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How to make a virgo regret losing you?
I want to subtlety let her know what she (lost)
Thank you Both. I try to take any relationship seriously and if it ends... I want to be the one that got away. It hurts SO Bad 😠and I invest a lot of time and feelings in my relationships. I just want to love and be loved by someone that wants to love me. Im a good person, and I dont take heartache well.
We started off so well and when she started going through some personal problems it all changed. I was the one getting her attitude. I couldnt say anything right. I would try to be positive and encouraging. Sometimes she would call me and we would sit on the phone not saying anything. I would ask her questions just for convo sake (not trying to be nosey or anything) and she would give me one word answers. I would give her the benefit of the doubt because she was going through a lot. Then when I finally asked her about how she was acting she would get mad at me and say sometimes she "just didnt feel like talking" Mind you: She called me. She was always the one to call me.
One time she broke up with me because I "raised my voice at her." I was like "Fine, If you can act like that when all I was trying to do was be supportive... go ahead." She called me 2 days later... I dont know how it started all so Loving and caring and wonderful and Sincerely, all I did was try to encourage and support her and let her know that she had someone in her life that didnt want anything but good things for her.
We started off so well and when she started going through some personal problems it all changed. I was the one getting her attitude. I couldnt say anything right. I would try to be positive and encouraging. Sometimes she would call me and we would sit on the phone not saying anything. I would ask her questions just for convo sake (not trying to be nosey or anything) and she would give me one word answers. I would give her the benefit of the doubt because she was going through a lot. Then when I finally asked her about how she was acting she would get mad at me and say sometimes she "just didnt feel like talking" Mind you: She called me. She was always the one to call me.
One time she broke up with me because I "raised my voice at her." I was like "Fine, If you can act like that when all I was trying to do was be supportive... go ahead." She called me 2 days later... I dont know how it started all so Loving and caring and wonderful and Sincerely, all I did was try to encourage and support her and let her know that she had someone in her life that didnt want anything but good things for her.
Youre right too Layna Thank you...
Posted by TheMoodyVulcanPosted by CallMeSkills
Wait wait... Do you really think she will ever think of me and feel she has lost someone good? Cuz that is really important to me.
I think you might be focusing on the wrong thing here...click to expand
Its not my focus... Just a side thing that is important to me
Only needed to read the first couple of sentences (in addition to the title) and I can tell you that being a manipulative bitch (regardless of how the virgo is acting) is not the way to go...
And most virgos don't take kindly to game playing (manipulation) of any kind...it's one of the worst things you can do...and generally speaking, it's just not a good thing to do in any relationship. It's a sign of immaturity.
Posted by tiziani
What's even worse is looking to manipulate a Virgo. Please don't do try because Virgo women don't deserve that. They're really nice people and they will always have it figured out at the end of the day. They quietly go about beating all the odds and never ask for credit for it from anyone.
+1
Posted by TaureanVirgo
And most virgos don't take kindly to game playing (manipulation) of any kind...it's one of the worst things you can do...and generally speaking, it's just not a good thing to do in any relationship. It's a sign of immaturity.
I read you but at the same time... Another Virgo said sometimes you have to play games with a virgo. I hate games... its just not fair and I never have played games with her, I tried to make things as simple as possible for her all the way til the end, and now its over, Im having a hard time as it is, and she's just making it worse. I was trying so hard to bow out gracefully but now this is just mean... Thats why I was looking for a "subtle way" to make her regret losing me, because Im not trying to hurt her, I just want her to realize and appreciate the good in what she had.
"You're not going to be able to MAKE a Virgo do anything that they don't want to. Ever. Supposedly we're "mutable" but anyone that has ever been close to a Virgo for any length of time knows to take that with a grain of salt. We're stubborn. We're hardheaded. And if we're absolutely convinced that we're right, there's nothing short of hell or high water that's going to change that without irrefutable proof. If your relationship is over in her mind, there is no changing that. Her feelings for you may linger for a while, but ultimately they will fade and vanish altogether. Any attempts to push her to change will only result in more scorn and resentment."
^^^this!
And you CAN NOT manipulate a virgo! Playing games will get you nowhere as well.
^^^this!
And you CAN NOT manipulate a virgo! Playing games will get you nowhere as well.
Posted by tiziani
Dear me. Never nice to see a Libra on the dark path, as a Libra myself.
