All good things must end... (Page 2)

Thanks guys, I have tried to make myself clear on the fact I'm not going anywhere. In a way, I think he expects that I won't "wait", makes it easier for him to give me permission, so to speak, I think.

As for P - it's called trust!

Trust my ass ... lying again.


Everytime you open your mouth .. you lie.



There's no fucking way a Virgo would turn over his financials to a person he barely knows .. and he damn sure isn't going to do it with a woman to whom he doesn't have a commitment with.

You may be able to bullshit some in here, mostly the Scorpios and Aquas .. not me, I'm not that stupid.


This has all been a fantasy, a tale you've woven .. and it looks like people here are that gullible. Again, a person would only have to go read what you write about the Pisces man you love stringing along to know you are the last person a Virgo should trust.

Uh Sorry P, no bullshit'n over here, I'm an Aquarius and lildol is not fooling me at all, I said day one it wasn't a real relationship but hey it's her life, she can do what she wants and if it makes her happy to be in the situation she's in so be it.

This site is full of gullible, near sighted women that believe the impossible, it's some form of brainwashing be it from herself or from her man or both hell I dunno....to each her own.

I believe it's horseshit simply because I've followed the chronicles of lil for a long time.I know all the relationship history and games she's posted here for the past year or more.I used to try and help her understand the Pisces,because with her Gem moon she just doesn't get it.Then I realized she was just playing games with him,and really living on the surface.
I know that this Virgo,after seeing her play games with him and the Pisces...which led to an altercation in which the Virgo's expensive sun glasses were broken,is not going to trust her enough after 3 or 4 months to turn his finances over to her.Not many,especially a Virgo,would do that.
I also know she lives in her head and invents her own reality.
that does not mean I dislike her or think bad of her,it just means she's very transparent to me.she changes stories like underwear,always altering them as needed to suit the feedback she gets.
The man is trying to free himself of her.when you care enough to turn your finances over to someone...you don't tell them to date someone else to be happy.(and take care of my money,I'll be back in 3 months)especially a Virgo...he is after all an earth sign.what's ours is ours,we want to be the one's making the happy.and our finances are kinda important to us. 😉
So,I'm sorry but I smell horseshit also,and have for sometime.

We actually told her a few months ago in the fish tank that the Virgo would soon see her facade.

lildoll is all about appearances,how her life LOOKS to others,not how to actually go deeply enough to live it.

I will be back with my rebuttal after more coffee or possibly a nap,I'm not running on all cylinders today. 🙂

I agree with Bella...It's all in her head but the reality is, if that's were she (lildol) feels comfortable then that's on her. Although many of us see through her shenanigans with this virgo and it's really on her to sift through all that to get to the truth if she if is even willing to do that.

Many women don't listen, she only listens to what she wants for herself and the role she's appointed to the man and not actually listens to what he the man wants.

How much more clearer does he have to be, he clearly in no uncertain terms said he doesn't want a relationship with her, now this is the thing and many women need to wake up and understand what it means when a man says I don't want a relationship with you, many men are saying I don't want a relationship with you but then he's also sticking around to get the benefits of a relationship such as the sex, the money, the cooked meals, the dates, the spending time together AFTER he's dumped her and many women fall for it in hopes that he changes his mind, in hopes that he will forget that he said he didn't want a relationship, she fail to understand she just put herself in a low value no power position which includes having no power to say what she wants without being met with resistance, he has an out and he's not about to let that out go, the out is his prior statement that he didn't want a relationship with her. I don't know one woman that wouldn't feel slighted being with a man that she once had a title with next being downsized as a FWB, that has to make a woman feel low and desperate inside and that's partly why many women stick it out, she's attempting to get her title back when really she if she was using her common sense dump him and move on until he get his act together.

I have followed lildol's story from the paying his phone bill to the glasses to the business deal and I forewarned her back in August that he would end things with her but in his case he's ended things title wise but he's sticking around GAINING the benefits that come with a relationship.

Of course he hasn't went anywhere, why should he go when he know he can get his immediate needs met without the frustration or pressure of being in a relationship with her, excellent deal for him, crappy deal for her.