Do you have to chase and ask the Virgo man out?

Do you really have to chase the virgo man? Or ask him out?

The virgo man I know is so subtle. He is subtle and seems interested and cares

But I always have to initiate a convo with him but when I do he always answers. He seems very shy too

i think it depends, virgo sun nahhh theyll tell you whats up usually - but virgo moon probably wont unless you do or not until theyre 100% sure you feel the same

Literally everyone in here is telling you no.... But I'm telling you yes. What you described is 100% me when I crush.

Basically, I will never ask out or chase someone who isn't interested back. I absolutely do not believe in wasting my time or yours. I am not "shy" or "afraid to pull the trigger" as everyone above described. But until you reflect my feelings or show me a bit of your interest, I'm not advancing anything.

I'm big on reciprocity. If you aren't willing to also say hello, pick me out of the crowd, and speak up when you see me, then you don't want me. If you don't want me, I'm not sticking my neck out for you.

I will do it. But show me you want me to and that you're worth it.

I think it also depends largely on his venus.

My guy is a virgo sun with scorpio venus.

He pursued and woo'ed me hard.

He literally tried everything - verbal flirting, physical flirting, bringing me gifts -you name it.

I had friendzoned him because we were great friends prior so it took me a while to say a yes and agree to get in a relationship with him.

However, after sometime when I still couldn't make up my mind, he was very direct with me. He told me that I have gotto makeup my mind if I want a relationship with him or not as I was too confused.

He gave me an ultimatum(a deadline) lol. He said he'll move on after that deadline if I tell him I am not interested by then.

He was 100% direct when he said he is in love with me and he was also 100% direct when he told me that it's high time that I makeup my mind else he'd move on.

So now you know what you've got on your plate.

Also,I must mention. Don't want to disappoint you but I've observed my guy(and 2 other virgos) , their subtle seemingly interested attitude is very common when they want to be nothing but courteous to their friends.

My guy behaves in such a courteous manner with other girls that some of them tend to mislead his behaviour into thinking that he likes them, whereas for him that's just normal basic feelingless emotion-less friendly courtesy..

Posted by IceVirg

Literally everyone in here is telling you no.... But I'm telling you yes. What you described is 100% me when I crush.

Basically, I will never ask out or chase someone who isn't interested back. I absolutely do not believe in wasting my time or yours. I am not "shy" or "afraid to pull the trigger" as everyone above described. But until you reflect my feelings or show me a bit of your interest, I'm not advancing anything.

I'm big on reciprocity. If you aren't willing to also say hello, pick me out of the crowd, and speak up when you see me, then you don't want me. If you don't want me, I'm not sticking my neck out for you.

I will do it. But show me you want me to and that you're worth it.

Lol damn! I know I always read about virgos are like this. He gives me subtle and mixed signals. Just today he unfollowed me then followed me back...why !? Why would he do that? That's like asking for attention. He wanted me to pop up for some reason. But also not sure if he actually was going to unfollow me. I dont know hes very weird and I'm confused as hell

In my experience they like to play mind games so be careful. Just do your own thing and don’t focus on him too much.