What's even worse is looking to manipulate a Virgo. Please don't do try because Virgo women don't deserve that. They're really nice people and they will always have it figured out at the end of the day. They quietly go about beating all the odds and never ask for credit for it from anyone.
They have bags of common sense and if you bother playing games, you'll only be remembered as a reason why they have to be more guarded against the world.
And as a Libra myself, I understand why you would take some of her actions to be a reflection on you or "deliberately hurting you" but the harder thing to admit is maybe she's just not even got you in her thoughts when she does it and she doesn't mean anything by it other than living with her life and expressing herself.
A Libra that no longer believes in another person's right to expression is lost.
Is that really how you want to be remembered in her life? As a cautionary tale. Think about whether your ego could really recover from that being your mark on her life. Think hard. You'll end up wasting years of your life feeling like you were the one that lost something good in her.
Aww I love when people get us....thank you 🙂
AGAIN... IM NOT TRYING TO HURT ANYONE! I would never... If I say I love someone, that is exactly what I mean. I Just want her to eventually see what a good person she had in me. Being treated like you meant nothing, when all you wanted was to be support. Maybe "regret" was strong but Im not trying to hurt or anything...
After months of putting someone else feelings before mine, like Libras do, I just want to feel good for me, and knowing that I meant or had some kind of appreciation for what I dealt with would help me feel better. I am in SO much pain that I don't deserve.
I dont plan on go to great lengths for this. I just want to know its its simple as ignoring or what?
After months of putting someone else feelings before mine, like Libras do, I just want to feel good for me, and knowing that I meant or had some kind of appreciation for what I dealt with would help me feel better. I am in SO much pain that I don't deserve.
I dont plan on go to great lengths for this. I just want to know its its simple as ignoring or what?
I'm sorry but i don't think your ever going to " make her regret losing you " . From the things you have stated it sounds to me like she's done .
Regardless of the situation bad feelings isn't something that sits too well with us . I will go out of my way to keep things friendly but once the pushing becomes unbearable i will will act out and let the person in question know .
Like the others have said you can't make a virgo ..... or anyone else for that matter do anything they don't want to do , my guess is your trying to hard in making her see how good you are to her that you have backed her into a corner and she's lashing out because of it .
I appriciate it's hard but you should cut contact and see what happens , i can't see what good will come of remaining in contact with her .
Regardless of the situation bad feelings isn't something that sits too well with us . I will go out of my way to keep things friendly but once the pushing becomes unbearable i will will act out and let the person in question know .
Like the others have said you can't make a virgo ..... or anyone else for that matter do anything they don't want to do , my guess is your trying to hard in making her see how good you are to her that you have backed her into a corner and she's lashing out because of it .
I appriciate it's hard but you should cut contact and see what happens , i can't see what good will come of remaining in contact with her .
Posted by CallMeSkills
I want to subtlety let her know what she (lost)
I'm gonna throw a infamous Dr. Phil quote as a response...for both of you.
"you can't change what you don't acknowledge"
scuse my grammar..."an infamous"
Posted by CallMeSkills
Hi,
Okay I had been dating this virgo girl for 5 months... We ended it recently because her mom found out about us (2 women) and if you all would please put you homophobic feelings to the side, I would greatly appreciate it.
Anyway I felt like it was coming to and end because as time went on... I understood her less and less. She became colder & more callous with each week that passed, & more and more combative. I told her I loved her 1st and I told her I wasn't saying it to make her say it but just to tell her how I felt. I also told her "pls don't say it if you dont feel it." Within that same convo she told me she loved me as well. Thru the entire relationship I had always been loving and caring. When she was dealing with a lot of stressful situations I made sure she knew I was there for her. I gave her money if she needed it. Her car was falling apart & I offered her mine. I would randomly tell her she was special, That I loved and appreciated her. I told her she was beautiful, I would every so often send her "Just Because Gifts." Im Well spoken, Hard working, well mannered, even tempered. Although Im working in my chosen career field Im still ambitious, Everything I thought a virgo girl wanted.
Now I am a libra so I know, evidently this union doesn't make any sense.
I dont yell... I dont really argue. I will let her know she is correct, and it seems, the ONLY complaint she has about me is that Im so "Passionate about my feelings" I let a lot of things that she did go, And at the beginning of the Relationship, She told me, sometimes I have to put my foot down. Im like "okay... evidently she likes that and finds that attractive," but when I did it, she got SO mad and didn't speak to me for like 3 days. I had to call her. (Mind you: This is a long distance relationship).
