friends with benefits with a male virgo

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by kellz on Wednesday, May 1, 2013 and has 5 replies.

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@julyocean
13 Years

If he decided that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you... I doubt sleeping with him continuously will change his feelings

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@TaurusBull1977
17 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by kellz
sooo me and boyfriend broke up but recently we talked and we decided to be friends with benefits

He decided to be friends with benefits.
You decided that this was a prelude to a reconciliation.

Be very careful about signing off on contracts without informing your partner about reading the fine print.

*Note: This FWB will lead a a long lasting relationship and a life and future of bliss, happiness, and lots of security*

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@kellz
13 Years

Posted by kellz
sooo me and boyfriend broke up but recently we talked and we decided to be friends with benefits...my question to you is do you think he will catch any feelings for me again? he broke up with me so im thinking he's not.what do you think ?(im a Pisces)

i don't want to rekindle anything !!!!

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@julyocean
13 Years

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Posted by rachelsnow12
Aquarius female here :-) Just bored and surfing the posts. I would not have sex with him if you think this will rekindle feelings. Sex is simply that for guys... just sex. It does not equate to any sort of feelings, other then some good vibrations :-) It's a bit different for most of us females, we mix feelings with sex. So, unless you can set yours aside, I wouldn't recommend having this arrangement with him.

I felt quite depressed when i read this 😢 ~ either i am deluded or i live in hope. Are all men really this shallow? Arent there some out there that connect deeply when they make love to the woman they love?

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Connection strengthens when men make love with a woman they're already in love with. Sex alone doesn't create a lasting bond in men unfortunately. Surely there are exceptions.... extremely rare though I would think... :-/