How would a virgo guy show interest vs being friendly

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bexi
@bexi
10 Years

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So, this shy aloof friend of a friend in my crowd of friends has maybe gotten me infatuated..

I have talked to him at parties etc but nothing serious. First 5 times I thought he was "too important" to be sociable with me..or maybe arrogant.
But a month ago he said he was shy and bits fell to place bc I am shy and I know it can be seen as light "arrogance" sometimes.

So a month back we were at an afterparty at his and my friends house. They bought a house together lol..
I have mainly male friends and hang out with them alot.
So we get our childish fun on and laugh and make puns at people. We hid in a utility closet and he pretended it was ww3 or something and we dressed up in helmets and what not and laughed at the others not getting it.Drunk and childish to my defense. But we ended up in his bed..just cuddling for hours..no kissing but alot of talking, laughing and spooning.

So no contact till he shows up at my friends party randomly at 3am. My friend which he knows left there abt 11 pm. So when I met him in the kitchen he acted as though he barely knew me. Kinda standoffish. I was omg hi, what are u doing here? And gave him a hug, poured a
drink and back tonthe others. He sat in the living room the entire night..when almost everyone was gone he was joining in on the laughs and jokes again. And he stood up for me when this jerk made a comment on how he thought I was a bimbo initially..but the coolest bimbo in the world. I didnt care as he was a jerk and I just found it funny. But virgo was very no how can you evennsay that etc. We left after that and the jerk tried to start something with virgo and he was just diplomatic and calm. I was not happy bc i felt virgo got an unfair treatment. We left laughing at them the way to his place. Had a drink and a talk and at one point said he wasn't sexually experienced, which I actually find endearing..and the fact he doesn't make bold moves is refreshing. Hours of snuggling and laughing and his weird question on everything and wild thoughts much like my own way of thinking ie. Awkward funny situations and what if's. He said I was the coolest girl he'd ever met. I was surprised bc he seems indifferent to everything and did not expect the least of a compliment. What surprised me was that almost every thing I said last time we met was memorized. I took that as drunken banter that time. And he also tried to start tickle fights randomly like 4 times..is this a pass? However when we got up his roomate and his gf was in the livingroom and i felt awkward in case they thought something was going on..so I left and again we were like strangers. An hour later he liked my profile pic in fb. Not much, but he has never done that.

I think I might like him..a guy who makes me laugh like that really finds his way to my heart. But I don't want to read anything into stuff anymore, but I do get curious. And since we've never chatted on texts etc I would feel weird sending him a message..esp if he is just bei
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bexi
@bexi
10 Years

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Posted by aquataurus
When Virgos like you they will stand up for you and want what is best for you. It might come off harsh but they don't mean it like that. They give very subtle hints until you get to know each other more. They genuinely care about your well being and all that stuff. 🙂
Thank you 🙂

He actually texted me today so I guess it's up to me to act on this more from now on 😄