How to play a player Virgo man—

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OHNOXoxo
@OHNOXoxo
8 Years

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This man has enchanted and bewitched me with his sweet talks and talks about future. But has taken no actiont towards the future it's been month's and month's and we talk in like week's and sometimes continuous greetings for couple of day's straight!

He says he's busy with work but i see him enjoying his social life. Although i dont spy or he doesn't tell he's out and about but i do get the news from friend's. We stay countries apart. With time I'm feeling he's only playing because i feel this guy doesnt really need me , if only he did he would come to me or call me yo him. But all i get is this moment's of intense talks about how much he loves me and and what all he'll do to me or with me. Mainly sexual. Sigh!

And i dont want to ask him up front because he's told me he doesnt like confrontational women.. i feel he's just not that into me, and i wasnt too. But he got me thinking with his earlier persuasions. And i fell in love. I only wish to know how to make him vulnerable too as his made me in this situation without calling it quits.

Please suggest something.
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LilithTaurus
@LilithTaurus
7 Years

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I say give up. I’ve been in this situation before and I honestly think they like playing women. They enjoy frustrating and teasing them. I know how easy it is to get hooked on Virgo men, they can be very charming and there is an elusiveness that is bewitching but I honestly think they are all talk. The only way to play a Virgo player is to care less than he does, which is a losing battle cos they can be cold as ice. I would advise cutting off contact and saving yourself grief cos Virgo men can say they love you on Tuesday and cut you off like you are nothing on Wednesday.
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OHNOXoxo
@OHNOXoxo
8 Years

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Well I did try to care less. And it worked because, then again he started with his sweet nothing's and plans for future. Things went well again for a week and then boom he's again cold! Its so frustrating. One moment he's all sweet and cant wait to see me kind of vibes other's he's so distanced, doing his thing's and putting the party photo's on Insta.

I'm getting tired but when he's sweet hes really warm and all shit. I'm in love with him. I know this because my thoughts are full of him every morning i wake or go to sleep at night. He's such a charmer when he's sweet!

Is there anything i can do, which will make him miss me more and take some action towards the marriage promises he's made—