RoosterSpade
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I asked a virgo out but now she's ignoring me. Is there something wrong with my messages?
Posted by RoosterSpadeIt's either she's busy or not really into you.
I hardly know her or see her so I asked her out through Facebook chat. This is how it went;
Me: hey! I know this is kind of out of the blue but would you like to hang out sometime?
Her: Hello there 😄 how are you?
Her: Will there be food?
Me: Ahh yeah im good thanks and thats a very good question
Me: Depends on what kind of food tho
Me: I was thinking coffee but food is better
and she's seen the messages but hasn't replied yet. Was there something wrong with my messages? Shall I contact her again?
Posted by Nathan912it's been over 12 hours since she saw my messages so I guess if she was going to reply she would have done it by now :/Posted by RoosterSpadeIt's either she's busy or not really into you.
I hardly know her or see her so I asked her out through Facebook chat. This is how it went;
Me: hey! I know this is kind of out of the blue but would you like to hang out sometime?
Her: Hello there 😄 how are you?
Her: Will there be food?
Me: Ahh yeah im good thanks and thats a very good question
Me: Depends on what kind of food tho
Me: I was thinking coffee but food is better
and she's seen the messages but hasn't replied yet. Was there something wrong with my messages? Shall I contact her again?click to expand
Ok here man, like you said both of you hardly know each other and doesn't see each other often, so it's means she doesn't trust you.
Build a friendship with her first and talk to her face face before asking her out but not on facebook.
Build a friendship with her first and talk to her face face before asking her out but not on facebook.
Posted by RoosterSpade
I hardly know her or see her so I asked her out through Facebook chat. This is how it went;
Me: hey! I know this is kind of out of the blue but would you like to hang out sometime?
Her: Hello there 😄 how are you?
Her: Will there be food?
Me: Ahh yeah im good thanks and thats a very good question
Me: Depends on what kind of food tho
Me: I was thinking coffee but food is better
and she's seen the messages but hasn't replied yet. Was there something wrong with my messages? Shall I contact her again?
Yes, only one more time, that's it.
Wait a couple or a few days before you say anything else
@OP:
Here's some advice for the next time(not necessarily with her). First, chat her up first before you ask her out. Let her get to know you a little beforehand.
Second, ask her in person and not over social media. She probably gets 50 million messages asking her out you're not distinguishing yourself from the rest. Also, it's quick and easy...which is exactly the message you're sending her...that she's quick and easy and you probably do this all the time. If you want her, put in a little effort. Dating is not like cold calling someone trying to sell stocks. Let her get to know you first and then ask. Patience is a virtue.
Good luck
Here's some advice for the next time(not necessarily with her). First, chat her up first before you ask her out. Let her get to know you a little beforehand.
Second, ask her in person and not over social media. She probably gets 50 million messages asking her out you're not distinguishing yourself from the rest. Also, it's quick and easy...which is exactly the message you're sending her...that she's quick and easy and you probably do this all the time. If you want her, put in a little effort. Dating is not like cold calling someone trying to sell stocks. Let her get to know you first and then ask. Patience is a virtue.
Good luck
She must be some picky eater. lol!
I remember your previous topic.
In that one, as well as this one, people told you to set a date and not keep it to a fb interaction alone.
Yet you choose not to listen.
How many more topics about fb interactions?
I should stop giving advice to Cancers. It's not like you ever want any input from us.
See you in the next fb topic.
In that one, as well as this one, people told you to set a date and not keep it to a fb interaction alone.
Yet you choose not to listen.
How many more topics about fb interactions?
I should stop giving advice to Cancers. It's not like you ever want any input from us.
See you in the next fb topic.
Posted by KoniuchaThey probably interact few times already but it seems this guy wasted lots of time by not getting to know her personally instead he choose facebook to ask a girl on a date.Posted by Nathan912Well they would have to hang out first to talk face to face. He said he doesn't see her often.
Ok here man, like you said both of you hardly know each other and doesn't see each other often, so it's means she doesn't trust you.
Build a friendship with her first and talk to her face face before asking her out but not on facebook.click to expand
What I'm trying to say is next time they see each other again, befriend her first and when the friendship and trust is build, he better make a move like real man and ask her face to face not on facebook.