What happened was: She had put up a picture online that I disagreed with and told her "It needs to change. Plain and simple" ("putting my foot down" Like she said) She was mad but she changed it. Now that we are not together she put that picture back up, and it felt like a kick in the stomach. Like she did it just to spite me, for no reason though. After her mom found out, She told me she needed to be alone but we could still communicate. I told her "I knew you would say that and all I can do is understand. I love you and I always will." Now she is doing lil things she know they
If you really were the great lover and friend, if you really gave her the best of you and loved her more than anyone could love her then you dont need to manipulate her in to thinking you were a loss. YOu are if You are
You know why you feel so hurt? Because you invested your time and effort on someone who just left you just becuase the times are rough... do you really want to be with someone who could just drop you like that? with someone who couldnt fight for you?
Move on hun 🙂 the more you spend time thinking about her and the situation the more time you wasted on a person who couldnt give you the same importance as you have given.
just think of it like this " I gave my everything , i may have lost everything but to hell to those who doesnt appreciate at least i know i gave my very best"
FALL SEVEN TIMES, STAND UP EIGHT 🙂
You know why you feel so hurt? Because you invested your time and effort on someone who just left you just becuase the times are rough... do you really want to be with someone who could just drop you like that? with someone who couldnt fight for you?
Move on hun 🙂 the more you spend time thinking about her and the situation the more time you wasted on a person who couldnt give you the same importance as you have given.
just think of it like this " I gave my everything , i may have lost everything but to hell to those who doesnt appreciate at least i know i gave my very best"
FALL SEVEN TIMES, STAND UP EIGHT 🙂
Posted by Lenore0908
all the gifts, i love yous and affection was too much. You were too nice. That can appear insincere to a person. Because they'll think its not the real you.
She wanted you to stand up for yourself, not try to control her! Theres a difference.
Now you want her to regret losing you? Thats not so "nice". No wonder she didnt want to date you. Well just cut out the romance and just be a platonic friend, and reduce contact with her.
If she wasnt that into you she wont even bat an eyelash. Your best bet is to just move on and put it behind you.
I understand but I wasnt trying to control her, I just wanted her to feel that someone genuinely loved her. I wanted her to feel that not everyone was out to take from her. Her last Gf took money from her every other week and just left her. I didnt gift her constant gifts. I tried to make our visits special for her. It just sucks how your good intentions mean nothing. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and didnt argue too much with her because she was going thru so much. She was always complaining that no one cared. She Even said "No one is trying to help me except you." Thats all I tried to do. I also tried to bow out gracefully... when she said she needed to be alone... I told her that all I could do was understand. and I backed out. Then she broke up with be at one point and then called me back 2 days later. I wasn't bombarding her with gifts and I love yous. We had a long distance relationship and I never wanted her to feel like she couldnt trust me.
Ppl playing games and being "too nice" to someone you love when they are going thru a lot is some BS. AGAIN... I just wanted her to know she had someone who genuinely believed in her and cared.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Do Libras have backbone? Frak that Bitch. Move on. Forget about attempting to make her feel anything as if she's lost anything. I thought you were attempting to hurt her, which you can't cause virgos have no emotions, but that to me would be a more interesting method than, getting her to see her loss. She took you for granted girl and you're way too appeasing..why i can't deal with libras.
We do have a backbone... We just take time to choose our battles. Im not going to be Jerk to someone who is going thru a lot, and I say I love. I dont play games cuz they arent fair. A persons feelings mean a lot to me. I feel Im a whole lot effin stronger for being able to take things because weakling break and the smallest bit of pressure. It takes a lot of control and work to keep your feelings in check to try and help someone when they are down. Libras are the first to stand up when there is an injustice done to someone. You better believe that have stood up against GROUPS of ppl when I felt ONE person was being mistreated, AND THAT IS REAL. DONT EVER TAKE LIBRAS KINDNESS FOR A WEAKNESS! I am FAR from weak.
I dont give a what about what seems "More interesting." Im not going to Hurt someone I said I love. If I wanted to do that... I would have been lying every time I said it. If I said it... then I meant it.
^ classic libra! tipping from one side to the other in desperate need to gain control lol!
