@confused34567
10 Years
What should I do?
I don't see any mixed signals from him.
Let him gooo.
He doesn't even have to ask for the goodies--
you're throwing them at him.
So take them AWAY.
That is what you should do.
I was played, wasn't I?
Posted by confused34567
I was played, wasn't I?
No.
Fwb is never ever the precursor to a relationship.
Ever.
Posted by confused34567
I was played, wasn't I?No.
Fwb is never ever the precursor to a relationship.
Ever.
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I'm more Aries than Pisces but I still have some Pisces
Posted by confused34567
I was played, wasn't I?No.
Fwb is never ever the precursor to a relationship.
Ever.
I'm more Aries than Pisces but I still have some Pisces
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@LadyofRebirth
I think this was for you, Ms Marmite.
I'm not sure you know what a FWB is...
Posted by confused34567
I was played, wasn't I?
lol...
Posted by confused34567
Long story short I'm a Pisces/Aries cusp. I have a friend who is sep. 4th Virgo. We ended up having a fwb type relationship. Everything was going great until a couple weeks ago. He stopped responding to me, never initiated contact. Anytime we do hang out tho, he flirts. I have been ignoring the flirting tho, because he never tries with me when I contact him. I called him the other day to see if he wanted to hang out but he said "I have plans later with Erica". I sent him a text after that telling him he sucks at taking hints followed by a sexy snap chat. He didn't say anything back but oh I get it. He didn't respond to me flirtatiously saying "oh finally lol". But the next morning added me back on snapchat. I don't understand why he sends so many mixed signals? I just want my friend back and regret sleeping with him in the first place. Could he be back firing at me for mentioning I want to find a guy or is he genuinely bored with me?
It's not mixed signals. It's FWB.
FWB has an expiration date. Usually FWB is for some no strings sex until one of you finds someone you want to take seriously. Perhaps he's taking "Erica" seriously and wants to date her, thus no longer interested in FWB.
FYI - if you don't want to lose a friendship with a man, then don't FWB with him. Not only does it kill a friendship, but also once he's in a relationship there is NO WAY his gf is going to accept him being around someone he's slept with in the past.
Posted by confused34567
I was played, wasn't I?
You weren't played. You willingly accepted the terms of FWB.
I'm hoping your sun is in Aries ... because I just don't want to have to own someone this dumb.
Wow you should definitely drop this dude and move on
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Long story short I'm a Pisces/Aries cusp. I have a friend who is sep. 4th Virgo. We ended up having a fwb type relationship. Everything was going great until a couple weeks ago. He stopped responding to me, never initiated contact. Anytime we do hang out tho, he flirts. I have been ignoring the flirting tho, because he never tries with me when I contact him. I called him the other day to see if he wanted to hang out but he said "I have plans later with Erica". I sent him a text after that telling him he sucks at taking hints followed by a sexy snap chat. He didn't say anything back but oh I get it. He didn't respond to me flirtatiously saying "oh finally lol". But the next morning added me back on snapchat. I don't understand why he sends so many mixed signals? I just want my friend back and regret sleeping with him in the first place. Could he be back firing at me for mentioning I want to find a guy or is he genuinely bored with me?