HELP!!! Virgo Man driving Sag woman crazy!!

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SagChick72
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My first post and I need dire guidance! I will put it in a nut shell: I am a Sag woman recently divorced. This virgo male who is ten years younger and has been a friend of the family for years started talking to me right after my divorce was final. We slept together and then a month or so went by and then we slept together again-when he is with me he is very affectionate, always stays the night, cuddles, we laugh-then when we are apart-no communication. He is a workaholic and has told me he HATES to use the phone-when he is with me he never looks at it at all. In the past four months we have gone from once a month to almost every week seeing each other, but again, while apart-no communication. He will reply instantly when I reach out and is always happy to hear from me, but never initiates. I told him I was starting to like him (I am a Sag and patience is not my forte). He kidded me about "catching feelings" but said "I like you too". He is very introverted and to my knowledge has not been in a relationship in over 5 years-should I take the non communication as disinterest? I can tell he enjoys being with me, but I am used to men who when they like you call and text incessantly and want to spend lots of time-but with this one his work is first. I have NEVER been with a Virgo and have no idea what to do-but I really really like this guy and would like to see something happen between us relationship-wise but want to be sure first. If he is just a slow mover that's fine, but I don't know!!! Help!! I am so open to any and all suggestions!
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My first post and I need dire guidance! I will put it in a nut shell: I am a Sag woman recently divorced. This virgo male who is ten years younger and has been a friend of the family for years started talking to me right after my divorce was final. We slept together and then a month or so went by and then we slept together again-when he is with me he is very affectionate, always stays the night, cuddles, we laugh-then when we are apart-no communication. He is a workaholic and has told me he HATES to use the phone-when he is with me he never looks at it at all. In the past four months we have gone from once a month to almost every week seeing each other, but again, while apart-no communication. He will reply instantly when I reach out and is always happy to hear from me, but never initiates. I told him I was starting to like him (I am a Sag and patience is not my forte). He kidded me about "catching feelings" but said "I like you too". He is very introverted and to my knowledge has not been in a relationship in over 5 years-should I take the non communication as disinterest? I can tell he enjoys being with me, but I am used to men who when they like you call and text incessantly and want to spend lots of time-but with this one his work is first. I have NEVER been with a Virgo and have no idea what to do-but I really really like this guy and would like to see something happen between us relationship-wise but want to be sure first. If he is just a slow mover that's fine, but I don't know!!! Help!! I am so open to any and all suggestions!
The fact that he is reaching out to you whenever you initiate communication means that the feeling is mutual and should put you at ease. As a Virgo myself, I am actually quite shy in initiating things when I like someone because I am anxious on how others will respond, so I'd rather them to initiate and I will be the one to respond in return.

I know that it's not your forte, but patience is key when dealing with Virgos.
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Thank you Minty-I don't like to be needy so I maybe text him once a week so not to scare him-LOL but I did ask him recently to just maybe reach out to let me know he is alive and he said if it meant that much to me he would....I will say this is the most patient I have ever been with a man!
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SagChick72
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8 Years

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Posted by MintyChocolate
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Posted by MintyChocolate
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My first post and I need dire guidance! I will put it in a nut shell: I am a Sag woman recently divorced. This virgo male who is ten years younger and has been a friend of the family for years started talking to me right after my divorce was final. We slept together and then a month or so went by and then we slept together again-when he is with me he is very affectionate, always stays the night, cuddles, we laugh-then when we are apart-no communication. He is a workaholic and has told me he HATES to use the phone-when he is with me he never looks at it at all. In the past four months we have gone from once a month to almost every week seeing each other, but again, while apart-no communication. He will reply instantly when I reach out and is always happy to hear from me, but never initiates. I told him I was starting to like him (I am a Sag and patience is not my forte). He kidded me about "catching feelings" but said "I like you too". He is very introverted and to my knowledge has not been in a relationship in over 5 years-should I take the non communication as disinterest? I can tell he enjoys being with me, but I am used to men who when they like you call and text incessantly and want to spend lots of time-but with this one his work is first. I have NEVER been with a Virgo and have no idea what to do-but I really really like this guy and would like to see something happen between us relationship-wise but want to be sure first. If he is just a slow mover that's fine, but I don't know!!! Help!! I am so open to any and all suggestions!
The fact that he is reaching out to you whenever you initiate communication means that the feeling is mutual and should put you at ease. As a Virgo myself, I am actually quite shy in initiating things when I like someone because I am anxious on how others will respond, so I'd rather them to initiate and I will be the one to respond in return.

I know that it's not your forte, but patience is key when dealing with Virgos.
Thank you Minty-I don't like to be needy so I maybe text him once a week so not to scare him-LOL but I did ask him recently to just maybe reach out to let me know he is alive and he said if it meant that much to me he would....I will say this is the most patient I have ever been with a man!


I think that's a good thing to do that you're texting him once a week because you respect his space and being patient with him...I think he'll appreciate what you do for him and he will make a way to strengthen the bond you both share with each other...
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I hope so! I was planning on maybe broaching the "do you see this going somewhere" convo with him soon, but now I am thinking it may be better to wait and let him do that-if he ever will!! 🙂