I put in alllll my loving! I gave it my all! then bam. I tried my best and it was never returned I truly love them but I want to give them a taste of what it was like (but only because we love them).
I know it just sounded like I bashed Leebs but I love them and I can totally relate to it being libra rising.
I put in alllll my loving! I gave it my all! then bam. I tried my best and it was never returned I truly love them but I want to give them a taste of what it was like (but only because we love them).
I know it just sounded like I bashed Leebs but I love them and I can totally relate to it being libra rising.
Posted by tizianiPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by tiziani
Dear me. Never nice to see a Libra on the dark path, as a Libra myself.
What's even worse is looking to manipulate a Virgo. Please don't do try because Virgo women don't deserve that. They're really nice people and they will always have it figured out at the end of the day. They quietly go about beating all the odds and never ask for credit for it from anyone.
They have bags of common sense and if you bother playing games, you'll only be remembered as a reason why they have to be more guarded against the world.
And as a Libra myself, I understand why you would take some of her actions to be a reflection on you or "deliberately hurting you" but the harder thing to admit is maybe she's just not even got you in her thoughts when she does it and she doesn't mean anything by it other than living with her life and expressing herself.
A Libra that no longer believes in another person's right to expression is lost.
Is that really how you want to be remembered in her life? As a cautionary tale. Think about whether your ego could really recover from that being your mark on her life. Think hard. You'll end up wasting years of your life feeling like you were the one that lost something good in her.
Aww I love when people get us....thank you 🙂
I wish I did get Virgos more! But I have a friend who's a sister to me. She does very well for herself now, exhibits many Virgo traits and she deserves the best the world can offer.click to expand
Oh you're good on that front....you understand us more than most. I always appreciate someone that takes the time out to try and understand...doesnt happen very often :/
Awww thats so sweet...people need friends like you! 🙂
Posted by Lenore0908
Why did you do so much for her? Did you feel like you didn't deserve her? You were doing so much for someone you've dated for only 5 months. You said you gave her "just because gifts", gave her money, let her use your car. You're against games and manipulations, yet you gave her all these things to make her feel a certain way. To feel like she could trust you. You gave her these things with "conditions". Isn't that manipulation? Now you want to manipulate her into missing you? It's all about you, not her.
I'm not saying you're a bad person or anything but you teach people how to treat you. you spoiled her and she started acting like a brat. Cause and effect. stop blaming her and take responsibility for yourself.
You said she was always complaining, well she sounds like an unhappy person anyway, so there probably wasn't anything you could do to make her happy.
Then you said you don't want to hurt her, but what's the title of the thread again? You want her to *regret* losing you, and last time I checked regret is a negative emotion similar to hurt.
One: I didnt give her Anything with a "condition" I gave it to her because, she needed it. I wanted her to know that she had someone in her corner who wanted to see her succeed. I never asked her for anything. If I say I will be there for you... Thats what the hell I mean.
Two: I wasnt showering her with gifts. I sent her a freakin edible arrangements for her to know someone was thinking about her and she was special. I did so much because with all that she was going thru, I wanted her to know that she had someone that wasnt trying to take from her. Her last GF took obscene amounts of money from her. Her family was taking from her. Her dad wasn't acting like he didnt want to help her.
I know damn well I deserve the type of treatment I give. Going into a relationship I give 100% and I expect that in return. I dont spoil or want to be spoiled. I want a PARTNERSHIP. I don't want to hurt anyone thats all you need to know...
Lenore0908 If someone says they love you, wouldnt you expect to be shown that. I dont want money. I dont want gifts. I understand that the feelings of love can be scary, just cuz I feel it doesnt mean the other person is there yet. To me, A lot of virgos need to stop analyzing EVERYTHING, and thinking there is a hidden agenda to everything, and that there is no one that is just honestly sincere and wanting to help. I have never given anything hoping that she would love me 'more.' Thats just pathetic. Stop trying to tell me what my intentions were. I have given to friends when they needed it, without thinking "Pls be my friend more." I dont give with 'conditions.' This may be how you see it, or how you work, but not me. I am a Naturally good hearted person, If I have the means to help someone... I go about doing it because they need it. Now because this was my GF, I am going to go the extra mile.
