How to proceed with virgo?

Hi its me. Ive been dealing with a virgo for some time now, as i posted before, we had some communication issues but we seemed to iron that out and things were fine for a while.

I took the advice on here and I tried to be more clear about my feelings so there was no misunderstandings, and it was good for a while, but at some point it seemed he kinda pulled back and stopped putting in effort, and would take ages to respond to me. He was not cold at all, but just kinda lazy basically?? So I decided to drop it and distance myself instead.

Once I stopped putting effort into him, he suddenly started putting in effort, and communicating more and treating me how he did initially (well). Now I am confused and also not really trusting of him. I've read a lot that virgos dont play games and are more serious of the zodiac signs, but I am not sure if hes playing me or if maybe I should continue to give this a chance?? Any insight?

Sorry to be annoying, and Thank you!

give it a chance

Posted by virgoOPPP

give it a chance

thanks for your input! 🙂 i took your advice and kinda just let it be for a moment and then out of nowhere he asked me out?? to me its kinda weird he went from cold to this?? is this a virgo thing? lol

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Posted by virgoOPPP

give it a chance

thanks for your input! 🙂 i took your advice and kinda just let it be for a moment and then out of nowhere he asked me out?? to me its kinda weird he went from cold to this?? is this a virgo thing? lol

Yeah, it’s a Virgo thing. Look up “push pull”. It’s a pain in the balls.

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Does that mean he is into me or hes just messing around then— Cause if I do push/pull then im playing games/not feeling someone so idk lol

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Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns

Posted by aquatar1

Posted by virgoOPPP

give it a chance

thanks for your input! 🙂 i took your advice and kinda just let it be for a moment and then out of nowhere he asked me out?? to me its kinda weird he went from cold to this?? is this a virgo thing? lol

Yeah, it’s a Virgo thing. Look up “push pull”. It’s a pain in the balls.

Does that mean he is into me or hes just messing around then— Cause if I do push/pull then im playing games/not feeling someone so idk lol

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He is into you, but by the time you actually start to feel that, you might be long gone. It's a long, winding road to understand a Virgo, they start from the back, from complicated to simple.....pack bags with lot of patience.

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Posted by aquatar1

Posted by virgoOPPP

give it a chance

thanks for your input! 🙂 i took your advice and kinda just let it be for a moment and then out of nowhere he asked me out?? to me its kinda weird he went from cold to this?? is this a virgo thing? lol

Yeah, it’s a Virgo thing. Look up “push pull”. It’s a pain in the balls.

Does that mean he is into me or hes just messing around then— Cause if I do push/pull then im playing games/not feeling someone so idk lol

He is into you, but by the time you actually start to feel that, you might be long gone. It's a long, winding road to understand a Virgo, they start from the back, from complicated to simple.....pack bags with lot of patience.

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Ugh that sounds about right lol. I legit dont "feel" it, actually the day he asked me out, i saw him in person and he didnt seem to care at all, then a couple hours later he texted me to ask me out, i was like —. They're such confusing creatures omg, virgos wtf lol. They're so distant too, all the time. He texts me to ask me out then disappears for a day ignoring me. ?? Odd creatures.

This happened to me and I got nervous considering I bailed on a few of our meet ups thinking I had done something wrong... but a little confused lowkey because we just had a fun lengthy convo prior where he flirted lots. And called me that night before his silence.

It was like a two day silence

Then he came back like nothing happened lol

Just be patient, and in turn you also learn patience lol

I see many aqua fem and virgo men

Meg the stallion new BF is a virgo.. not that it matters lol

But so cute

Posted by ELIGAB

I see many aqua fem and virgo men

Meg the stallion new BF is a virgo.. not that it matters lol

But so cute

what about aqua male/virgo fem?

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by ELIGAB

I see many aqua fem and virgo men

Meg the stallion new BF is a virgo.. not that it matters lol

But so cute

what about aqua male/virgo fem?

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Not much.. shit I never been with a aqua myself

Always curious thou...

Well actually I know one Aug virgo with a pisces moon with a aqua man

She says he's really cold but was ok.. that was about it....