Help me out here.....Please :)

UHHHHHHHH??_??_I am a little irritated with my Virgo male friend/coworker. He is the sweetest guy I know but always puts on a front of being hard headed and cold. We get along great and have only fought one time where we did not speak for 3 months. When we were back to being friends we became even closer than before.

YES I do have feelings for him and he does know this. After a year of not saying anything I finally decided to tell him only because I was confused as to where his feelings are. He does a lot of things for me, like buys me my favorite drinks and surprises me with them, pumps my gas for me without me even asking if it is too cold outside, he bought me windshield wiper blades and changed them for me without my knowing so it was a surprise to me. We talk about many personal things. We both have a natural flirtatious way about us so we are always flirting, laughing, doing stupid things. When I joke with the guys at work I normally give them attitude because it makes them all raise heck (jokingly), when I do this my virgo friend will always say something to the other guys to the affect of —now you see what I have to deal with?? as if we are together??_.but we are NOT together. On New Years eve he sent me a text fishing as to who I was out with. If he texts me and I do not answer he will call if I do not pick up he will send me another text telling me to stop ignoring him. All these reasons plus some is why I decided to tell him how I felt, when I told him he said he understood but didn't understand. I asked how he could not understand and had no response. SO I left it alone and then the next time we saw each other it was like nothing was ever said. No awkwardness or anything. He still continues to do the nice things for me. So I am still lost as to what he might be thinking or feeling. Any ideas?


To me it feels as if he likes my attention but does not want to take it further. The reason I believe this is because if I am paying attention to anything other than him, like my phone, he will start like poking at me and acting all goofy to get my attention.


The reason why I am irritated is because he told me he was getting his brothers car and I told him congrats and that I was happy for him. A few hours later he text me again and said he would be getting it Monday. My response was —Ok?? I was in the middle of working so there was no time for a long response. He said —okay what?? and —WTF is your deal??. I responded with

Sexi Lexi fade away without end of a story 😄

i don't see where there's an issue here, other than the fact that you may be expecting him to take a certain route in this courtship or expressing his emotions in a certain way. you have feelings for him, that is certain right? that age old cliche of actions over words again takes precedent here as an indicator to his feelings for you, although of course we'll never truly know what he feels as outsiders. he changed your windshield wipers. romanticism in the everyday, banality of routine life. that's how i, as a virgo, would also express how i feel towards someone dear to me. doing simple, functional things like that for someone as opposed to grand, contrived gestures or verbal declarations of something unexplainable and sacred like love/adoration. it does seem that you're a little cold to him, from what you've said. warm up to him and see where that takes you with him.