As a Virgo guy, How do u react for getting friendzoned by a girl you like?

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Posted by Ixi

What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.

Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.

Won't you at least fight for her?
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What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.

Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.

Won't you at least fight for her?

No, I wouldn't fight for her, because I respect her boundaries and her words, also I don't want to make my crush my opponent.

I don't think it should have to be said that fighting your crush for them to like you is NOT a pathway to fulfillment.

Consider this, the implication of "fighting for her" would mean that I would have to fight against her because she is the force here who is "preventing" a relationship.

Of course (and in truth) she isn't preventing anything, she has no obligation to be available to me or anyone just because I or they want her.

You really shouldn't want to pressure someone into developing feelings...choose people who choose you back, and are enthusiastic about deepening the connection.
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no, I like a Virgo guy, but I friendzoned him
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Posted by Ixi

What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.

Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.

Won't you at least fight for her?

No, I wouldn't fight for her, because I respect her boundaries and her words, also I don't want to make my crush my opponent.

I don't think it should have to be said that fighting your crush for them to like you is NOT a pathway to fulfillment.

Consider this, the implication of "fighting for her" would mean that I would have to fight against her because she is the force here who is "preventing" a relationship.

Of course (and in truth) she isn't preventing anything, she has no obligation to be available to me or anyone just because I or they want her.

You really shouldn't want to pressure someone into developing feelings...choose people who choose you back, and are enthusiastic about deepening the connection.

no, I like a Virgo guy, but I friendzoned him
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And it's a shame he does not like you though. Move on already.
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Posted by Ixi

What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.

Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.


This right here. There's nothing else to say or do. You cannot force your will on someone else, and the fact that we Virgos often give so much it's simply a waste of energy to exude such efforts. Our past actions spoke for themselves. If you find them disagreeable, oh well. Life goes on. Besides, love doesn't have to be fought for at all. It has to be freely given by both parties involved for any relationship to develop or not.
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Don’t really care.

It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.

And she’ll be even more of a challenge.

It’s all about my confidence.

Not her games of rejection.

I’m a face value type of person.

"Not her games of rejection."

"I’m a face value type of person."

No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.

It's not a game, she don't like you.
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When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.

I guess you never had the ā€œno means yesā€ mindfuck type of chick.

Follow along young child.
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Posted by Hypnotoad
Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Don’t really care.

It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.

And she’ll be even more of a challenge.

It’s all about my confidence.

Not her games of rejection.

I’m a face value type of person.

"Not her games of rejection."

"I’m a face value type of person."

No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.

It's not a game, she don't like you.

When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.

I guess you never had the ā€œno means yesā€ mindfuck type of chick.

Follow along young child.

Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.
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Op isn’t even friendzoning.

She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll ā€œfight for herā€.

Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters ā€œwill fight for herā€.

That’s what I’m responding to.

This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.
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Don’t really care.

It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.

And she’ll be even more of a challenge.

It’s all about my confidence.

Not her games of rejection.

I’m a face value type of person.

"Not her games of rejection."

"I’m a face value type of person."

No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.

It's not a game, she don't like you.

When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.

I guess you never had the ā€œno means yesā€ mindfuck type of chick.

Follow along young child.

Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.

Op isn’t even friendzoning.

She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll ā€œfight for herā€.

Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters ā€œwill fight for herā€.

That’s what I’m responding to.

This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.
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under unavoidable circumstances i kept him in friendzone so that his family should not be harsh in break us apart
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Posted by Moloko_vellocet
Posted by Hypnotoad
Posted by Moloko_vellocet

Don’t really care.

It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.

And she’ll be even more of a challenge.

It’s all about my confidence.

Not her games of rejection.

I’m a face value type of person.

"Not her games of rejection."

"I’m a face value type of person."

No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.

It's not a game, she don't like you.

When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.

I guess you never had the ā€œno means yesā€ mindfuck type of chick.

Follow along young child.

Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.

Op isn’t even friendzoning.

She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll ā€œfight for herā€.

Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters ā€œwill fight for herā€.

That’s what I’m responding to.

This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.
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Lol what else do you expect from a Cancer?

That's why I always say "fuck them and toss them".

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Don’t really care.

It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.

And she’ll be even more of a challenge.

It’s all about my confidence.

Not her games of rejection.

I’m a face value type of person.

"Not her games of rejection."

"I’m a face value type of person."

No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.

It's not a game, she don't like you.

When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.

I guess you never had the ā€œno means yesā€ mindfuck type of chick.

