I am impossible to please I feel like

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Zetarose on Tuesday, February 16, 2016 and has 25 replies.

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@Zetarose
11 YearsVirgo

In new relationships it seems the more intense it gets the more I take and need.. Like I've heard a lot of men say "the more I give the more you take." To me... Idk what my deal is.. Insecurities, and negative thoughts and worried just flood my mind. I started a LDR with an Aries man and I am currently doing this and about to lose him... Idk what to do. Is anyone else like this— Like nothing is enough.. And need constant reassurance??

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

I think it's fucking hilarious that you put the little blurb in your profile, "Virgonian goddess" .... and then the presentation of yourself is an immature, attention whoring useless female who can't get past her own insecurities to actually be someone of value to another.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

That's right up there with all of the Geminis who claim everyone is jealous of them ... and then they act like pit bulls on the attack if people don't honor and agree with them.

lol

How people view themselves is obviously not even close to who they really are.

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@Zetarose
11 YearsVirgo

Posted by Ixion120

Posted by Zetarose
In new relationships it seems the more intense it gets the more I take and need.. Like I've heard a lot of men say "the more I give the more you take." To me... Idk what my deal is.. Insecurities, and negative thoughts and worried just flood my mind. I started a LDR with an Aries man and I am currently doing this and about to lose him... Idk what to do. Is an yone else like this— Like nothing is enough.. And need constant reassurance??

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Are you just curious if others share the same disposition as you ? Or are you looking for

Both...🙂!

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@Zetarose
11 YearsVirgo

Posted by Flo
Hmm... Quest to figure out the Aquarian mind.
That probably won't happen, we're like a paradox..

Ya no longer now my target is Aries I thought I changed it.. I know I did idk why it's showing up Aquarius still

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by Zetarose

Like nothing is enough.. And need constant reassurance

You can start by having a more realistic self view ...

The universe always answers you.

Nothing is enough, and constant reassurance is needed because you are believing that people are serving a "goddess" .... you believe you deserve more than you are.

So, since you have no awareness of this ... how is it that you're a god?

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@WateryGem
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by P-Angel

That's right up there with all of the Geminis who claim everyone is jealous of them ... and then they act like pit bulls on the attack if people don't honor and agree with them.

lol

How people view themselves is obviously not even close to who they really are.

Hey now!! NOT every Gemini, that's just silly. I don't think anyone is jealous of me nor am I jealous of them.

I am much to flawed to have people thinking that I'm so great that others are jealous. LOL I don't get that mentality at all, in fact, I hate when women say "they are just jealous of you". I heard my ex say that to my daughter and had to stop him. I don't want her to walk around thinking that. :/ Just want her to love herself and not put other women down.

lol Anyways, that was my side note off the OP topic. 😛

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

OP, you first have to find happiness in yourself before you can find it with someone else. I think you should do some things to work on your self esteem and learn to become confident and secure in who you are before you can be secure in a relationship. A man isn't going to do this for you. No one's going to like you until you like you.

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@WateryGem
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by Zetarose

Like nothing is enough.. And need constant reassurance

You can start by having a more realistic self view ...

The universe always answers you.

Nothing is enough, and constant reassurance is needed because you are believing that people are serving a "goddess" .... you believe you deserve more than you are.

So, since you have no awareness of this ... how is it that you're a god?

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P is right, if you believe nothing is enough, it will never be enough. You have to adjust your thoughts and see things in a different light. What we think is what we will see and live.

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@KitMoon
10 Years

PAngel, you're just a nasty human being, I would never take whatever you have to say at face value ...never , I can see how you kick people when they're down .....sign of a proper troll

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@Zetarose
11 YearsVirgo

Posted by KitMoon
PAngel, you're just a nasty human being, I would never take whatever you have to say at face value ...never , I can see how you kick people when they're down .....sign of a proper troll

Thank you...!!!!🙌🻊ðŸ‘

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@KitMoon
10 Years

Can't agree.... not my cup of tea! Not nice, that's all, to each its own and yes life does teach us the best lesson! :*