He Called~~ Finally... (Page 2)

I'm taking it as it comes my friends.

If he calls me today, I will meet him for a drink as I will be out with a girlfriend for dinner.

If he doesn't...then he doesnt...but I would be surprised if he doesnt. He has been the "non-planner" last minute call type of guy...gotta nip that in the bud.

I need to let "it all out" so I can see where I am at w/him...and where he is at with me.

Yes, its been 2 months already, however, I was in LA for 3 weeks of that time (where we spoke once), so maybe it doesnt count.

In the meantime, I am dating others ..I'm just not into anyone like Virgo.

Sept 7th

Oh that is interesting. I thought he would have been later in the sign.

If you want to nip the last minute dates in the bud, then don't go with him tonight. Say, "Oh no! When you didn't call yesterday, I assumed you had other plans. My friend invited me to dinner and I accepted. I am so sorry. I really wanted to see you before you left! When do you get back?"

I agree with little sparrow. That is axactly what you should say to him and then also throw in there that if your dinner doesn't go too long then you will give him a call and you can meet him for a drink. Let him see how it is to be the one waiting for the call.

Lack of communication...

He called and said "So were unavailable the other night? You blew off work and decided to go out and you didn't come to the bar?"

I was like "HUH? I never said that.... I left you a message saying I COULDNT go out, too much work to do and I would like to see you after hockey on another night"

He said "Oh...I misunderstood your message "

So...I told him I have dinner plans with a GF (the truth branh...) tonight so I was going to be in town and if he wanted to meet for a drink. He said he has a hockey game at 10:00 so tonight won't work since I have dinner plans..."I'll see you when I get back" he said.

Told him to have a great time in NY and I'll talk to him next week....

Thats all she wrote my friends..........

I'm sorry Sophie, but I'm still sensing IDIOT with a capitol I. How did he possibly not understand what you said. If he didn't listen to the message then that shows you how much he pays attention. He was the one who wanted to get together after hockey and now he is saying no—??