Posted by Nathan912She might be try make a decision on whether she wants too or she may not really be interested it could be a lot of things cause I know I'm kinda like do I want to go or no it could be that she will get back too u later who knows but try and message her again if she ignores u than leave it alonePosted by RoosterSpadeIt's either she's busy or not really into you.
I hardly know her or see her so I asked her out through Facebook chat. This is how it went;
Me: hey! I know this is kind of out of the blue but would you like to hang out sometime?
Her: Hello there 😄 how are you?
Her: Will there be food?
Me: Ahh yeah im good thanks and thats a very good question
Me: Depends on what kind of food tho
Me: I was thinking coffee but food is better
and she's seen the messages but hasn't replied yet. Was there something wrong with my messages? Shall I contact her again?click to expand
Posted by queencancerU sound correct but hey not always the case she might be try use u cause some of use do that not saying she does but idk she could be trying too play games
Lol. It appears she's not interested but let's just hope she got caught up in something (or something) and forgot to finish replying. Try reaching out again. If she keeps it up, give it a break.
Posted by queencancerU sound correct but hey not always the case she might be try use u cause some of use do that not saying she does but idk she could be trying too play games
Lol. It appears she's not interested but let's just hope she got caught up in something (or something) and forgot to finish replying. Try reaching out again. If she keeps it up, give it a break.
But I think u should leave it alone u is on bs I know I'm a Virgo and I have done it before and plus I know
Posted by Trice38Yeah maybe, But still i find to be lame move for a guy to ask a girl out through social network like facebook lol. There's a better chance a girl will appreciate it more if a guy approach and ask them out in person to go on a date with them.Posted by Nathan912She might be try make a decision on whether she wants too or she may not really be interested it could be a lot of things cause I know I'm kinda like do I want to go or no it could be that she will get back too u later who knows but try and message her again if she ignores u than leave it alonePosted by RoosterSpadeIt's either she's busy or not really into you.
I hardly know her or see her so I asked her out through Facebook chat. This is how it went;
Me: hey! I know this is kind of out of the blue but would you like to hang out sometime?
Her: Hello there 😄 how are you?
Her: Will there be food?
Me: Ahh yeah im good thanks and thats a very good question
Me: Depends on what kind of food tho
Me: I was thinking coffee but food is better
and she's seen the messages but hasn't replied yet. Was there something wrong with my messages? Shall I contact her again?click to expand
I'll be damned if the Virgo Girl changed her mind already because she think the OP is a wuss and don't have a guts to ask her out in person and she realized facebook is the only way for the OP to man up lol.
She might not like him or already got a man
I messaged her again with a place to go and she messaged back and I replied and now she's stopped again. She asked me a question which is why I replied. This time she hasn't even read my message and she's updated Facebook and viewed my snapchats and stuff but has just completely ignored my message 😢
I tried very hard to try and see her in real life and ask her out. We have mutual friends and I went to many events and socials in hopes to meet her but we never met. I was trying since September this year and after realising it wasn't going to happen I took to Facebook to ask her out. I think she's really great and just really wanted to get to know her, I purposely said "hang out" and not "date" because I wanted to hang out with her first as friends and if it went well I'd have a chance to ask her out properly.
It's very weird and I've asked my friends but I really don't know what to think. She's ignoring my messages and it makes me feel like she's not interested - which is totally cool but why not just say that?? I thought Virgos were straight talking and not into mind games or whatever...
I'm pretty good at observing people and I'm sure she doesn't dislike me so I'm really confused. Also, she is not with anyone from what I know. She did date someone very briefly for a month but they stopped around 2 months ago
Also, just a disclaimer, I'd really prefer it if only virgo (and females) could give me advice 🙂 and if someone else has good input I wouldn't mind. Thanks!
I tried very hard to try and see her in real life and ask her out. We have mutual friends and I went to many events and socials in hopes to meet her but we never met. I was trying since September this year and after realising it wasn't going to happen I took to Facebook to ask her out. I think she's really great and just really wanted to get to know her, I purposely said "hang out" and not "date" because I wanted to hang out with her first as friends and if it went well I'd have a chance to ask her out properly.
It's very weird and I've asked my friends but I really don't know what to think. She's ignoring my messages and it makes me feel like she's not interested - which is totally cool but why not just say that?? I thought Virgos were straight talking and not into mind games or whatever...
