I met him 6 months ago. We went out as friends totally fell in love. I am divorced with a two year old and from the first day he told me that his family wouldn't accept me for this reason. We went on a trip he asked me to marry him. When we got back he told his parents that I have a son. They flipped out. He has been here a while but his parents came from middle East 3 months ago. Their mentality is still old fashioned. We broke up but couldn't stay away from each other for more than a few days. He came back crying and saying he couldn't be without me. We such around and saw each other. Finally he got tired and said I will tell them again. So he told them we are together and they stopped talking to him. Every time he went home they made him feel guilty so we talked and cried and realized there is nothing more we can do because he takes care of them he can't just abandon them. He cried told me he loves me and to be patient that he will fix everything and come back to me. I said I will wait as much as my heart let's me. I messaged him telling him how much I miss him and love him. He reads my messages but no response. He has never lied to me. Anything he ever promised he did. The last time I saw him he promised he will come back but now no responseto my messages. Virgo guys what do u think? Will he come back? I have never been so patient in my life. Please help me..
Help me pleaseee
I really need ur advice

I don't know how strong he is to change his family mind.
Anything can happen. If they love him enough to see how upset he is - they might cave in. However it's unlikely.
Why can't you just live together and take one day at the time? Is it not an option?
Also why doesn't he answer to your texts?
You might be wasting your time and they had already arranged his marriage to a 'decent' girl of their circle?
How is a child be such an obstacle?
Is it family you need?
It's complicated. Good luck to you.
Be strong.
Anything can happen. If they love him enough to see how upset he is - they might cave in. However it's unlikely.
Why can't you just live together and take one day at the time? Is it not an option?
Also why doesn't he answer to your texts?
You might be wasting your time and they had already arranged his marriage to a 'decent' girl of their circle?
How is a child be such an obstacle?
Is it family you need?
It's complicated. Good luck to you.
Be strong.

Tell his family to go fuck themselves and tell HIM to grow the fuck up. He's a grown-ass man, doesn't need to ask mommy for permission to do anything.

Posted by RemixGeneralFishyYou aren't familiar with other cultures/customs at all?
Tell his family to go fuck themselves and tell HIM to grow the fuck up. He's a grown-ass man, doesn't need to ask mommy for permission to do anything.
Half of the world still listens to their parents. Indian are married to their kind without even seeing each other!
Muslims can dishonor you for life for disobedience.
Not every man who brought up like that can just spit into family face and go married whomever they wish.
It's not xxi century everywhere yet.

Why do you or he even care what his parents think? Do you marry him or his parents?
They don't respect him and his choice, clearly they don't respect you, nothing's wrong with your child
If he can't go against his parents will there's nothing you can do, except find someone more open and modern
They don't respect him and his choice, clearly they don't respect you, nothing's wrong with your child
If he can't go against his parents will there's nothing you can do, except find someone more open and modern
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