Follow along young child.

Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.

Op isn’t even friendzoning.

She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll ā€œfight for herā€.

Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters ā€œwill fight for herā€.

That’s what I’m responding to.

This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.

Lol what else do you expect from a Cancer?

That's why I always say "fuck them and toss them".

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She’s playing ā€œunaccountableā€ and it’s irritating me.
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Don’t really care.

It gives me power to try harder with the next dime piece.

And she’ll be even more of a challenge.

It’s all about my confidence.

Not her games of rejection.

I’m a face value type of person.

"Not her games of rejection."

"I’m a face value type of person."

No you're not taking her for face value if you're calling her rejection a game.

It's not a game, she don't like you.

When they reject to get you to chase, and then call you up wondering where you disappeared to because you stopped chasing.

I guess you never had the ā€œno means yesā€ mindfuck type of chick.

Follow along young child.

Thats not what being friendzoned is, at all.

Op isn’t even friendzoning.

She’s rejecting to make the insecure and then wondering if he’ll ā€œfight for herā€.

Go back to the previous page and see her response and wondering if the virgo posters ā€œwill fight for herā€.

That’s what I’m responding to.

This thread is all smoke and mirrors for Op’s game playing.

under unavoidable circumstances i kept him in friendzone so that his family should not be harsh in break us apart

Well, the whole friendzone thing probably just convinced his family that they're doing the right thing for him.
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if i didn't do, issue would have became as a threat to my life
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Posted by Ixi

What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.

Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.

This right here. There's nothing else to say or do. You cannot force your will on someone else, and the fact that we Virgos often give so much it's simply a waste of energy to exude such efforts. Our past actions spoke for themselves. If you find them disagreeable, oh well. Life goes on. Besides, love doesn't have to be fought for at all. It has to be freely given by both parties involved for any relationship to develop or not.

I disagree about being able to force your will.
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whatever it is, love means force, love means wanting to be with another person and looking after them, love means being there for each other
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Posted by Ixi

What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.

Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.

This right here. There's nothing else to say or do. You cannot force your will on someone else, and the fact that we Virgos often give so much it's simply a waste of energy to exude such efforts. Our past actions spoke for themselves. If you find them disagreeable, oh well. Life goes on. Besides, love doesn't have to be fought for at all. It has to be freely given by both parties involved for any relationship to develop or not.

I disagree about being able to force your will.
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Look at it this way and most Virgo men understand this naturally. Soldiers and maybe even generals need to raise their voices and press the issues. Kings don't have a reason to raise their voices. As a matter of fact, if a King lift his finger towards you, you're dead where you stand. We Virgos have no need to force anything because inside the fiber of our being we know the world is already ours...
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Posted by Ixi

What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.

Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.

This right here. There's nothing else to say or do. You cannot force your will on someone else, and the fact that we Virgos often give so much it's simply a waste of energy to exude such efforts. Our past actions spoke for themselves. If you find them disagreeable, oh well. Life goes on. Besides, love doesn't have to be fought for at all. It has to be freely given by both parties involved for any relationship to develop or not.

I disagree about being able to force your will.

whatever it is, love means force, love means wanting to be with another person and looking after them, love means being there for each other
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Flat out.. You're mistaken about your ideas about love. Love is not about self or want. Love is a selfless sacrifice for another human being. Love wants nothing other than to be able to be freely given. It expects nothing in return and exists in an ever hopeful mindset. Maturity teaches us all that this is true.
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What is there to react to? I may express genuine (but restrained) disappointment but ultimately I acknowledge her decision and get on with my day/life.

Not every woman a dude kicks it to will be receptive. She has no obligation to want me even if I want her, and being anything else other than graceful about it is immature in truth.

Won't you at least fight for her?

No, I wouldn't fight for her, because I respect her boundaries and her words, also I don't want to make my crush my opponent.

I don't think it should have to be said that fighting your crush for them to like you is NOT a pathway to fulfillment.

Consider this, the implication of "fighting for her" would mean that I would have to fight against her because she is the force here who is "preventing" a relationship.

Of course (and in truth) she isn't preventing anything, she has no obligation to be available to me or anyone just because I or they want her.

You really shouldn't want to pressure someone into developing feelings...choose people who choose you back, and are enthusiastic about deepening the connection.

no, I like a Virgo guy, but I friendzoned him

Virgos are logical and intuitive. He most likely knows this is a manipulation tactic.

What is your sign?
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cancer