Dating Virgo woman while I am Libra

Hello everyone,

First off I’d like to say this community taught me a lot and I’m glad this forum exists to help people so thank you!

Okay, here’s my situation so any help would be appreciated. I met this Virgo girl online. After a few weeks of chatting we decided to meet. Our first date was good and so was the next dates. We have tons of commonalities and I always love to be around her. Now I’ve been dating this Virgo female for a few months now (we aren’t exclusive) and it’s actually my longest dating relationship ever so I asked her about how she felt if we move a step up to which she said she’s not sure. She says she likes me but she says it never increased. On the other hand, she knows I like her more. Now I don’t know if I should continue wait for her or just end it and move on as I don’t know if we would ever even be together. Another problem I have is whenever we text and I ask questions, she would seem to avoid answering to which I get annoyed. There was an incident one time that I did not text her the entire day (I was really busy and I know she was out with friends so I didn’t want to make it seem so needy) , she got upset and asked me why I didn’t text her. I apologized and promised I would text her everyday. Whenever I tried to kiss her (peck on the lips) she would evade and say it’s her normal reaction. When I asked her if I can kiss her she doesn’t say anything. I am so confused and I even told her that I have never dated a Virgo and feel so clueless to how they think. Please tell me what I should do. I really like her but I don’t want to push her away and most certainly don’t want to feel clingy. Thanks

Posted by LibraManbcb

Hello everyone,

First off I’d like to say this community taught me a lot and I’m glad this forum exists to help people so thank you!

Okay, here’s my situation so any help would be appreciated. I met this Virgo girl online. After a few weeks of chatting we decided to meet. Our first date was good and so was the next dates. We have tons of commonalities and I always love to be around her. Now I’ve been dating this Virgo female for a few months now (we aren’t exclusive) and it’s actually my longest dating relationship ever so I asked her about how she felt if we move a step up to which she said she’s not sure. She says she likes me but she says it never increased. On the other hand, she knows I like her more. Now I don’t know if I should continue wait for her or just end it and move on as I don’t know if we would ever even be together. Another problem I have is whenever we text and I ask questions, she would seem to avoid answering to which I get annoyed. There was an incident one time that I did not text her the entire day (I was really busy and I know she was out with friends so I didn’t want to make it seem so needy) , she got upset and asked me why I didn’t text her. I apologized and promised I would text her everyday. Whenever I tried to kiss her (peck on the lips) she would evade and say it’s her normal reaction. When I asked her if I can kiss her she doesn’t say anything. I am so confused and I even told her that I have never dated a Virgo and feel so clueless to how they think. Please tell me what I should do. I really like her but I don’t want to push her away and most certainly don’t want to feel clingy. Thanks

Dude your already pushing her away by lowering your value to her. Well I wouldn't exit the friendship yet but if you continue pressure welcome to further disappointment. Stop being needy, you are a libra correct.

Thanks for the long comments and advices. Currently I am taking it slow and being patient and see. So far it’s been going great. We had good chats everyday and she tells me her deep secrets. Will update and see.

She's being cautious and over analyzing everything...it's what we do. Majority don't dive in head first ...we take our time especially if you told her this was the longest you dated someone lol. Patience and being consistent is a must with us...either you can deal with that or not...we are used to the latter anyway 🤷.

Posted by LostinmyMind11

She's being cautious and over analyzing everything...it's what we do. Majority don't dive in head first ...we take our time especially if you told her this was the longest you dated someone lol. Patience and being consistent is a must with us...either you can deal with that or not...we are used to the latter anyway 🤷.

Thanks but when you say consistent what do you mean by that?

Posted by LibraManbcb

Posted by LostinmyMind11

She's being cautious and over analyzing everything...it's what we do. Majority don't dive in head first ...we take our time especially if you told her this was the longest you dated someone lol. Patience and being consistent is a must with us...either you can deal with that or not...we are used to the latter anyway 🤷.

Thanks but when you say consistent what do you mean by that?

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Don't be a wishy washy Libra lol

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

She's being cautious and over analyzing everything...it's what we do. Majority don't dive in head first ...we take our time especially if you told her this was the longest you dated someone lol. Patience and being consistent is a must with us...either you can deal with that or not...we are used to the latter anyway 🤷.

Thanks but when you say consistent what do you mean by that?

Don't be a wishy washy Libra lol

What people forget about Virgos is they are straight talkers, Libras not so much, most of the ones I've met will tell people any old rubbish if it's what they think they want to hear.

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Yep... 💯 correct on that.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

She's being cautious and over analyzing everything...it's what we do. Majority don't dive in head first ...we take our time especially if you told her this was the longest you dated someone lol. Patience and being consistent is a must with us...either you can deal with that or not...we are used to the latter anyway 🤷.

Thanks but when you say consistent what do you mean by that?

Don't be a wishy washy Libra lol

What people forget about Virgos is they are straight talkers, Libras not so much, most of the ones I've met will tell people any old rubbish if it's what they think they want to hear.

Yep... 💯 correct on that.

I've also seen Virgos be incredibly bold when they want something, not always, but I've been asked out by a Virgo woman before. I also love their flirting style , it's sort of subtle, but also incredibly blatant. I remember talking to one and she wrapped her legs around mine before I had even noticed.

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Oh yeah we most definitely can go after what we want... especially a virgo with a lot of fire going on in their charts. I love Aries peeps...I've been surrounded by them my whole life...never really dated one but definitely not opposed to it. Y'all know how to get us outta our hermit modes lol.

An update: We had a long talk and found out she’s also dating another person too. I told her if she doesn’t want me to pursue her I will stop. I told her she doesn’t need to feel guilty if she has already made up her mind. She told me she still likes me so she said she’s undecided. It’s been going on for 4 months now and I really like her but I feel if she continues with the 3 of us, it might be harder for her to choose. Any help or tips? Should I still be patient and continue to pursue her or not? TIA