I'm pretty good at observing people and I'm sure she doesn't dislike me so I'm really confused. Also, she is not with anyone from what I know. She did date someone very briefly for a month but they stopped around 2 months ago
Also, just a disclaimer, I'd really prefer it if only virgo (and females) could give me advice 🙂 and if someone else has good input I wouldn't mind. Thanks!
I'm dating a virgo and she doesn't always read messages on fb for a day or so, but that might be because I just send links on there. Get her number and try to set so,etching up there.
Posted by Vanishits been like 2 days now! is this normal— It would make sense for me to say she isn't interested but then why try and continue the conversation and then ignore my replies? and still view my snapchats, etc. It's pretty confusing, I didn't expect this from a virgo hahahaha
I think she likes you. Stop freaking out. Give her time to asses what's happening.
Posted by starwarsat a party a few months ago
how did you guys met?
Posted by Damnatalol
I remember your previous topic.
In that one, as well as this one, people told you to set a date and not keep it to a fb interaction alone.
Yet you choose not to listen.
How many more topics about fb interactions?
I should stop giving advice to Cancers. It's not like you ever want any input from us.
See you in the next fb topic.
Posted by DamnataYou have the wrong person. I've never posted before about asking out a Virgo or asking someone out over Facebook. I doubt you would have given any good advice if you couldn't even distinguish my profile from others. Instead of labelling all cancers the same maybe you should learn to read 🙂
I remember your previous topic.
In that one, as well as this one, people told you to set a date and not keep it to a fb interaction alone.
Yet you choose not to listen.
How many more topics about fb interactions?
I should stop giving advice to Cancers. It's not like you ever want any input from us.
See you in the next fb topic.
Posted by virga1Yeah I agree. I'm usually not that bad at replies but like I said before, I do like her quite a bit so I guess I messed up on my replies.
Your response is odd. She answered in a charming way.
Posted by HeartOkay, this does make a lot of sense. She's very open with her social media so even though I haven't met her that many times I still feel like I have a good enough knowledge about the type of person she is. I, however, am the complete opposite. I'm a very private person so I guess she doesn't really know what kind of person I am at all. I purposely worded my first message to her in that way so she doesn't think it's a date and freak out, I want to be friends with her at first but I don't really know how else we can become friends if I don't ask her to hang out.Posted by RoosterSpadeShe's an earth sign! Earthy people need a friendship before love, then we date. She likely doesn't know you well enough to be sure if she feels comfortable. Also, I think your answer is too vague. You didn't specify if you want to hangout at the library, the park, or coffee shop. Wait another day or, two. If she hasn't answered by then send a short and sweet:
I hardly know her or see her so I asked her out through Facebook chat. This is how it went;
Me: hey! I know this is kind of out of the blue but would you like to hang out sometime?
Her: Hello there 😄 how are you?
Her: Will there be food?
Me: Ahh yeah im good thanks and thats a very good question
Me: Depends on what kind of food tho
Me: I was thinking coffee but food is better
and she's seen the messages but hasn't replied yet. Was there something wrong with my messages? Shall I contact her again?
"Let me know when you're free and if there's any place you normally like, if not we can just meet up at the nearby __ " whatever spot is in the neighborhood.click to expand
Posted by HeartPosted by RoosterSpade
I messaged her again with a place to go and she messaged back and I replied and now she's stopped again. She asked me a question which is why I replied. This time she hasn't even read my message and she's updated Facebook and viewed my snapchats and stuff but has just completely ignored my message 😢
I tried very hard to try and see her in real life and ask her out. We have mutual friends and I went to many events and socials in hopes to meet her but we never met. I was trying since September this year and after realising it wasn't going to happen I took to Facebook to ask her out. I think she's really great and just really wanted to get to know her, I purposely said "hang out" and not "date" because I wanted to hang out with her first as friends and if it went well I'd have a chance to ask her out properly.
It's very weird and I've asked my friends but I really don't know
Ok so I didn't see this before my last comment. But as I said before try getting to know each other- focus on common interests. Virgos are slllllooooooooooww to answer. I have Virgo rising and act slow in public- two of my friends are Virgo and often take two days or more to answer. They are usually running from one task to another, you know, the perfectionists.
Is there anything you two have in common? Music, ideologies, anything.
