actions and words are different from virgo man

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by mermaidland on Sunday, May 27, 2012 and has 5 replies.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Three things .......

1. Virgos often do things for people just because the other person might benefit. It doesn't always mean there is an alterior motive. In fact, most of the things they do for other people is just because they want to be nice. And it doesn't mean anything other than that ...

.. which leads the way to #2

2. The Virgo's intentions are often misunderstood (read some threads in here for numerous examples of this). Because of this, the Virgo struggles in voicing (verbally expressing) how they feel, due to a fear of being misunderstood. By the time adulthood hits, the Virgo has spent it's lifetime not addressing how it feels, because this fear is overwhelming. It leads to numerous other issues that you have probably experienced, such as the Virgo not feeling worthy enough.

.. which leads to #3

3. A person can only master that in which they experience. Since the Virgo tends to withdraw from embracing how they feel (due to #2 above), then they've never learned to how to put things in proper perspective. They have developed a handicap, of sorts, that makes the expression of feelings nearly impossible to convey.

A person cannot actively participate in reciprocation of emotional expression if they have never allowed themselves to deal with the feelings, properly.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Because the Pisces has a literal dual existence in reality, the "other side" of this reality is where they experience feelings actively, they learn from day one how to discern what these feelings are and how to incorporate them into their lives.

When a virgo is partnered with a Pisces .... the Fish can convey how the Virgo feels to him/her accurately, and the Virgo feels completely comfortable in knowing that they aren't misunderstood.

You're a Pisces?

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@RealTalk
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Posted by P-Angel
This is a condition that has striken all Virgos ... fortunately, Pisces people exist.

Wow you've had the luxury to meet ALL of the Virgos in the entire world— That must have been an AMAZING experience!!! Because you know we are GODS gift to astrology...HA!!! Unfortunately, Pisces do exist. Feels? Utterly pathetic. What a fucking waste of a sign...

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@lindavi20
14 Years

Posted by P-Angel
Three things .......

1. Virgos often do things for people just because the other person might benefit. It doesn't always mean there is an alterior motive. In fact, most of the things they do for other people is just because they want to be nice. And it doesn't mean anything other than that ...

.. which leads the way to #2

2. The Virgo's intentions are often misunderstood (read some threads in here for numerous examples of this). Because of this, the Virgo struggles in voicing (verbally expressing) how they feel, due to a fear of being misunderstood. By the time adulthood hits, the Virgo has spent it's lifetime not addressing how it feels, because this fear is overwhelming. It leads to numerous other issues that you have probably experienced, such as the Virgo not feeling worthy enough.

.. which leads to #3

3. A person can only master that in which they experience. Since the Virgo tends to withdraw from embracing how they feel (due to #2 above), then they've never learned to how to put things in proper perspective. They have developed a handicap, of sorts, that makes the expression of feelings nearly impossible to convey.

A person cannot actively participate in reciprocation of emotional expression if they have never allowed themselves to deal with the feelings, properly.

i do agree with this... to a degree. i was with someone that forced me to be open about things.. that was the only good things out of the relationship, but as time has passed, and people arent aleays as honest as they seem, i have definitely been way more selective of who i let in again.