We started talking in September 2016 but stopped talking after awhile. I started talking to her again in April 2017. We have only been out on a few dates till now. Last month I confessed to her but her reply was that she wasn't sure but she enjoys talking to me and getting to know me better. We started talking alot more after that but recently, her replies have been cold and everytime I ask her out, she would say that she is busy (she is in uni though). Anyone can tell if she is interested or?
Help needed. Dating a Virgo.
We stopped talking at that point as both of us was busy with our own lives. Since April we have been talking everyday, after I confessed to her(which was last month), it went well until a few days ago, her replies started being cold. We couldn't meet up often as she wanted to travel the world before her school starts.

Hi,
Yes I also need help with this. We're in an online long distance relationship. Fixin to get married soon so he can get out of jail. Thoughts?
Yes I also need help with this. We're in an online long distance relationship. Fixin to get married soon so he can get out of jail. Thoughts?

Posted by A2488
If I'm not feeling a person, I will get to the point where my texts are only in reply to a specific question, and I will become very distant.
I don't want to come out and explicitly hurt someone, so I'll try to distance myself and hope they do too. If I'm explicitly asked, however, I will be completely honest. Generally, I am a very honest person and pride myself on that fact (not sure if other Virgos are like that), but if it comes to a situation like that, I hate to hurt people's feelings, and would like to avoid the awkwardness. I don't enjoy feelings too much, as I've heard is common among Virgos, and too much emotion can overwhelm me, so I tend to avoid situations that put me in the line of emotions (unless it's anger, I can be okay with that).
I'm sorry...how is that honesty? Sounds very cowardly to me. If you don't want to fuck with someone just tell them. You're still hurting the person either way and it sounds like YOU just don't want to deal with the guilt.
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