have i lost him for good—

Hi guys!! Met virgo 4 months ago and things have been going very slow. he told me he doesn't rush into relationships and he likes being friends first. i have only seen him 4 times so far because he is always busy with work etc but he told me that if i wanted to spend time with him then we have to plan it properly (he needs more than 4 days notice). I find it odd but have been patient and understanding. 4 out of 5 times his weekends are fully booked with other things and he works in q different city during the week. I bumped into him on saturday and told him that i really wanted for us to spend more time together. He said he really liked me but is going through a busy time. I pushed the issue, asked him whether he is seeing other girls etc and he basically got really angry and told me to believe whatever i want to believe. I sent him a message later on at night to apologise but i havent heard from him since then (sunday). I know i pushed the issue but i guess i wasrunning low on my patience and have been neglecting my own needs for too long. He usually contacts me every other day but i have a feeling he might never contact me again. He says he likes me and that i always bring out his happy side but why is he always busy? he wants to hear from me every day but hanging out is a problem. Have i pushed him away for good?

Hmmmm.... virgos are typically slow going into relationships. It was a bad move to confront him the way you did, but if he truly likes you the way he said probably not a deal breaker. I wouldnt contact him again, just give him time to come around.

Thanks guys 🙂

I contacted him 3 days ago after 10 days of silence. He was happy to hear from me and we had a long chat about what happened. He explained to me that he really didn't feel that that place or time was appropriate to have such a discussion. He now explained that he is not in a relationship but he talks to a few ladies and also claimed that this was not the reason he has been busy on weekends. He also said that because he thinks I am a pretty lady, he assumes many guys are on my case and that he would have to play his cards right. At that point I was so confused, I had to tell him that I am not seeing anyone else and that I don't understand how a friendship can be build if we hardly spend time together.(Since he is a big believer in being friends first before starting a relationship). That's when he went silent. After a while I told him again that I am not seeing anyone else and I really am not into playing games and just like things to be straight forward. He said Thank you and we got off the phone.

Am I right in assuming that he doesn't trust me or thinks that being with me would be a risk? He constantly compliments me on my looks and stares at me.