Posted by CallMeSkills
Lenore0908 If someone says they love you, wouldnt you expect to be shown that. I dont want money. I dont want gifts. I understand that the feelings of love can be scary, just cuz I feel it doesnt mean the other person is there yet. To me, A lot of virgos need to stop analyzing EVERYTHING, and thinking there is a hidden agenda to everything, and that there is no one that is just honestly sincere and wanting to help. I have never given anything hoping that she would love me 'more.' Thats just pathetic. Stop trying to tell me what my intentions were. I have given to friends when they needed it, without thinking "Pls be my friend more." I dont give with 'conditions.' This may be how you see it, or how you work, but not me. I am a Naturally good hearted person, If I have the means to help someone... I go about doing it because they need it. Now because this was my GF, I am going to go the extra mile.
No disrespect @CallMeSkills but your response(s) just SCREAMS pressure to me. I'm not your girlfriend and I can feel pressure emanating from the screen. Sometimes when you spend all this energy trying to convince a Virgo of what you're not trying to do all you do is further convince us that that's exactly what you're trying to do (if that makes any sense). Here's my point it's actually quite normal to subconsciously expect some sort of reciprocation when you put forth effort into someone and subsequently feel slighted when the effort is not returned in a manner you see fit...it's human nature. We are essentially selfish beings. My antenna begins to vibrate when people try to convince me that there is no agenda, they are just doing things to be "nice". Everyone has an agenda and having and agenda doesn't necessarily make you a bad person. In this case you had/have feelings for the woman you were dating so you began to shower her with your version of affection to the extent of having your affections returned...THAT WAS YOUR AGENDA. You don't go around gifting total strangers who fall on hard times do you? Of course not because with them you have no agenda (essentially you want nothing from them) so they do not benefit from your kindness. It's OK to say I fell hard and gave harder, she left me and in the cold dark place that I don't like to talk about I want to see her recognize her mistake...you're human and we all desire revenge sometimes. Sadly this course wi
Sorry got cut off...
Sadly this course will only cause you more negative energy and will not produce the desired results. She's a Virgo; even if you were somehow able to make her regret it, she would never give you the satisfaction of knowing she regrets it...Especially if she knows you had a hand in making her regret her decision. At the end of the day if she's going to ever feel any sort of "regret" it will be from her own analysis of the situation.
With Virgos we're not going to see the world through your eyes, respond the way you think we should, love the way you want us to or stop analyzing...if we did we wouldn't be Virgos. Sometimes/MOST times if we're going through it the best way to be there is just to let us know you're there for us and leave us alone. All that other stuff just feel like pressure to hurry and get over it. IE. "here's some flowers, there now you should be over your funk". It just doesn't work that way for us. IMO of course :-) good luck!
Sadly this course will only cause you more negative energy and will not produce the desired results. She's a Virgo; even if you were somehow able to make her regret it, she would never give you the satisfaction of knowing she regrets it...Especially if she knows you had a hand in making her regret her decision. At the end of the day if she's going to ever feel any sort of "regret" it will be from her own analysis of the situation.
With Virgos we're not going to see the world through your eyes, respond the way you think we should, love the way you want us to or stop analyzing...if we did we wouldn't be Virgos. Sometimes/MOST times if we're going through it the best way to be there is just to let us know you're there for us and leave us alone. All that other stuff just feel like pressure to hurry and get over it. IE. "here's some flowers, there now you should be over your funk". It just doesn't work that way for us. IMO of course :-) good luck!
Posted by CluelessCancer
Do Libras have backbone? Frak that Bitch. Move on. Forget about attempting to make her feel anything as if she's lost anything. I thought you were attempting to hurt her, which you can't cause virgos have no emotions, but that to me would be a more interesting method than, getting her to see her loss. She took you for granted girl and you're way too appeasing..why i can't deal with libras.
4 pages of —nothing—?_
Most Virgos are —self-aware?? in almost every situation —including interpersonal relationships??, in that sense there will be no —regrets?? when they know already how to get in and get out without hard feelings when shit hit the fan.
Anyway, aren't you a bit selfish here..? All I can see here is about what you want, do we hear about what she want..? This thought ever crossed your mind.?
Tips: Don't fight against her self-awareness or you will lose the battle.
Most Virgos are —self-aware?? in almost every situation —including interpersonal relationships??, in that sense there will be no —regrets?? when they know already how to get in and get out without hard feelings when shit hit the fan.