This is exactly what I want! Haha, I want to have a conversation with her and talk to her about things that we both like! I know we both have interesting music taste and seem to like similar artists and I also think our humour is very similar (from what I know).
Thank you for your reply by the way, it seems your replies we're the most constructive and helpful 🙂
Posted by Nathan912Like I mentioned before, I tried very hard to meet her in person. I've been trying for 3 months now and it's just not worked out. I've never asked anyone out over Facebook until now because I much prefer asking someone out in person, you can get a good idea of how someone feels about you by the type of response you get! It's so much harder over text or social media because of things like this... taking long to reply/ignoring message/not knowing if the person is interested or not, etc.
Yeah maybe, But still i find to be lame move for a guy to ask a girl out through social network like facebook lol. There's a better chance a girl will appreciate it more if a guy approach and ask them out in person to go on a date with them.
I'll be damned if the Virgo Girl changed her mind already because she think the OP is a wuss and don't have a guts to ask her out in person and she realized facebook is the only way for the OP to man up lol.
Posted by RoosterSpadeInstead of blatantly lying to me, maybe you should read what you post in your topics 🙂 (ps: every dynamic you describe is all about facebook)Posted by DamnataYou have the wrong person. I've never posted before about asking out a Virgo or asking someone out over Facebook. I doubt you would have given any good advice if you couldn't even distinguish my profile from others. Instead of labelling all cancers the same maybe you should learn to read 🙂
I remember your previous topic.
In that one, as well as this one, people told you to set a date and not keep it to a fb interaction alone.
Yet you choose not to listen.
How many more topics about fb interactions?
I should stop giving advice to Cancers. It's not like you ever want any input from us.
See you in the next fb topic.click to expand
So take your idiotic "🙂" and stuff it in your shell.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/how-do-i-react-to-this-virgo-female-5695391/
Posted by DamnataPosted by RoosterSpadeInstead of blatantly lying to me, maybe you should read what you post in your topics 🙂 (ps: every dynamic you describe is all about facebook)Posted by DamnataYou have the wrong person. I've never posted before about asking out a Virgo or asking someone out over Facebook. I doubt you would have given any good advice if you couldn't even distinguish my profile from others. Instead of labelling all cancers the same maybe you should learn to read 🙂
I remember your previous topic.
In that one, as well as this one, people told you to set a date and not keep it to a fb interaction alone.
Yet you choose not to listen.
How many more topics about fb interactions?
I should stop giving advice to Cancers. It's not like you ever want any input from us.
See you in the next fb topic.
So take your idiotic "🙂" and stuff it in your shell.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/how-do-i-react-to-this-virgo-female-5695391/<div class="bqfade">click to expand
1. I've only ever started 2 topics on this forum, if they're both related to Facebook that isn't huge news mate
2. Never in my previous topic did I say I wanted to ask that Virgo person out. Never. (Clearly still can't read.. it's okay, I forgive you). So the fact that you're saying that "people told me set a date and to not keep it to a fb interaction" is very weird, don't really know where you got that from.
Did I miss the part where you asked for her phone number?
Posted by RoosterSpadeShe's not interested in you, so better move on.Posted by Nathan912Like I mentioned before, I tried very hard to meet her in person. I've been trying for 3 months now and it's just not worked out. I've never asked anyone out over Facebook until now because I much prefer asking someone out in person, you can get a good idea of how someone feels about you by the type of response you get! It's so much harder over text or social media because of things like this... taking long to reply/ignoring message/not knowing if the person is interested or not, etc.
Yeah maybe, But still i find to be lame move for a guy to ask a girl out through social network like facebook lol. There's a better chance a girl will appreciate it more if a guy approach and ask them out in person to go on a date with them.
I'll be damned if the Virgo Girl changed her mind already because she think the OP is a wuss and don't have a guts to ask her out in person and she realized facebook is the only way for the OP to man up lol.click to expand
You're starting to sound like PEITHO with the whole "I want us to be friends!", yet angling for something more.
Simillar stubborness and the beginning of obsessive behavior.
I feel you'll come back to this board...
Simillar stubborness and the beginning of obsessive behavior.
I feel you'll come back to this board...
