How to know if virgo girl likes you?

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Eaglescorp90
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Yo. I was at my bff's high school reunion. Met a virgo girl. She came over to me and my pal. All of us chatted a bit. Then my friend left for the bar. Me and the girl ended up talking for a little bit, then she felt like she had to move on. She giggled a bit at stuff I said, she had a beautiful smile and she would occasionally look away from my eyes gazing at her.

30 mins later, I meet my bff with his group of old class mates at the bar. I went up to the bar to get me and my friend some drinks, and she was standing there. She was talking to one of her drunk nerdy guy friends, when she noticed me beside her so she turned to me and asked if I wanted to buy her a drink. I politely nodded sure and turned towards her, leaning on the counter in a veryyy smooth effortless way. Then we talked a little bit, then all of us found a table we could sit at.

After a while most got up to go the restroom or to go out for a smoke. I moved my seat next to her. Then I just looked at her..and told her I find her veru cute. I think she blushed a little (not sure)

After a couple of minuts, our knees kind of touched and I could sense that we "leaned" our legs on one another. She then hinted that she wanted a smoke, I told her I'd like to join. Then she came up with an excuse that she had to find her jacket....

After 5-10 minuts. We was on our way out, when she suddenly disappeared and went with her group of friends instead.

After all that, we kind of went about our own ways, being in our own groups. But I would occasionally look at her and se that she would also look my way bery subtly. We ended up at my bffs house (mini afterparty). 4 guys, 4 girls. When everyone was about to leave, a girl that liked me approached to say goodbye asking for kisses on her cheek.

While I was saying goodbye, and preparing to get over to "my girl"... she just left with one of her nerdy friendzoned guys. I said goodbye twice without getting a reply.

I added her on fb later, she accepted. Then I wrote a message saying "really nice of you to just leave without a goodbye, so coool"

I was ofcourse being sarcrastic. This was on sunday. She read the message..but haven't replied since... what is this sorcery? Can anyone of you virgals (or guys) tell me what you think? Does she like me? Why did she be so evasive and aloof in the end?

Im a scorpio. Ascending Libra. Gemini moon
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imnotvirgo
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Oh dude, I just love to act like I'm kinda not interest when I can clearly see that someone likes me. The thing she did with leaving, I think she saw the other girl approaching you and she was like, "Naah ,I'm gonna be more special and cooler than that, I'll just leave without saying anything". I've done that so many times. I like that you're absolutely showing her that you like her, you're direct and you kinda pursue her. She likes it, I can assure you. I just don't get it why she won't reply to you man 😢
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Posted by Eaglescorp90
@damnata

I've read many of your replies here and there. I've "followed" your activity a bit. You are always so judgemental and negative. I appreciate your effort though 😉
I don't know man, I never met someone then sent them a message to guilt trip them.

But if you think I am judgmental and negative compared to most Virgos...lol are you in for a rude awakening.

Anyway, best of luck and don't forget to polish the counter leaning skills.
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Posted by Eaglescorp90
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How do you think I should have led it? Please... enlighten me. Dont judge me. Help me. I'm a fast learner.. tell me your solution? Dont leave me hanging..
Your sarcasm aside which btw would get a 1 star/5 review...it's as simple as "Hello. I wanted to say it was nice to meet you 🙂".

She would've answered that. You had time later on to address how she left without saying goodbye. And if she really got upset that you were polite to another woman then count your blessings because she probably is the irrational/uptight type. As far as that goes...that's on her.

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Posted by Eaglescorp90
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Coool... I like the way you broke it down for me. I always get the weirdest toughest shells...

What should I do? What would you do? What would you like? Is it too much if I try to ask for a reply im a fun and friendly manner??
😄D You're so hooked up, I love it. Fuck others opinions, act like you always act, do what you want to do, try writing her again, I dont think that your sarcastic msg made her sad or whatever, or if it did, it's kinda lame for her. If she ignores you again, think about if she's worth it. If I like someone I wouldn't ignore him fo sho. And if she's that kind of girl, you know, freagin emotional, slow with her responses, dramatic and not ready for some actions, I wouldn't waste my time 😄
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Posted by edgelord
@Damnata is this reaction the kind of shit you say means virgos and scorps aren't compatible?

(i've never met a scorpio like this irl though.)
I met plenty exactly like that.

They see themselves as smooth and they start telling you stories of how good they are with women. You listen, intrigued. All those stories end in how they didn't score at the end of the night. It's hilarious.

Then, instead of being humble and approach it in a normal lighthearted way, they double down on that ego and that arrogance. "Hey maybe we got off on the wrong foot here" does not exist in their repertoire.

Honestly the best advice I can give Scorpio men is to emulate Aries men. Aries men lack all smoothness and that spells "real" to Virgos.
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@Damnata is this reaction the kind of shit you say means virgos and scorps aren't compatible?

(i've never met a scorpio like this irl though.)
I met plenty exactly like that.

They see themselves as smooth and they start telling you stories of how good they are with women. You listen, intrigued. All those stories end in how they didn't score at the end of the night. It's hilarious.

Then, instead of being humble and approach it in a normal lighthearted way, they double down on that ego and that arrogance. "Hey maybe we got off on the wrong foot here" does not exist in their repertoire.

