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Posted by LovelyScorp
@CLCNY30
She knows this, she is just venting.
Just listen.
Scorp, if I thought it was going to help, I would.
I'm sorry, but I don't baby grown women, especially when grown women are being malicious to others to take out THEIR grievances and frustrations.
She wants to keep the Pisces board all airy, light-hearted and happy, and bring this sh.it to the Virgo board, gtfohwtbs.
And the truth of the matter is that you CAN'T change people. You can vent about it all you want, but it's wasted energy. There are just some people you are NOT going to like or get along with, and that's the way it is.
Instead, you take all of that energy, and utilize it for your own purposes--to find like minds, or to find happiness with others somehow.
Why WASTE time arguing with people you don't like when you can SPEND time sharing laughs with people you do?
It seems you just want everyone to be unhappy, to the point where they come crying to you to help them "change". We all seem to be okay--we have our seperate issues we need to work out, our own monsters in the closet, but you just seem angry, and seem to want to make everyone else angry as well.
I've heard of misery loving company, but this is nuts...
Instead, you take all of that energy, and utilize it for your own purposes--to find like minds, or to find happiness with others somehow.
Why WASTE time arguing with people you don't like when you can SPEND time sharing laughs with people you do?
It seems you just want everyone to be unhappy, to the point where they come crying to you to help them "change". We all seem to be okay--we have our seperate issues we need to work out, our own monsters in the closet, but you just seem angry, and seem to want to make everyone else angry as well.
I've heard of misery loving company, but this is nuts...
There's one dude on here, a Virgo, who everytime he gets in a fight with his wife ... he has a couple people he finds, so he can unload his anger.
And you know it's happening because on a different board, he will talk about the fight with his spouse.
And he doesn't know he's doing it ... this reality escapes him. He thinks that this person (whichever one he finds logged on) is doing something at that moment to warrant his wrath.
And he has no clue that this was HIS feelings, and nothing to do with the other person .. he seriously thinks the other person did something.
To his subconscious .. he just released his aggression and it was justified to him by hiding from him the reality. To his conscious awareness (which is limited, obviously) this was his solution to free himself from his anger at his spouse.
And you know it's happening because on a different board, he will talk about the fight with his spouse.
And he doesn't know he's doing it ... this reality escapes him. He thinks that this person (whichever one he finds logged on) is doing something at that moment to warrant his wrath.
And he has no clue that this was HIS feelings, and nothing to do with the other person .. he seriously thinks the other person did something.
To his subconscious .. he just released his aggression and it was justified to him by hiding from him the reality. To his conscious awareness (which is limited, obviously) this was his solution to free himself from his anger at his spouse.
So what? That's dude's life, and in the end it will consume him.
He has nothing to do with you, and you should not be trying to seek control of his situation.
Learn how to distance yourself from other's BS. Why do you let it affect you so?
Does it interfere with the balance in your bank account? Does it take food off your plates? Does it stop your car from starting in the mornings?
What's the problem?
He has nothing to do with you, and you should not be trying to seek control of his situation.
Learn how to distance yourself from other's BS. Why do you let it affect you so?
Does it interfere with the balance in your bank account? Does it take food off your plates? Does it stop your car from starting in the mornings?
What's the problem?
It amazes me who unaware people are, especially Virgos.
There are quit a few in here who will comment on people they dont' like, even years after the episode actually happened ... like they are stuck in a loop. Only I know that isn't it really .. it's what I said previous.
They just need to unload their own bad feelings and once they've found a person to use, they continue to use the person to project onto so they no longer have to carry these feelings they don't know what to do with.
Actually, that's pretty much how Virgos are in relationships as well .... people call it critisizing .. same thing as what I've been talking about.
It's not that the Virgo feels you need improvement so this is why they critisize you, you know, it's not for your own good and they are trying to help you .... it's because they are riddled with unwanted, horrible feelings and don't know what to do with them, so they unload on you.
There are quit a few in here who will comment on people they dont' like, even years after the episode actually happened ... like they are stuck in a loop. Only I know that isn't it really .. it's what I said previous.
