A January Capricorn Lady & An August Virgo Man

I need to know who will help me with the current Virgo man I've fallen for... Preferably Aug Virgo Men and Jan Cap Women... Experiences, Situations, Outcomes etc etc...

should explain the TB part... got pleanty of guy friends i hang out with and pleanty of girl mates too but they r all very girly compared to me. they get the guys to get them a wine and i head to the bar with em to get a beer while they get the wine for the girls lol!

August Virgos like to be controlled/dominated ... but, first you have to find out if he likes you. You've said that you have fallen for him, what has he done to show interest?

And don't say he has a "look" and stares at you because that doesn't mean he likes you, it means he wants to fuck you.

No, you're mistaken. That stare is one of horniness, not love for your soul. When a Virgo man is in love with your soul, he behaves differently.

Posted by CapricornWomen
so when i said i had more to say, what u just said i find hard to believe now... cause this stare of his has been since we were 8! we r 25 yrs old now, u can't say it was and always will b a stare out of horniness? i find that extremely hard to believe!

I'm not talking about looking at you .. I'm talking about The Stare .. if you don't know the difference, then he hasn't given you The Stare.

I asked originally ... what he has done to show interest, and I still ask this question.

Or, it's possible that he's wanted your panties off since 8 years old and you've never experienced a regular look.

CapricornWoman .. you still haven't said what he does to show interest.

I also find it odd that you two have been close for 17 years and you don't know enough about him to figure this out on your own.

You know that he looks at you .... and that's about all.

hahah Im a Sept 7th Virgo and my gf of over 2 years is a cappy. She can be a bit of a tomboy at times too (Aries moon) 😛

@MrShakalakaBoom: Hello ,what's the latest about this Flying Dutchman?🙂
that combination described in the title of the thread from my observation really on point
However i've noticed sometimes there's a lot of competetivness who's the better in doing something.
Well,i've no doubt you as a real gentleman ,almost always leave your lady to win🙂

i'm just curious in your experiense in relationship field,haven't you met a virgo girl who could catch you with her eyes just starring at you across the room?
I guess the chemistry will be instant,because of so much similarities in the way of thinking and etc.

Posted by 25thDecan
Aug 25th here. Like to be controlled? Um...no. I AM control, period.

Yeah...cap women come off as arrogant, game players and a lil flaky....january ones that is. Hard shell, flaky and dismissive interior. You cannot dismiss me. I matter. I WILL FUCK OVER YOU IF YOU ACT DISMISSIVE TOWARDS ME.

Zodiac out of the way I feel that the two of you need to stop hanging together and date. You can play this shrewdly(though at 25 and a woman I highly doubt you'll listen until you're 30) and 1)make yourself available to him AWAY from all other friends on the next group outing so a connection beyond "buddy" can be made and 2) mark your territory. If you give a shit about this dude you need to show it. Sit next to him. Touch him.....then, watch how he assumes his role as your "man".
Listen to Dy and Yossarian. August virgos are peace loving compared to sept virgos...until issues of control arise. Want to be hated? Dismiss or seek to control an august virgo, you'll have one VERY dedicated and twisted enemy on your hands.....

true august virgos are more nicer than sept virgos we dont like controlling people i dont pointless to me lmao.

he most have fixed placements in is chart like leo scorp aqua or taurus.

i am not sure what time he was born but he is always quiet and very sweet around me, i love it! i feel i just need to reach out to hug him to make HIM feel safe! but then the tables turn i am the one who needs those strong arms! ahhhhhhh he makes me crazy just thinking of him! i swear you virgo men will be the death of me! i nice one though lol!

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
hahah Im a Sept 7th Virgo and my gf of over 2 years is a cappy. She can be a bit of a tomboy at times too (Aries moon) 😛

i can be girly but i'd rather not be lol! just doesn't suit me 😆

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

Posted by 25thDecan
Aug 25th here. Like to be controlled? Um...no. I AM control, period.

Yeah...cap women come off as arrogant, game players and a lil flaky....january ones that is. Hard shell, flaky and dismissive interior. You cannot dismiss me. I matter. I WILL FUCK OVER YOU IF YOU ACT DISMISSIVE TOWARDS ME.

Zodiac out of the way I feel that the two of you need to stop hanging together and date. You can play this shrewdly(though at 25 and a woman I highly doubt you'll listen until you're 30) and 1)make yourself available to him AWAY from all other friends on the next group outing so a connection beyond "buddy" can be made and 2) mark your territory. If you give a shit about this dude you need to show it. Sit next to him. Touch him.....then, watch how he assumes his role as your "man".
Listen to Dy and Yossarian. August virgos are peace loving compared to sept virgos...until issues of control arise. Want to be hated? Dismiss or seek to control an august virgo, you'll have one VERY dedicated and twisted enemy on your hands.....

true august virgos are more nicer than sept virgos we dont like controlling people i dont pointless to me lmao.

he most have fixed placements in is chart like leo scorp aqua or taurus.