Honestly the best advice I can give Scorpio men is to emulate Aries men. Aries men lack all smoothness and that spells "real" to Virgos.
"lighthearted" lolwut. you're not scorpionic or plutonian. so i'll give you a pass and not call that the dumbass comment of the year. 😆

you know what's one thing i'd never in a million years associate with you? "brooding intensity"

i realize you're a lighthearted playful teasing little virgo but we're not all that way.

this dude here takes his scorpio shit so seriously he named himself "eagle" that should tell you all you need to know about how he views himself. lmao
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Well Virgos do find Scorpios endearing in that phantom of the opera kind of way so they do have that going for themselves. We see it as our mission to make them lighthearted. They come across as wounded and jaded and bitter and that works on a woman's heart cuz it calls in nurturing instincts. The only problem is the ego/player vibe. If they can display honesty and vulnerability, it's smooth sailing. That's why i disagree with everyone saying Virgos look for perfection in partners. Be human, stumble, fuck up. Come back with a joke, patch things up. She seemed to be into him, all he needs is to change the vibe of that conversation. If she doesn't respond again then it's better to move on.

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@edgelord

Hey... Im a bit confused. Are you sticking up for me.. or am I just a really big a $ $ hole?

Ppl are a bit to quick to judge. If I post something here anonimously, then its obviously not for show. Its just me not knowing and asking for advice... we all might live in different dimensional "worlds".. but its really one planet. I dont get why ppl get caught up in me describing my "smooth" approach... ppl interpret smooth in different ways. Im a really a chill and laid back guy. We are all gonna die. And we all get buried in our own graves. But I guess some folks are intimidated by me... because I dive into emotions. I was really just trying to describe the scene as best as I could to get customized advice... I dont know. What do you think of me and this girl? Any advice?
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Oh well maybe she didn’t take your message as sarcasm which sucks :/

But she probably thinks your a player from what she saw and believes that you think she owes you something.

You can write her again and MEET IN PERSON. You two seemed to have chemistry when both of your guards were down in person. Messaging someone can leave a lot in the grey bc not everyone knows the tone someone texts/messages in.

But have fun and be yourself and one last thing: let her in and allow her to love you the only way she knows how
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Some of you took the time to read what I wrote. You responded to the case. Not to me as a "person". That was awesome...

Some of you just read what I wrote, then took the time to create your own story in that monsterous depthless mind of yours, then replied based on your own past drama and missery.. to you guys I say this: you guys know nothing about yourself, so how can you know me? Im nothing but a fragment of your own imagination. What you think of me reflects what you have inside you.

Im just a lover. The way I gaze into the eyes of a girl, is the same way I gaze into the eyez of my best friends or any other HUMAN BEING. Any other way is unnatural to me. Im always expressing myself from the heart, cuz our life here is temporary. So who cares?

Most of you are afraid of yourselves and others. We scorps are not flawless, but we can smell your fear 😉 ...even just by looking at your choice of words, or formulation of your sentences. Some of us can enrich that fear for you, or help you to transcend it.

Sometimes we just do shiz or say stuff or act a certain way just to see how life unfolds and plays out, without really being so attached to the outcome. We just crave to understand the deeper mechanisms of life, consciousness, society and the human condition/experience. But most of you will never be able to feel or understand this 🙂

Intelligence = love

Understanding = love

Most of you dont have love. You think love is playing the "game" right or getting into a relationship. Thats why you are so hurt. Your love is politics. You will never find love on this path..

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Please, tell me more? You were hung over a scorp guy?
Yeahhhhhhh... not my finest hour but it definitely did teach me a lot of things, about myself and about him.

Basically, I was myself, and in comparison to the other women he was around who he treated WAYYY better than he did me, that apparently wasn’t a very good thing to be. And as naive as I was, for the longest time I thought it was my fault for being who I am. I thought there was something wrong w/ me bc I wasn’t enough.

He really did sting me.

Anyways, I’m taking the chance and putting more faith in Scorp men than I ever would and umm I suppose hope that you and your Virgal come to a mutual.. um deep understanding.

Do me a favor though, a few tips for a Scorp w a Virgo: 1. Chill out, laugh a little.

And 2. Realize she is sensitive. Probably more sensitive than you’d expect. Take that advice as you’d like, but I hope it resonates in the way that I want it to.
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@sunsetvirgo

I can sense your sensitivity. It resonated with me. I will do you that favor 🙂 Now you do me a favor.

1. Realize that you are a beautiful piece of life.

2. Good or bad exists only within the mind.

3. Beyond the mind, is truth.

4. Truth is that which is timeless and unchangeable. It is here and now.

5. You are and always will be comprised of truth.

6. Truth = love = life = mind = illusion

7. Stay with truth, all else is temporary.
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If you want to snag a virgo be polite,clean and dont go scorp with her as in the "smooth" way like how you do it with other girls it wont work that way,why dont you start with

"Hi im sorry if i gave you the wrong impression, I would like to know more about you"
Yeah, that message works.



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thats why virgo likes the mature ones
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Hmmm I like a little sarcasm delivered properly, shows intelligence. Be yourself, be self-assured, don't overthink it. We like people that keep it real, and can read through men that are fake or pretentious. Huge turn off for me.

She might have left without saying goodbye because initially we're a bit shy when attracted to someone. Lack of knowing what to say and unable to be flirty, the whole bit...

Good luck Scorp!