They just need to unload their own bad feelings and once they've found a person to use, they continue to use the person to project onto so they no longer have to carry these feelings they don't know what to do with.
Actually, that's pretty much how Virgos are in relationships as well .... people call it critisizing .. same thing as what I've been talking about.
It's not that the Virgo feels you need improvement so this is why they critisize you, you know, it's not for your own good and they are trying to help you .... it's because they are riddled with unwanted, horrible feelings and don't know what to do with them, so they unload on you.
Once again, you described yourself.
"There are quit a few in here who will comment on people they dont' like"
You do that everyday.
Can you SERIOUSLY not see this? Or are you just joking?
Everything you write about Virgos pertains to yourself, it's eerie.
"There are quit a few in here who will comment on people they dont' like"
You do that everyday.
Can you SERIOUSLY not see this? Or are you just joking?
Everything you write about Virgos pertains to yourself, it's eerie.
Gemini's have the same issue.
Once they become angered, they will also go find their target and unload .. the only difference with them is how they express it.
The Virgo will use sarcastic cutdowns, while the Gemini just screams personal insults .. but, it's the same thing .. it's not being able to control their own feelings, and so they need to be rid of them.
Then when these feelings are gone .. they hide, they then shroud themselves with a blanket of ignorance, and pretend it never happened.
This thread was created.
Once they become angered, they will also go find their target and unload .. the only difference with them is how they express it.
The Virgo will use sarcastic cutdowns, while the Gemini just screams personal insults .. but, it's the same thing .. it's not being able to control their own feelings, and so they need to be rid of them.
Then when these feelings are gone .. they hide, they then shroud themselves with a blanket of ignorance, and pretend it never happened.
This thread was created.
And it's not so much that it happens, because only Thaters would put energy into "that" .... it's not even knowing what happened in reality, and thinking it was a problem solved.
It was putting a cover over the mind, so guilt doesn't have to be comprehended .. why feel guilty of taking your aggressions out on your whipping post, when ignorance is always ready for you to use to free yourself, so you can have bliss?
It was putting a cover over the mind, so guilt doesn't have to be comprehended .. why feel guilty of taking your aggressions out on your whipping post, when ignorance is always ready for you to use to free yourself, so you can have bliss?
That was sufficient for those who really didn't need it, but, beginning to think I had forgotten.
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So, let's see .... what is the solution then?
We're still clueless as to why you come here, P. It seems to hurt you--and doesn't seem healthy for you.
Your experiences with other signs sounds messed up, on so many levels. It's a shame that you only seem to see the bad in every other sign but your own, but you do realize that the problem CAN'T be with every other sign, there's got to be an issue stemming from you.
Take a look at the fact that no one is over in your section, taking jabs at you, and here you are in a section you spit on, taking jabs every second of every minute of every hour...
Why?
Do you really think that's helping anything?
It's not.
Your experiences with other signs sounds messed up, on so many levels. It's a shame that you only seem to see the bad in every other sign but your own, but you do realize that the problem CAN'T be with every other sign, there's got to be an issue stemming from you.
Take a look at the fact that no one is over in your section, taking jabs at you, and here you are in a section you spit on, taking jabs every second of every minute of every hour...
Why?
Do you really think that's helping anything?
It's not.
Posted by P-Angel
So, let's see .... what is the solution then?
Stop going to the section of signs you hate.
That way they're happy, and you can find happiness too--if you choose to.
And what about change?
Trying to change a person was apart of my original thought.
Does this ignorance change the person?
Let's take the situation of where the Virgo guy in here comes to dxp and releases his agression his whipping post, then he goes back to his real life and his spouse is happy as can be because her man is all full of smiles, he can now say he's sorry.
Is he really sorry for what he did?
I think not .. I don't think he's sorry at all .. I think he just is no longer angry, and so can now deal with the emotional that pissed him off.
He didnt' change, did he? He didn't see his error at all.
Trying to change a person was apart of my original thought.
Does this ignorance change the person?
Let's take the situation of where the Virgo guy in here comes to dxp and releases his agression his whipping post, then he goes back to his real life and his spouse is happy as can be because her man is all full of smiles, he can now say he's sorry.