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i agree Aug Virgos are much nicer (only agree cause i hav dated both and the Sept virgo was a handfull! the Aug Virgo not so much at all!)

i dont think i want to really cause if i do msg or call what if he backs off more?

*clucking tongue* And what if you keep withdrawing into imaginings? You can wonder yourself into a froth, or find out.

*sigh* he will be back this month to spend easter with his family so i was thinking of waiting till he is back cause i dont trust texting or phone convos, i'm sure to mess up some how... esp when i haven't been single for so long lol! oh! i would love for u guys to see who he is and u'd know what i mean when i say i dont want to mess this up lmao!

Just be you. Best advice, hands down.

:o) i think i may need a couple of beers though tehe cause he makes me nervous and i dont think before i speak but once i've had a couple of cold ones i relax so much more around him and we hav great fun! i know sounds bad but it is true we hav a ball!

You're giggling at me again Dec...do I...amuse you in some fashion? *grin*

lmao! fosters! we haven't had fosters here since i was like 10! nah carlton dry for me mate! or corona! and no nothing wrong with beer, it is my daily vitamin once i finish work... (as u can c work is pretty slow for me today cause i am on here :o) then it's off to north gong pub to watch the footy with the girls... i am hoping he will be there tonight cause i dont know when he is getting back but all i know if that it is soon...

Posted by CapricornWomen
:o) i think i may need a couple of beers though tehe cause he makes me nervous and i dont think before i speak but once i've had a couple of cold ones i relax so much more around him and we hav great fun! i know sounds bad but it is true we hav a ball!

Not bad. 🙂 Have a Guinness for me, a proper one. I miss it.

I sure will my dear :o) You would all love the beer here in Aus! After all you like Fosters 😆

Excellent. 🙂 I enjoyed the beer in England just fine, I'm sure I would in Oz as well. It's not the same from a bottle as it is sitting in a pub having a pint.

true that, but i'll only drink tap if they have my beer... use to work in a bar so i've had my fair share of taste testing 😆 been thinking of opening my own bar too cause i miss the atmosphere of just going out to meet your mates for a few cold necks with dinner

Just letting you all know now that I just got news he is back on Monday! So i have taken into consideration all of your advice and knowledge and will use it over the next couple of weeks coming up to easter... (since this is how long he'll be here for) he isn't even here yet and i am getting nervous!

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

true august virgos are more nicer than sept virgos we dont like controlling people ...

I didn't say a controlling a person .... 25thDecan cannot comprehend what I say due to his inability to control his emotions when I am in the room ... and then you commented on his misunderstanding of what I said.


A Virgo likes to be controlled and dominated .... nothing said about controlling people.

Posted by CapricornWomen

.. and asked if I'd get married (I have just broken up with my fianc? 3 months before who was also a Virgo) ..

Warning !!!! Warning !!!!


Bells ringing !!!!!!!!


Lights Flashing !!!!!!

Posted by CapricornWomen

... he said that to stop messaging him.

He hasn't responded to you since? He's not MIA because he hasn't even fallen for you yet. A Virgo going MIA isnt' going to tell you to stop contacting them, rather, he would stall havnig to talk to you, while leaving impressions that he's interested.

I'm a tad concerned about you breaking up with a fiance 3 months prior and now in love again so quickly ..... I'm sure he saw lights flashing in front of his face too.

But, he got the snatch .. so all is good in his VirgoLand.

Posted by CapricornWomen

So can it be possible that we are meant to be together?

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No possibility at all ... he doesn't act smitten, he acts like a man who told you whatever you wanted to hear so you'd let him in

Posted by CapricornWomen
true that, but i'll only drink tap if they have my beer... use to work in a bar so i've had my fair share of taste testing 😆 been thinking of opening my own bar too cause i miss the atmosphere of just going out to meet your mates for a few cold necks with dinner

Too right. I was most pleasantly surprised at the whole pub environment, and met some extended friends of my friend. Terrific people, keep in touch via email. And speaking of which, need to zip off a couple of 'letters'. 🙂

I dont agree about August Virgos being nicer, in fact the thing that strikes me most about them is they seem to always go through life carrying a chip on their shoulder. 2nd/3rd decans are more laid-back and unlike 1st decans, dont need too many words to make a similar impact on other people (especially 2nd decan). 1st decans carry way too much Mercury (1st decan rulership belongs to Mercury), that can never be good.

Inferior? who said that?

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I dont agree about August Virgos being nicer, in fact the thing that strikes me most about them is they seem to always go through life carrying a chip on their shoulder. 2nd/3rd decans are more laid-back and unlike 1st decans, dont need too many words to make a similar impact on other people (especially 2nd decan). 1st decans carry way too much Mercury (1st decan rulership belongs to Mercury), that can never be good.

and why not lol.

i'm back! who wants to know what happened?

I do! 😄

Posted by P-Angel
August Virgos like to be controlled/dominated ...

So do September Virgos 😉