Anyway, aren't you a bit selfish here..? All I can see here is about what you want, do we hear about what she want..? This thought ever crossed your mind.?
Tips: Don't fight against her self-awareness or you will lose the battle.
Posted by Missvirgo99Posted by CluelessCancer
Do Libras have backbone? Frak that Bitch. Move on. Forget about attempting to make her feel anything as if she's lost anything. I thought you were attempting to hurt her, which you can't cause virgos have no emotions, but that to me would be a more interesting method than, getting her to see her loss. She took you for granted girl and you're way too appeasing..why i can't deal with libras.
The quality of advice on these boards is truly unparalleled. Just saying.
If you chew on the meat and spit out the bones....you will find what you are looking for.
If you chew on the meat and spit out the bones....you will find what you are looking for.
Posted by Mr. Defense
The answer is simple, become a Taurus. I think that is the only person I regret losing.
Seriously? And why?
In my experience when you really loce someone you give without expecting anything in return, no expectations, you say I love you bc you feel it not to get someone to say, you express your love bc that's how you feel not because you want someone to accept you and/or appreciate you.
As a Libra the only advice I can give you is that when you start feeling you are the one giving and giving and giving and you don't see the other person is as invested as you are, you have to stop and take a step back, don't nag or conplaint, just stop, take time to find and balance yourself, bring the attention and energy to you and your happiness, we lose ourselves in someone else and we are start feeling resentful and drained...
You are not with her a anymore, she dumped you so who cares what she thinks of you—? You should know your own value, you know you are a great person who tried to make it work, you put an effort, tried and got burned, you know who you are, move on and stop investing time and energy on someone that obviously doesn't want to be with you...
Trying to manipulate a Virgo into doing or feeling a certain way about you— lol good luck!!!
As a Libra the only advice I can give you is that when you start feeling you are the one giving and giving and giving and you don't see the other person is as invested as you are, you have to stop and take a step back, don't nag or conplaint, just stop, take time to find and balance yourself, bring the attention and energy to you and your happiness, we lose ourselves in someone else and we are start feeling resentful and drained...
You are not with her a anymore, she dumped you so who cares what she thinks of you—? You should know your own value, you know you are a great person who tried to make it work, you put an effort, tried and got burned, you know who you are, move on and stop investing time and energy on someone that obviously doesn't want to be with you...
Trying to manipulate a Virgo into doing or feeling a certain way about you— lol good luck!!!
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Okay I had been dating this virgo girl for 5 months... We ended it recently because her mom found out about us (2 women) and if you all would please put you homophobic feelings to the side, I would greatly appreciate it.
Anyway I felt like it was coming to and end because as time went on... I understood her less and less. She became colder & more callous with each week that passed, & more and more combative. I told her I loved her 1st and I told her I wasn't saying it to make her say it but just to tell her how I felt. I also told her "pls don't say it if you dont feel it." Within that same convo she told me she loved me as well. Thru the entire relationship I had always been loving and caring. When she was dealing with a lot of stressful situations I made sure she knew I was there for her. I gave her money if she needed it. Her car was falling apart & I offered her mine. I would randomly tell her she was special, That I loved and appreciated her. I told her she was beautiful, I would every so often send her "Just Because Gifts." Im Well spoken, Hard working, well mannered, even tempered. Although Im working in my chosen career field Im still ambitious, Everything I thought a virgo girl wanted.
Now I am a libra so I know, evidently this union doesn't make any sense.
I dont yell... I dont really argue. I will let her know she is correct, and it seems, the ONLY complaint she has about me is that Im so "Passionate about my feelings" I let a lot of things that she did go, And at the beginning of the Relationship, She told me, sometimes I have to put my foot down. Im like "okay... evidently she likes that and finds that attractive," but when I did it, she got SO mad and didn't speak to me for like 3 days. I had to call her. (Mind you: This is a long distance relationship).
What happened was: She had put up a picture online that I disagreed with and told her "It needs to change. Plain and simple" ("putting my foot down" Like she said) She was mad but she changed it. Now that we are not together she put that picture back up, and it felt like a kick in the stomach. Like she did it just to spite me, for no reason though. After her mom found out, She told me she needed to be alone but we could still communicate. I told her "I knew you would say that and all I can do is understand. I love you and I always will." Now she is doing lil things she know they will hurt me but it seems maybe that is her goal
I want to subtlety let her know what she