How to know what is your status with the virgo man (libra woman)

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i am seeing this virgo man for 3 months now, we both like each other and we have mentioned that to each other several times. but i dont know if we are dating explicitly because i dont want to act to clingy on out status and when we meet and talk we are naturally behaving like a couple. I know everything is genuine between us as he has mentioned me to his friends and he tries to meet me whenever he can and he cares about me and is a bit territorial too etc. but i am hesitating in explicitly using the words for him. i dont want to push him, and i want it to come from him. i am planning on giving him time which is cool with me but i just want to be sure whether i should be doing something else or is this cool?
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I spoke to him indirectly< my friend asked me the status and i was what happened to her and told her that yes I'm seeing him>. We kinda smiling laughed at it. So we haven't admitted it yet. I don't know if ask him more directly after this or just wait for him to be forward about it. I think i should wait for a month or two more and get to know him more. But what is the right way to ask him respectfully yet direct so it looks like i am not beating around the bush and i demand an answer. But i have already shown him a little bit of my emotionally vulnerable side so i don't know if this will make him withdraw from me..
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I have gotten the message. I will observe him for a while. We cannot deny the fact that he is making time for me in his life and is opening up slowly to me and is talking about me to his friends,,, which i guess for a virgo is a good sign. i will give him some more time and i will observe him for a moth or two and let our relationship build up because he has just started loosening up with me. i will eventually ask him openly or simply ask him out bluntly.

but i really appreciate your advices, some of the best i hav ever got.

I really want to thank all of you.
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Why do you have to be told?

You said that you would give it more time and then flat out ask him if he hasn't bestowed a label upon you by then.

Which means ...... you can't feel the vibes going on, so you have to be told.



I can't imagine this will last much longer.



You should go look for a person who is demanding, controlling and overbearing .... since you need to be tagged, rather than roll with the natural flow.