i need major help

I'm afraid you need the kind of help we can't offer.

Yes, it does sound like you need help.

I worked in food service. I learned to flirt with customers (I.e. be very friendly, smiley, attentive) to earn more tips. I knew that men often misconstrued my behavior, but I figured that was their problem for jumping to conclusions and my monetary gain and survival. My intention wasn't to fool them into thinking I was "into" them, but I wasn't going to not capitalize on that misconception, either.

Posted by IllaLupus
She's a virgo?

Are you a virgin?

Posted by libmercury
Her sign is not the issue here. I am a virgo male last time I checked.

Did you perform the standard check by seeing if a stick was up your ass? €

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Posted by IllaLupus
She's a virgo?

Are you a virgin?

Are your anal glands bleeding?

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Your immaturity is apparent on a number of levels. I did miss the question mark on the "She's a Virgo".

Her being a Virgo has nothing to do with anything. You are reading into a lot here which suggests inexperience on your part. Slow down.

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Posted by LillyPetal
I worked in food service. I learned to flirt with customers (I.e. be very friendly, smiley, attentive) to earn more tips. I knew that men often misconstrued my behavior, but I figured that was their problem for jumping to conclusions and my monetary gain and survival. My intention wasn't to fool them into thinking I was "into" them, but I wasn't going to not capitalize on that misconception, either.

The case is, she is not fooling me. She give me her phone number. So just curious what I should do.

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She did, did she? Then why not give her a call? Or better yet, go to the restaurant and ask her out face-to-face. There are so many creative elements to play with while doing that, you can really create a moment, even if she rejects you. *^___^*

Take a chance then take things slow.

I regret my tone.

Take a chance with this woman. Spend a bit more time with her then ask her out. Take things slow. (is what I meant)

go home

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Posted by LillyPetal
I worked in food service. I learned to flirt with customers (I.e. be very friendly, smiley, attentive) to earn more tips. I knew that men often misconstrued my behavior, but I figured that was their problem for jumping to conclusions and my monetary gain and survival. My intention wasn't to fool them into thinking I was "into" them, but I wasn't going to not capitalize on that misconception, either.

The case is, she is not fooling me. She give me her phone number. So just curious what I should do.

She did, did she? Then why not give her a call? Or better yet, go to the restaurant and ask her out face-to-face. There are so many creative elements to play with while doing that, you can really create a moment, even if she rejects you. *^___^*

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The problem is she and I are not cut from the same type of cloth and I am not sure if she can handle the mental label that comes with this type of relationship
and what it bring from societies views.

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Posted by LillyPetal

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Posted by LillyPetal
I worked in food service. I learned to flirt with customers (I.e. be very friendly, smiley, attentive) to earn more tips. I knew that men often misconstrued my behavior, but I figured that was their problem for jumping to conclusions and my monetary gain and survival. My intention wasn't to fool them into thinking I was "into" them, but I wasn't going to not capitalize on that misconception, either.

The case is, she is not fooling me. She give me her phone number. So just curious what I should do.

She did, did she? Then why not give her a call? Or better yet, go to the restaurant and ask her out face-to-face. There are so many creative elements to play with while doing that, you can really create a moment, even if she rejects you. *^___^*

The problem is she and I are not cut from the same type of cloth and I am not sure if she can handle the mental label that comes with this type of relationship
and what it bring from societies views.

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Bah humbug! You're probably underestimating her. You won't know till you try. Don't worry so much. F uck society.

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Posted by LillyPetal

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Posted by LillyPetal
I worked in food service. I learned to flirt with customers (I.e. be very friendly, smiley, attentive) to earn more tips. I knew that men often misconstrued my behavior, but I figured that was their problem for jumping to conclusions and my monetary gain and survival. My intention wasn't to fool them into thinking I was "into" them, but I wasn't going to not capitalize on that misconception, either.

The case is, she is not fooling me. She give me her phone number. So just curious what I should do.

She did, did she? Then why not give her a call? Or better yet, go to the restaurant and ask her out face-to-face. There are so many creative elements to play with while doing that, you can really create a moment, even if she rejects you. *^___^*

The problem is she and I are not cut from the same type of cloth and I am not sure if she can handle the mental label that comes with this type of relationship
and what it bring from societies views.

Bah humbug! You're probably underestimating her. You won't know till you try. Don't worry so much. F uck society.

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haha sounds like a plan.

Awww, I wish someone would send me flowers! Thats so sweet!

I think you should keep sending her stuff without your name on them and keep visiting her but not bringing that up. In a way, keep a close eye on her at all times.

Just ask her out and you'll find out how she feels. Idk if those are 'signs'. They could be but there's no way to tell until you ask her.

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Posted by LillyPetal
I worked in food service. I learned to flirt with customers (I.e. be very friendly, smiley, attentive) to earn more tips. I knew that men often misconstrued my behavior, but I figured that was their problem for jumping to conclusions and my monetary gain and survival. My intention wasn't to fool them into thinking I was "into" them, but I wasn't going to not capitalize on that misconception, either.

The case is, she is not fooling me. She give me her phone number. So just curious what I should do.

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In all fairness, I have a friend who used to be a waitress, and she gave her number to guys that asked for it, even though she had no interest in them. She only did it because she knew she would get better tips.
Also, whoever suggested to just keep sending her random things without your name on them... That can come off as really creepy. Why don't you ask in person if she wants to hang out someday? That way you will know for sure whether she's interested at all, and if you should continue pursuing her.