I don't think you tried hard enough. You think you did but you didn't. Not really. Astrology aside for a moment. If you REALLY wanted to meet her again you'd have engineered it in any way possible. You say you have mutual friends. You could have arranged something that way or got her number from one of them and called her.
Sending a message on Facebook alluding to an ill defined 'hang out' at a non-specific date and time with no real thought out plan of detail or action in place, and then sitting back with your feet up hoping she'll roll over and hand it all to you on a gift wrapped plate, all presented and tied up nicely with a bow, isn't really trying hard enough, in my opinion.
It may work for some people but not for everyone. There's nothing wrong with using social media here but I think it makes it easy to hide behind so you can say 'well I tried really, really hard... I sent a message but she hasn't replied... I've done everything I can...'
No. You haven't. You spent three seconds of your time pressing some buttons on a keyboard while sitting on your arse in the comfort of your arm chair. You invested zero of your time actually thinking and coming up with a decent plan of action. Zero = lazy = no results.
No balls and no imagination. Put some fucking effort into it, man!
Sending a message on Facebook alluding to an ill defined 'hang out' at a non-specific date and time with no real thought out plan of detail or action in place, and then sitting back with your feet up hoping she'll roll over and hand it all to you on a gift wrapped plate, all presented and tied up nicely with a bow, isn't really trying hard enough, in my opinion.
It may work for some people but not for everyone. There's nothing wrong with using social media here but I think it makes it easy to hide behind so you can say 'well I tried really, really hard... I sent a message but she hasn't replied... I've done everything I can...'
No. You haven't. You spent three seconds of your time pressing some buttons on a keyboard while sitting on your arse in the comfort of your arm chair. You invested zero of your time actually thinking and coming up with a decent plan of action. Zero = lazy = no results.
No balls and no imagination. Put some fucking effort into it, man!
How do you know her? How long have you known her? Do you have mutual friends? Have you spoken or hung out before?
It wouldn't be anything to do with your messages, if your messages are just what you've told us so far. I agree with everyone who has said friendship before relationship, and that virgos need stability first. Idk what other virgos are like but I'm absolutely awful and keeping communication with people, and i look at things and forget to respond, unless I made a conscious effort to do so - like if I made plans with someone. She might be nervous or unsure, or maybe she's trying to show you she's disinterested without having to verbally decline your date idea.
Who knows really. My advice is, if you don't know her well, get to know her better, become friends, try and figure out how she feels about you. Keep it chill, keep it casual. If you think you have a chance, then ask her out. Make it obvious, say it is a date so there's no confusion. Actually ask her if she'd like to go on a 'date' with you. Maybe introduce it first, (pick something you know she likes) like a nice restaurant or cafe etc, and describe it and how you think it's cool and ask her if she'd like to go on a date with you to that place. It would help if you've interacted with her a couple of times prior, in a setting she's comfortable in, and around friends. It's also great if you make friends/get along nicely with the people close to her or just people she likes.
It wouldn't be anything to do with your messages, if your messages are just what you've told us so far. I agree with everyone who has said friendship before relationship, and that virgos need stability first. Idk what other virgos are like but I'm absolutely awful and keeping communication with people, and i look at things and forget to respond, unless I made a conscious effort to do so - like if I made plans with someone. She might be nervous or unsure, or maybe she's trying to show you she's disinterested without having to verbally decline your date idea.
Who knows really. My advice is, if you don't know her well, get to know her better, become friends, try and figure out how she feels about you. Keep it chill, keep it casual. If you think you have a chance, then ask her out. Make it obvious, say it is a date so there's no confusion. Actually ask her if she'd like to go on a 'date' with you. Maybe introduce it first, (pick something you know she likes) like a nice restaurant or cafe etc, and describe it and how you think it's cool and ask her if she'd like to go on a date with you to that place. It would help if you've interacted with her a couple of times prior, in a setting she's comfortable in, and around friends. It's also great if you make friends/get along nicely with the people close to her or just people she likes.
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Me: hey! I know this is kind of out of the blue but would you like to hang out sometime?
Her: Hello there 😄 how are you?
Her: Will there be food?
Me: Ahh yeah im good thanks and thats a very good question
Me: Depends on what kind of food tho
Me: I was thinking coffee but food is better
and she's seen the messages but hasn't replied yet. Was there something wrong with my messages? Shall I contact her again?