.
But I wouldn't mind if he tied me up and cornered me a little more. I always carry handcuffs in my purse too just to use for those occasions but I rather he do it to me WITHOUT me telling him.
How do you get a Virgo to be more kinky?
@letitbe
I've had similar intense sex like the book with my ex, a Taurus. But I want to explore that with my Virgo. He seems so shy. I want to get him out of his comfort zone. I'm the shy one I don't need him getting all shy on me. Then we'll both just sit there awkwardly. I guess I should tell him but it's so much better when they do it without you even having to mention it. And also Maybe he'll get like that when I see him next because we haven't seen each other in so long (almost 6 months and counting) that he'll just go crazy on me.
I've had similar intense sex like the book with my ex, a Taurus. But I want to explore that with my Virgo. He seems so shy. I want to get him out of his comfort zone. I'm the shy one I don't need him getting all shy on me. Then we'll both just sit there awkwardly. I guess I should tell him but it's so much better when they do it without you even having to mention it. And also Maybe he'll get like that when I see him next because we haven't seen each other in so long (almost 6 months and counting) that he'll just go crazy on me.
@virgoking
I'll ask him what his thoughts are and if he could step out of his box. That would be amazing. Glad you're a Virgo and actually have an open mind to doing this stuff.. It gives me hope that mine will..
I'll ask him what his thoughts are and if he could step out of his box. That would be amazing. Glad you're a Virgo and actually have an open mind to doing this stuff.. It gives me hope that mine will..

Posted by PiscesGoddess
@letitbe
I've had similar intense sex like the book with my ex, a Taurus. But I want to explore that with my Virgo. He seems so shy. I want to get him out of his comfort zone. I'm the shy one I don't need him getting all shy on me. Then we'll both just sit there awkwardly. I guess I should tell him but it's so much better when they do it without you even having to mention it. And also Maybe he'll get like that when I see him next because we haven't seen each other in so long (almost 6 months and counting) that he'll just go crazy on me.
Well guess what? If he's not doing what you'd like him to do it's because you aren't communicating it to him...they aren't mind readers. Put the 50 shades book down and get a book on Virgo...you might then see, that out of all the sun signs, when you ask or tell Virgo what it is you want they go above and beyond to oblige. Don't assume that because you haven't seen each other in 6 months, he's suddenly going to KNOW what you want because you are reading a book.

...why haven't you seen him for 6 months?
@letitb
He's deployed 😢 ... I'm having a drought and that book was amazing. I guess because I haven't had any in forever I'm just thinking about all the things I want him to do to me and the book gave me some insight on what I might want to try. So we talked about it but he doesn't seem too enthused. He said he doesn't talk dirty because he has nothing to say. if I wanted him to say something he would just repeat what I want him to say -_- where's the originality, where's the fun in that?! Then he said if he tied me up we will be limited on positions. I just want him to be in the moment and go with it. Get out of his box. How do I get him to be more spontaneous?
He's deployed 😢 ... I'm having a drought and that book was amazing. I guess because I haven't had any in forever I'm just thinking about all the things I want him to do to me and the book gave me some insight on what I might want to try. So we talked about it but he doesn't seem too enthused. He said he doesn't talk dirty because he has nothing to say. if I wanted him to say something he would just repeat what I want him to say -_- where's the originality, where's the fun in that?! Then he said if he tied me up we will be limited on positions. I just want him to be in the moment and go with it. Get out of his box. How do I get him to be more spontaneous?
Posted by SirHornsHa! Love this *wink*
Spoiler:
Sleeping with an earth sign you're one of two things:
-sex toy
-sex slave
Men, women...all go by this.

Posted by Easha23000usHe's a Gemini, I'm pretty sure his birthday is referenced in the book around June 18th, in their emails.
I would say that Christian Grey is a Capricorn....Anna, is a Sagittarius, and Katherine Kavanaugh is an Aries.
Posted by MadMarchRamPerhaps he was an earthy Gemini...?Posted by Easha23000usHe's a Gemini, I'm pretty sure his birthday is referenced in the book around June 18th, in their emails.
I would say that Christian Grey is a Capricorn....Anna, is a Sagittarius, and Katherine Kavanaugh is an Aries.click to expand
Both signs can be very sexual. Geminis are outspoken about their sexuality and virgos keep it classy !
He probably was a very kinky mature Gemini who took advantage of his classy earthy side to explore his fantasies in secret which in turn allowed him to peacefully walk around in the streets portraying only the respectable business man image that he was supposed to be . That's how ( most) earthy signs roll 😉
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