Update: Met with a counselor who helped us communicate better, we worked out a lot of issues. All except one, she is refusing any and every type of sexual activity. She doesn’t even want to have phone sex.. during the counseling session, I opened up about my GAY DREAM. Which my girl asked me a tornado of questions. Am I Bi-sexual, Am I attracted to guys, have I ever been with a guy. ALL NO’s and I assured her it will always be No. I was embarrassed but relieved to tell her about that dream. After our session, the drive home she said, she feels her call to remain abstinence is moral and spiritual one but she sees its causing me sexual frustration and maybe that is what’s caused me have out of my ordinary dream it’s out of the frustration. She continued “Blah blah blah blah blah something something, all I felt is she was about to break up or ask for space and was just talking m, So I braced my self and my heart. But Then she says “ Baby you can have sex with other women under the condition you use protection and never tell me about it, Also I most stop all contact with other females once we do get engaged and married. I was like ha?? This has to be a trap, so my reply which was true is “baby I love you too much, our relationship is more then just sex, I’d rather wait for you and only you because you would do the same for me. She then says “I know baby, but I made a change in my life with out taking you into consideration and how it would effect you, and I made that choice for me and I also unknowingly made it for you, I don’t want you sexually frustrated and angry and if it’s just you busting a nut and coming home and loving me then I will be ok, just don’t get attached or who ever she is must not get attached because I’d hurt that B***. She has remained consistent about it, two days now. And I’m starting to feel the urge to use my hall pass. Had a old crush recently start liking a lot of Facebook pics and she’s DM me good morning few times. I just send smily emoji. Should I send the eggplant emoji or not is my question?
