babyc89
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cancer woman (me) dating a virgo man. help? :)
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i need a little help on do's/dont's.
don't ......... try to impress people, least of all a Virgo, with being successful and educated, and then use the word, "hanged" .... just like me, he'll think you're full of bullshit, and likely lying.
An educated person, especially an attorney who has to articulate themselves well, isn't going to have such atrocious grammar.
Posted by babyc89
...... even though we only hanged with his friends once or twice.
Just in case you edit and then pretend as though you didn't say it.
I'll just say good luck.
Posted by P-AngelWhere did you get the notion that just because someone went to law school, their grammar should be good? I have dealt with numerous lawyers in Toronto in my last position and most of them had terrible writing skills. Forget word usage, but no concept of punctuation and even spelling. Get your head out of your ass. Thanks.Posted by babyc89
i need a little help on do's/dont's.
don't ......... try to impress people, least of all a Virgo, with being successful and educated, and then use the word, "hanged" .... just like me, he'll think you're full of bullshit, and likely lying.
An educated person, especially an attorney who has to articulate themselves well, isn't going to have such atrocious grammar.
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hey guys, english isn't my first language. i'm sorry. i'm brazilian, haha.
well, he started college when he was 17, he is a doctor at the age of 27. here in brazil this is normal. i have other friends that are doctors since they were 25. it's not unusual.
Posted by P-AngelEnglish is not my first language, i'm brazilian. I don't think my message was written in ATROCIOUS grammar, let alone on a disrespectful manner. 🙂Posted by babyc89
i need a little help on do's/dont's.
don't ......... try to impress people, least of all a Virgo, with being successful and educated, and then use the word, "hanged" .... just like me, he'll think you're full of bullshit, and likely lying.
An educated person, especially an attorney who has to articulate themselves well, isn't going to have such atrocious grammar.
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Posted by AriesLoveHe is a "general" doctor or something like that? haha. I'm not sure how to explain, he's not a specialist already but he is a licensed doctor. Consider that we are brazilian and he started college/university at the age of 17, he is now a doctor. He's specializing in oncology too, like your father. 🙂 i like your advice, thank you.
Really would like to know what kind of doctor he is at the age of 27. My father is an Oncologist and it took him at least 11 years. He wasn't an attending physician until his 30's.
I'm dating a Virgo. Just found out he's a Virgo/Libra cusper. I feel as long as they are showing you attention, planning future dates and being consistent with communication they are still very interested and see you as potential. I don't see them as wasting time type of men. I don't bring up the future with mines. We've been dating about 2 months now, no sex but he has expressed that he would like to work towards something. I didn't really get into any detail or further the convo because I'm not rushing but I will respect him and see where it goes.
Don't use astrology, don't question and enjoy the time together the end.
Posted by P-Angelwhy would i pretend i didn't say it? it's just a way of saying things, no need to complicate it or make a big deal about it! really, it's just an honest mistake. Like i said, english is not my first language. Not looking for trouble, only looking for advice, haha!Posted by babyc89
...... even though we only hanged with his friends once or twice.
Just in case you edit and then pretend as though you didn't say it.
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Posted by Weedsi've been thinking about this, honestly. it seems too complicated to use astrology sometimes!! haha 🙂
Don't use astrology, don't question and enjoy the time together the end.
Posted by AriesLovePosted by babyc89Yeah I would just kind of relax since you've only been dating a month. The fact that you've seen each other 15X and have been intimate all within the month probably has your mind rushing a little farther than it should. That's why I prefer to take things slowly, build a solid friendship and go on fulfilling dates. Leaves some mystery between the both of us and gets us excited about our next encounter.Posted by AriesLoveHe is a "general" doctor or something like that? haha. I'm not sure how to explain, he's not a specialist already but he is a licensed doctor. Consider that we are brazilian and he started college/university at the age of 17, he is now a doctor. He's specializing in oncology too, like your father. 🙂 i like your advice, thank you.
Really would like to know what kind of doctor he is at the age of 27. My father is an Oncologist and it took him at least 11 years. He wasn't an attending physician until his 30's.
I'm dating a Virgo. Just found out he's a Virgo/Libra cusper. I feel as long as they are showing you attention, planning future dates and being consistent with communication they are still very interested and see you as potential. I don't see them as wasting time type of men. I don't bring up the future with mines. We've been dating about 2 months now, no sex but he has expressed that he would like to work towards something. I didn't really get into any detail or further the convo because I'm not rushing but I will respect him and see where it goes.
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This ^^^
A lot has happened within the space of just one month. You've seen each other 15 times. That's once every two days. I only assume sex happened quite early on within the month. Certainly before you ascertained what it was he was looking for and certainly before you've given the actual dating process time to flow. Seeing each other every other day offers no time to reflect or any breathing space.
The feelings you are now having arise inside you because you jumped in too soon with him without getting to know him and and without him showing you what it is he is looking for. It could be sex, it could be passing the time, it could be a relationship but you don't know because you didn't ask him and then wait before opening your legs.
A doctor having time to see you every other day? He has far too much time on his hands. What do you do when you see each other? Is he actually investing any time with you other than for sex?
Sweetheart, if he's constantly in touch and introducing you to his friends circle then it's moving in the right direction. Just stay honest with your feelings and acts because he already knows what you are; don't try to put up a facade, he will appreciate it since he can see right through it. Other than that, clingy, demanding, obsessive, over emotional work with most Virgo men. Virgos want propriety in everything. If you stay upright and are confident in what you are, he will definitely fall for you.
If he's a doctor, he might have more compassion towards people and that is better for you as he might be not typical cold, indifferent Virgo. Rest, take it in a stride and good luck!
If he's a doctor, he might have more compassion towards people and that is better for you as he might be not typical cold, indifferent Virgo. Rest, take it in a stride and good luck!
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on the first nights we went out he said a lot of things, that i was perfect, that those were the best dates of his life, things like that.
i have met a few of his friends since then, even though we only hanged with his friends once or twice.
and while things are in fact very good (we get along really well, sex is amazing!!!) i'm wondering if this thing has a future? i mean, i'm getting pretty involved on this and i'm really not sure how he feels. He is very quiet about his feelings, but he seems to demonstrate he likes me through little things (like bringing me food, haha).
also, i'm going through a hard time with family problems and he's always down to listen me and he's very affectionate towards me.
i know that it can take some time for a virgo to fall in love, so i need a little help on do's/dont's. i don't want him to feel pressured, i'm just scared that i might get way too much into this for "nothing".
other facts: he only had one girlfriend and they broke up when he was 21. he says the relationship was terrible and she was too jealous and demanding. also, he says that i'm the first girl he introduced to his friends. i know (he told me) 2 years ago he was kinda liking a girl but when he met her she was already moving to another country and since then he just had random hookups.
any thoughts on this? 🙂 thanks!