Aries girl-Virgo guy? Unstable. HELP!

Okay. Here's the thing. I am an Aries girl so inlove with a Virgo guy.
But I am really confused because being with him for two months is exhausting me.
I am so inlove with him that it hurts.

We met a year ago online. Lost touch and talked again last February. He wanted
Friends with Benefits kind of relationship and I didn't want it. We still talked and flirted
though. One day, after reuniting for weeks, I made him admit he loves me and so he
started to distance himself and ignore me. But while he is supposed to be ignoring me,
I did all the begging and all. He still tried to distance himself until he said he cannot do it.
So, he came back to me and said I love you to each other. Now, we are 'in a relationship'
but I just don't get him. He isn't like any other man who sends good morning text messages
and all. What he sends me everyday is : Hi How are you? I love you. I miss you.
That becomes like a routine daily and as a girl, I'm looking for more that sweeps me
off my feet. But I am settling for that because I love him.
There are days that we are extremely sweet with each other and we would even 'make out'
online but after that, there are these dreaded days when he distances himself so much that I
feel so alone. I feel so ignored and when he does that, my heart aches so much,
I keep on telling him but he seems not to do anything about it.
He isn't that expressive and sometimes, I feel like we run out of things to talk about.
I want him to be my boyfriend/bestfriend at the same time but then he is just so distant
and secretive. Btw, he is also sick right now. Sick as in he has cancer. That's another reason
why I think he avoided me the first time He told me he loves me. But I told him I wanna be there
for him until the end and I know he is going to be okay.

I wanna pin him down. What can I do? I want him to be into me as well. He tells me he loves
me and he is there for me when I have a problem. (only on that day and he seem to
poof again). Sometimes, when he doesnt message me, I feel like he may be talking or flirting with
someone else. I know, I am insecure as my ex did it to me. Please, anyone?

Posted by Ariangirl
I wanna pin him down. What can I do? I want him to be into me as well.

I think it's the thrill of the chase that is holding your interest. If you truly had any real concept of love or comprehension of loving someone until the end...you would simply accept them as they are, be a little more empathetic to their condition, and focus more on just growing with them spiritually, evolving with them mentally, and being extremely patient. The two of you have been exclusive for only two months now. Any tangible, concrete displays of love and loyalty is proven over time. Your 'impatience' level speaks volumes about who you are.

Posted by Ariangirl

But I am really confused because being with him for two months is exhausting me.
I am so inlove with him that it hurts.

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