Is he really sorry for what he did?
I think not .. I don't think he's sorry at all .. I think he just is no longer angry, and so can now deal with the emotional that pissed him off.
He didnt' change, did he? He didn't see his error at all.
No he didn't, and most likely won't change--and don't be fooled into believing that he's happy when he logs off...but you shouldn't concern yourself with him. In the end, those are HIS problems, HIS demons to battle. Just be lucky they are not yours.
Seperate yourself from what you read on here. Take it in, enough to digest the bits and fractions you want to retain for later use, and then pull away from it, because the longer you dwell on it, the more it consumes you.
You...CANNOT...change...people.
Some people are happy being miserable, let them be.
Worry about you, and yours--help THEM.
Seperate yourself from what you read on here. Take it in, enough to digest the bits and fractions you want to retain for later use, and then pull away from it, because the longer you dwell on it, the more it consumes you.
You...CANNOT...change...people.
Some people are happy being miserable, let them be.
Worry about you, and yours--help THEM.
Posted by LovelyScorp
@CLCNY30
She's not attacking us. She's attacking herself.
Just listen.
She's attacking herself using other signs?
Funny...
Posted by P-Angel
That is something I didn't find until coming to dxp ... a person in here will find someone who pissed them off at one time, or who they just don't care for, for whatever reason .... and any time they are in a bad mood, or irritated, they will find this person on the forum and strike.
Oh like you? Well what is the problem P-angel?
What is that?
Yeah, what is your problem?
Another form of hiding from yourself? Not having control of emotions?
Projection...
And another thing ... is that positive or negative energy?
click to expand
Yeah, you tend to post a lot of negativity.
Posted by P-Angel
It amazes me who unaware people are, especially Virgos.
There are quit a few in here who will comment on people they dont' like, even years after the episode actually happened ... like they are stuck in a loop. Only I know that isn't it really .. it's what I said previous.
If they are stuck in a loop then why do you continue to continue to banter the problem? If you didn't care, you wouldn't speak of the problems the Virgos have, but you remain to remind users of the problems the Virgos have even the older ones of having negativity...
SO what isn't it really...what is it then?
Funny, people claim they know a solution, but even p-angel is as clueless as the rest of everyone...man, this is halirious!
Agreed Sorti, and can you believe she gets praise from her ass-kissing crew for this—?? They regard her as some 'god'. *snickers*
Nah, they only praise her because she claims she knows the way, but there are far too many ways to fix problems, she only knows of one while everyone else knows of others.
BUT HEYYYYYY!!!! SHIT HAPPENS RIGHT?!?!?!
there are more roads to Rome...Amsterdam...New York...KoaKoaChuChuBamba...etc 😛
HAHAHAHA!!! OF COURSE, SISTA SISTA!
Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
Nah, they only praise her because she claims she knows the way, but there are far too many ways to fix problems, she only knows of one while everyone else knows of others.
I concur. However, the only 'problems' she needs to fix are her own...oh but I forgot...she's got 'work to do' with us virgos...sigh. Not to mention, her 'peons' don't make the situation any better. They continue to add to her delusion of self-grandeur...suckers.
I think those of you defending P and ignoring the fact that she's spewing hatred for ANYONE who isn't the same sign as her (she proved it in here--she finally got past Virgos, and went into Gemini as well, awesome...) made her into more of a monster than she may have been upon finding this site. You're feeding into her insane loathing of a sign that she'll NEVER understand--you hear me P? NE-VER; if you understood us, you'd stfu and gtfo, because you're NOT going to change us and we're NOT going to praise you.
BUILD A BRIDGE and get OVER IT
You're coming to the VIRGO section to complain about VIRGOS, do you see the f'n problem? WHY ARE YOU HERE?! If you have a problem with us, WHAT THE HELL IS THE FASCINATION WITH THIS SECTION?!
