do virgos tend to ignore?

im learning alot from this site. theres alot of knowledgable people

lets say you send them an email or text message they dont respond. are they ignoring you because they hate you?

okay i'll put it into context. lets say i sent an email asking if the virgo liked me and she didnt respond.

i think i read this somewhere but i cant seem to find it again.

I'm not bashing Virgos at all. I'm a female who knows a Virgo male. Yes, he has ignored texts, calls and e-mails. I don't know why this is done. However, to give Virgos credit, they usually get back to you, in their own time. Mostly likely when you have moved on. It's like they pop up out of no where. This is just my opinion.

I haven't had experience with Virgos ignoring people, but I have had experience with many Virgo being very judgemental. That's a trait that isn't very becoming.

If they ignore you all the time (both f2f and other ways) then I could understand. But what if they seem interested and caring when they're around you but do take slow or not respond at all in writing? Now, that's confusing, huh?

It could be then he's analyzing the situation. Virgos analyze most everything. Sometimes they can have trouble trusting a good thing. I know as it's happened with me regarding a Virgo guy. I finally had to let go but not willingly. They are awesome for the most part but the push and pull thing can drive a girl crazy.

"Virgos analyze most everything. Sometimes they can have trouble trusting a good thing. "

okay, lets say they are interested, they're analyzing they'll get back to you. does analyzing take that long? i guess she's really thinking it through.

"But what if they seem interested and caring when they're around you but do take slow or not respond at all in writing? Now, that's confusing, huh?"

its happened before i texted her one day asking her to go out, i thought she totally ignore it. But after a couple of days, maybe 4 or 5, she replied asking me if i wanted to go out. yes very confusing >

"its happened before i texted her one day asking her to go out, i thought she totally ignore it. But after a couple of days, maybe 4 or 5, she replied asking me if i wanted to go out. yes very confusing "

Ah, very, very typical...
I think the best thing to do is send your message, cross your fingers and adjust your time like in daylight saving -only not for an hour but for a couple of weeks- 🙂

Love4ever,

Agreed. You are very correct. Good luck.

"cross your fingers and adjust your time like in daylight saving -only not for an hour but for a couple of weeks- "

I was afraid of that, but I expected to wait for a while, but for weeks? its gonna be a long couple of weeks.

Yeah, the weeks can be long when you are waiting for a Virgo to take contact. Just keep yourself busy and before you know it, they pop up again. It's frustrating as hell but what can you do when you like a Virgo. I've been through it. As time goes by you either get use to it or you walk away. I'm the Virgo guy's friend because he has so many issues to deal with. I'm currently interested in another guy now. However, in my opinion, once you get a Virgo under your skin it's very hard to let go. You never ever forget them.

"I don't know if other virgos feel the same way but I don't like dating someone from work. I like to keep my personal life and work life as separate as possible. It's like my way of organizing my life and making sure there's boundaries."

We don't see each other anymore its been months since we've worked the same shifts. I know for a fact that she has hung out with people from work before, I don't think thats the issue here, at least I hope its not.

'm not bashing Virgos at all. I'm a female who knows a Virgo male. Yes, he has ignored texts, calls and e-mails. I don't know why this is done. However, to give Virgos credit, they usually get back to you, in their own time. Mostly likely when you have moved on. It's like they pop up out of no where. This is just my opinion.


i don't get it. what's the point of doing this? move on from what? give up from loving them? or do they actually don't feel being loved?

*or do they actually don't want to feel being loved? or that's just how they love? jeez it's pointless.

Vgurl,

I'll explain a little bit better. I'm an Aquarian female who knows a Virgo male. Unfortunately, do to his situation he has a lot of issues, especially regarding alcohol. He doesn't take responsibility for himself. I had to let go of the whole situation as it was eating me up inside. I wanted to help him out so bad, it truly hurt. He likes to play the push and pull game with me. One minute he's around and the next he disappears for a while. I was miserable this past summer because I took on his pain. I couldn't bear to see him in pain. Once I told him how I felt, he ran scared also. So I eventually had to move on. I told him I'm done and have a good life. He didn't like that but left me alone for a little while. Then he started to get in contact with me again but I was so damn mad at him, I didn't speak to him for a long while. Therefore when I gave up, he came back like nothing. However, even though Virgo guy caused a lot of pain, he'll always have a special place in my heart. The more I tried to forget about him the harder it got. When I realized that the best thing I could do was accept that he'll always have a small piece of me that's just for him, I was able to move on. Hope that made sense. The Virgo guy in my case doesn't feel loved by anybody. Even though I tried my best to show him he was worthy of it, he didn't believe me. No matter what I tried to do, he wouldn't meet me half way. He must believe in the psychology to hurt first than be hurt. He also likes to tell me how popular he is among girls. He claims now to have a girlfriend, but when I expressed my joy for his happiness, he was very sad in his voice. I just don't get that. Here I am very happy for him, and all he is is sad. I truly am happy for him but he didn't like me to be happy for him. In the meantime, I've had to move on. Now I'm very interested in a Leo doctor. It's still early days. I hope I clarified what you were wondering about.

yeah i got your point. there's nothing completely wrong with you. men who have excess baggage (emotional) are not worth it to be loved. they have to learn how to love themselves before pursuing a relationship or every relationship they have will always end up trying to complete themselves.

