I’m Scorpio women and he is Virgo. We were in long distance relationship and about to get married. I broke with him after 11 months as he was still always upset cuz of his ex not letting him go after being divorced for more than 2 yrs. still we were best friends as I cud not resist staying away from him long. When he came to meet m we had a really good time and on leaving he just stopped talking to m. I asked about our relationship status but he said he is scared. Again this went in for an year as I thought he needs time. Now again I had argument with him he said he loves m but is scared to get married and whenever he talks to m he feels hurt. So I just let him go and said he doesn’t needs to b guilty i’ll Take care of my feelings but thing is I can’t let him go . We been together since 3 yrs there’s no one else in our lives nor we ever tried. I msg him he would behave like all normal and witty with his same good sense of humour and the convo ends on we both saying to each other “ miss u a lot” . I don’t know what should I do ? He’s my best friend and vice Versa he admits I’m the first person with whom he wants to share his happiness/ sadness. I don’t get why he can’t admit to marrying m and chose to suffer us both. I admitted many times that I wish to b with him but he always says he is scared . Please help.
Confused about Virgo man behaviour

He's stringing you along.
Hello Scorp228,
I think that the reason he’s doing this is because Virgo’s at least outwardly can be very sensitive and critical people. I as a Virgo Man myself have been hurt and I’m still not open to letting people get close to my heart because I’m not sure I would be able to handle someone breaking it. As a sign we are self-critical people and for many of us we never meet the standard we set for ourselves. Mix that in with a relationship that went south with no real closure and you have a Virgo who will keep you at arm’s length for fear of giving their heart to the wrong person. Still if you’re ready to marry and he is not then it’s clear that you have to let him go. You two are in two different mind spaces and I wouldn’t tell someone to wait forever on a ‘maybe’. What’s been done to him may cause him to never open up again and you deserve better than to keep waiting on something that might happen. You two can of course still be friend, but perhaps it’s time to branch out? At any rate I hope everything works out for you!
I think that the reason he’s doing this is because Virgo’s at least outwardly can be very sensitive and critical people. I as a Virgo Man myself have been hurt and I’m still not open to letting people get close to my heart because I’m not sure I would be able to handle someone breaking it. As a sign we are self-critical people and for many of us we never meet the standard we set for ourselves. Mix that in with a relationship that went south with no real closure and you have a Virgo who will keep you at arm’s length for fear of giving their heart to the wrong person. Still if you’re ready to marry and he is not then it’s clear that you have to let him go. You two are in two different mind spaces and I wouldn’t tell someone to wait forever on a ‘maybe’. What’s been done to him may cause him to never open up again and you deserve better than to keep waiting on something that might happen. You two can of course still be friend, but perhaps it’s time to branch out? At any rate I hope everything works out for you!


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