Stop ignoring the crap being said towards other signs, and stroking the ego of any Pisces who are saying it, you're DESTROYING them--they're OBVIOUSLY hella-emotional, and losing it with every hateful word they post. They're spazzing out in threads, showing imbalanced mindsets and shattered hearts, and I'm sure there's tears behind every damn keystroke and YOU'RE to blame. Stop trying to protect them, and f'n help them--if you're going to tell ONE of us off, TELL US BOTH off, OR zip it.
Shi.t.
BUILD A BRIDGE and get OVER IT
You're coming to the VIRGO section to complain about VIRGOS, do you see the f'n problem? WHY ARE YOU HERE?! If you have a problem with us, WHAT THE HELL IS THE FASCINATION WITH THIS SECTION?!
Stop ignoring the crap being said towards other signs, and stroking the ego of any Pisces who are saying it, you're DESTROYING them--they're OBVIOUSLY hella-emotional, and losing it with every hateful word they post. They're spazzing out in threads, showing imbalanced mindsets and shattered hearts, and I'm sure there's tears behind every damn keystroke and YOU'RE to blame. Stop trying to protect them, and f'n help them--if you're going to tell ONE of us off, TELL US BOTH off, OR zip it.
Shi.t.
No, not mouth .... heart, a foul heart .. the mouth is merely the path of the message to be transported.
the heart is very foul
It's thinks the solution is to hide, to cover up and pretend it doens't exist .. as I've been saying for seven pages.
And it doesn't know, it thinks it's entirely different.
the heart is very foul
It's thinks the solution is to hide, to cover up and pretend it doens't exist .. as I've been saying for seven pages.
And it doesn't know, it thinks it's entirely different.
I feel good now. 🙂
Posted by PandorasBox
Lmao @ bunny pic.
Stop trying to understand her and just listen.
Don't just hear, but listen.
It's like you're made at her because you can't make sense of what she's trying to verbalize.
I'm sure you both have given valid points.
Dxp never fails to put on a good show haha 😛
Everytime I tried, she came back in this thread or others will insults.
I'm sorry, I can't stroke her ego and baby her. If you guys want to, godspeed. But you do realize it's not helping her, but hurting her, right?
The mere fact that she's bringing all this "I can show you the light if you accept me as your God and Saviour" BS over here already makes it very clear she wants us to hail her as our supreme leader, and she's about to go out JFK style . She needs to go back to her section with that.
Bella, it's okay.
We all know. She's speaking of herself.
It's not sense in pointing it out to her though, her cult will always stroke her ego and tell her it's not her--it's EVERYBODY ELSE that's the problem. I mean, why not? Look at how much it's cured her, you know? Why, she hardly seems hateful at all 😄!
We all know. She's speaking of herself.
It's not sense in pointing it out to her though, her cult will always stroke her ego and tell her it's not her--it's EVERYBODY ELSE that's the problem. I mean, why not? Look at how much it's cured her, you know? Why, she hardly seems hateful at all 😄!
Posted by BellaBulleautifulPosted by P-Angel
And it's not even that these people seek out those who to whom they constantly make their victim over and over, so that they can release this pent up aggression .. it's mainly that they don't even know it's in them to do it AND they dont' know it's wrong.
Over the years I've made several posts about this very thing, in different forms, of course. A person will hunt down the person they use as their whipping post every time they have a bad energy they need to release, and if they don't like this person anyway .. then they have no awareness that what they just did was wrong .... because it wasn't based on anythign this person they don't like did at the moment, it was based on their own negative energy that they need to release.
Basically,what you've always done to ladybug.you are speaking from experience now....
not bushwhacking you at all,just pointing that out.click to expand
Even if you were bushwhacking her, so what.
Virgo is often credited with the willingness to serve and a love of learning yet we often aren't so willing to learn from the painful truth we come across simply because it is hard to face. That is not a true love of learning. Because we often guard ourselves from what is painful or is potentially painful and risky we will never really learn--never find happiness. We will feel all these disparaging feelings of ourselves and for others and we will unkindly criticize and poke at people in an attempt to rid ourselves of those bad feelings. But unkind criticism is neither truly helpful or meaningful of us and instead we are wrongfully punishing others for what we've placed on ourselves. That is a disservice.
...Well, thats all I got so far.