That was the problem. He felt I was too good to be true. He likes to call me in the middle of the night also. It drives me nuts when he does that. When it came to his birthday in September, I hadn't spoken to him for almost 2 months. I had tried to get in contact with him but for some reason he was ignoring me (still don't know why though) during those two months. I pondered whether I should acknowledge his birthday or what. So I decided I would. I sent him a text saying happy birthday and that I would have called him but he wasn't speaking to me for some stupid reason. I wished him a nice day. All through the day I didn't hear from him. Don't you know he decides to call me at 4.27 in the morning on September 9th (his birthday is on the 8th). I didn't pick up because I was sleeping but I did hear the phone. I thought he had some nerve. I texted him back though hoping he was okay. Then I completely cut him off. I didn't do a thing. He didn't like that so he again calls me at 4.37 in the morning on October 7th. I again didn't pick up the phone. I felt he should call at a decent hour. Therefore I've left him alone. I'm his friend though as I could never completely reject him. I promised him I'd never do that. If I hear from him oh well. However, I wonder though if he'll forget about me. I'll never forget him. Believe me, I've tried to erase him from my brain and it didn't go to well. However, he's been one of my best teachers I've ever had. I've learned so much in such a short amount of time. Now my interest is in a Leo doctor. I've written a lot about him on the Leo forum. It's so great to be among the living again. It took me a long while to get over the Virgo guy because he really got to me. Now I feel alive again. I'll never go back to the dark place I was this past summer ever again. The Leo doctor has been a breath of fresh air and one guy I don't want to get away.

"I hope it's not for your sake. So did you reply back when she did send you a response even if it was 4 or 5 days after?"

Yeah, I did. I'm not sure what you'll get from this answer. Don't tell me replying back was the wrong move.

I think she has dated a couple of people at work. But her dating situations did get around and everyone kind of knew she didnt like it but life goes on.

Virgos tend to ignore and seem to do it without a care. Im a virgo and sometimes its so easy for me to ignore someone without a prob.Can't explain it really

I've heard this alot from my friends. They all think i'm ignoring them but it just takes me a few days to reply sometimes. I can't explain it other than its just part of my character. My good friends have learned to understand it and expect it though, I like people who can put up with it, anyone who can't usually turns out to be annoying. I really don't think they do it to hurt people... unless the person never responds for over a week, then they probley don't want to talk to you.

"she wants to take her time. I guess she wants to make sure she can trust you and is being cautious. She probably doesn't want rumors spreading around about her."

Taking her time seems like a good thing. I mean if she didn't like me back she'd just tell me right because there is absolutely nothing to analyze. Virgos arent known to spare feelings and are pretty blunt and direct.

I think you might be right jayna001, I'm giving it a week at most then just giving up. But totally ignoring is mean, what happened to being blunt and insensistive, I'd rather that than being ignored.

thanks virgoangoat, its all so clear to me now.
i'm not going to sit here twiddling my thumbs much longer. its seems like its going to be a very very long wait or maybe she just discarded it all together, which i understand. perhaps it was a too big of a bombshell i dropped on her, has to really think it through. its okay, she's still a great friend.

If your talking about a guy you like but your calling him a friend, my advise is: Virgo men have to come to you, not the other way around....

Sun in Leo,

Very true. I totally agree.

me i ignore texts from people i cant be arsed to speak to - less importance in my life, a Taurus girl text me asking what my current girlfriend (Sag) has what she doesnt have? i couldnt possible answer so i ignored her.

"me i ignore texts from people i cant be arsed to speak to - less importance in my life, a Taurus girl text me asking what my current girlfriend (Sag) has what she doesnt have? i couldnt possible answer so i ignored her."

Ouch! Well, I have a good feeling about this girl. You can't doubt a gut feeling, I just know it!

My Virgo male and I are still new. We enjoy each other's company, we usually have contact everyday somehow, but once in a while he does tend to "disappear" on me or takes a long time to return texts or calls. I know he was hurt in the past really bad. I feel like he really does like me and wants me "around", sometimes it's a little confusing. He doesn't take compliments well but when he looks at me I can see how he feels in his eyes. I just worry when he loses touch for a day or two.

I'm a Virgo woman and I admit I do ignore texts because I either don't see a need to respond or initiate text, I'm having my infamous Virgo alone time (busy) or I forgot about you.