...Well, thats all I got so far.
Posted by Amandus
Virgo is often credited with the willingness to serve and a love of learning yet we often aren't so willing to learn from the painful truth we come across simply because it is hard to face. That is not a true love of learning. Because we often guard ourselves from what is painful or is potentially painful and risky we will never really learn--never find happiness. We will feel all these disparaging feelings of ourselves and for others and we will unkindly criticize and poke at people in an attempt to rid ourselves of those bad feelings. But unkind criticism is neither truly helpful or meaningful of us and instead we are wrongfully punishing others for what we've placed on ourselves. That is a disservice.
...Well, thats all I got so far.
To that I add:
"Pisces are often scatterbrains. They don't do well in highly structured or regimented situations and generally buck convention. Pisces can be so emotional, needy and intense that they can end up being a real drag to people around them. In business, they can be unreliable, unmotivated, easily distracted, and have their heads in the clouds all the time. The not so nice side of Pisces manifests as being a gossip, indiscreet, and gullible."
So what? There are Pisces like that and there AREN'T. How can one throw them all into the same basket because some site on Google linked me to that? That may describe P-angel, but there are plenty of beautiful Pisces on this site--hell, on this very BOARD who prove otherwise.
yea.
Hehe. I write best on my emotions.
Yay for all the leo in me. 🙂
Yay for all the leo in me. 🙂
Posted by Amandus
Virgo is often credited with the willingness to serve and a love of learning yet we often aren't so willing to learn from the painful truth we come across simply because it is hard to face. That is not a true love of learning. Because we often guard ourselves from what is painful or is potentially painful and risky we will never really learn--never find happiness. We will feel all these disparaging feelings of ourselves and for others and we will unkindly criticize and poke at people in an attempt to rid ourselves of those bad feelings. But unkind criticism is neither truly helpful or meaningful of us and instead we are wrongfully punishing others for what we've placed on ourselves. That is a disservice.
...Well, thats all I got so far.
:::: bows ::::
That's all there is, Jason.
Beyond that point, Dy.
Posted by CLCNY30
I think those of you defending P and ignoring the fact that she's spewing hatred for ANYONE who isn't the same sign as her (she proved it in here--she finally got past Virgos, and went into Gemini as well, awesome...) made her into more of a monster than she may have been upon finding this site. You're feeding into her insane loathing of a sign that she'll NEVER understand--you hear me P? NE-VER; if you understood us, you'd stfu and gtfo, because you're NOT going to change us and we're NOT going to praise you.
BUILD A BRIDGE and get OVER IT
You're coming to the VIRGO section to complain about VIRGOS, do you see the f'n problem? WHY ARE YOU HERE?! If you have a problem with us, WHAT THE HELL IS THE FASCINATION WITH THIS SECTION?!
Stop ignoring the crap being said towards other signs, and stroking the ego of any Pisces who are saying it, you're DESTROYING them--they're OBVIOUSLY hella-emotional, and losing it with every hateful word they post. They're spazzing out in threads, showing imbalanced mindsets and shattered hearts, and I'm sure there's tears behind every damn keystroke and YOU'RE to blame. Stop trying to protect them, and f'n help them--if you're going to tell ONE of us off, TELL US BOTH off, OR zip it.
Shi.t.
Are you the newly appointed "Virgo vigilante"? I didn't get that memo 😕
This because of (as peri peri bottom lined it) 1 Taurus and 1 Pisces. Shame the thread was flagged.
Hate begets hate.
The shit is over, Tamara.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Agreed Sorti, and can you believe she gets praise from her ass-kissing crew for this—?? They regard her as some 'god'. *snickers*
I wonder if she has multiple screen names. Perhaps she really is a troll, after all.
Yes, she's a troll and so are some of her bitch ass crew. *snickers*
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I know some Pisces who like to be miserable, constantly taking on f'ed up relationships, putting themselves in f'ed up situation, perhaps that's your position in the sign.
I've already said you should stop coming over here, since this section, the sign, and the people in it drum up such feelings of hatred for you, but you just keep on coming back. It makes no sense.