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Personally, I've never seen hate expressed to us or any others really (except maybe VirgoKing and his dislike of pisces). It would be more prominent in the "I really fucking hate virgos sense." I can tell you now, before I understood teh gems, I WOULD NOT go to their board and I openly said that I wasn't sure if I could trust them. Even though there were some here that I found I could like, I was just too set in that we weren't meant to get along. But then I was proven wrong and shed that dislike, realizing how silly it was.
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"You can't control a Virgo. It's a waste of time".

Co-sign.



What kills me are that those who claim to know every little thing about Virgos fail to realize this, PROVING they know NOTHING about us.

You either love us or hate us, but if you hate us, stay the hell away from us, because we're not going to hold back to spare your feelings.



I agree. No one knows everything about any sign.. especially if they're not even the same sign they claim to know so much about.

And if someone hates a certain sign they should just stay away from that board. Personally I think a person who says they hate a certain sign is almost as bad and ignorant as a racist.
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Knowledge is power. You got it going on right now sister.
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Posted by Candeh15
Personally, I've never seen hate expressed to us or any others really (except maybe VirgoKing and his dislike of pisces). It would be more prominent in the "I really fucking hate virgos sense." I can tell you now, before I understood teh gems, I WOULD NOT go to their board and I openly said that I wasn't sure if I could trust them. Even though there were some here that I found I could like, I was just too set in that we weren't meant to get along. But then I was proven wrong and shed that dislike, realizing how silly it was.



So...you dont see Tubby and P-angel? You only see Virgoking? Really?

Wow...
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That's fine, sweety. Understood. I don't go to any of the other boards with maybe the exception of the cancer board and once in a while the scorp board because I like them. I like all signs really but, quite honestly, some of the other boards are quite dead. Sorry. Nothing going on. I posted in the "food & drink" section today to try and get some tips on what to eat when I'm in Prague later this year.
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Personally, I've never seen hate expressed to us or any others really (except maybe VirgoKing and his dislike of pisces). It would be more prominent in the "I really fucking hate virgos sense." I can tell you now, before I understood teh gems, I WOULD NOT go to their board and I openly said that I wasn't sure if I could trust them. Even though there were some here that I found I could like, I was just too set in that we weren't meant to get along. But then I was proven wrong and shed that dislike, realizing how silly it was.



So...you dont see Tubby and P-angel? You only see Virgoking? Really?

Wow...
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I don't see Tubby anymore actually except on the Pisces board. And I'm just used to P-angel; it doesn't mean she's my best friend, but I've seen how she is in a lot of places besides this one. Like I said earlier, I just brush a lot of things off. The less I take it into account, the less it affects me.
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Personally, I've never seen hate expressed to us or any others really (except maybe VirgoKing and his dislike of pisces). It would be more prominent in the "I really fucking hate virgos sense." I can tell you now, before I understood teh gems, I WOULD NOT go to their board and I openly said that I wasn't sure if I could trust them. Even though there were some here that I found I could like, I was just too set in that we weren't meant to get along. But then I was proven wrong and shed that dislike, realizing how silly it was.



So...you dont see Tubby and P-angel? You only see Virgoking? Really?

Wow...
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Lol I don't hate the pisces and they do get on my nerves time to time. The only sign I hate and everyone know this because i say it all the time is scorpio thats it.
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And I mentioned virgoking because it's the first time that I had seen that. I was taken aback; I still like him, I was just caught off guard and the moment had gotten to a very heated point. Besides that, no, I havent' seen any that really stands out to me besides the obvious.



It was the first time you've seen Virgoking like that
And P-angel is like that all day everyday. And you just tune her out--AKA "make excuses for her rudeness"
Interesting...

Coolio

Her followers and minions are gonna love you on the Pisces board--good thing you introduced yourself πŸ˜‰ Just make sure not to get too popular! P-nis will take you down. No one is mightier than her over there. Don't say I didn't warn ya.
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And I mentioned virgoking because it's the first time that I had seen that. I was taken aback; I still like him, I was just caught off guard and the moment had gotten to a very heated point. Besides that, no, I havent' seen any that really stands out to me besides the obvious.



It was the first time you've seen Virgoking like that
And P-angel is like that all day everyday. And you just tune her out--AKA "make excuses for her rudeness"
Interesting...

Coolio

Her followers and minions are gonna love you on the Pisces board--good thing you introduced yourself πŸ˜‰ Just make sure not to get too popular! P-nis will take you down. No one is mightier than her over there. Don't say I didn't warn ya.
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Woah woah woah. I don't even know where this came from. I wasn't really speaking about P-angel when I made that post. Yes, I know she's there. I know what she does. I ignore her unless she's being civil or she really says something that I take to heart. I only let it go sometimes because she has said things to me that have helped me understand things. And personally for me, I don't have the time or energy to get on her every fucking day. I have enough going on.

I don't get the animosity CLC. I never said you were wrong. This whole board has been full of nothing but shit, and P is only getting worse. I'm just a firm believe in that catering to her is only making it worse. Hence why I ignore and I try to look past it. I've seen P at some of her worst and her at moments where she was ctually civil. I don't want to jump down anyone's throat. If you feel that way about me, then I'm sorry. I'm sorry I even decided to say anything. But shit, you didn't have to go there.
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And I went to the pisces board because I wanted to see them for myself. I've done it on other boards too. I actually like people there, just how I like everyone here, the virgo board, which is also a home for me too. I've only been trying to rationlize things because the drama is becoming too much for me, even on the virgo board. I almost don't want to be here because we can't stop talking about all of this. Either way, I'm not going to just sit here. I'm going to keep going like I was before and let it go.
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I call dibs on the light blue bird.


LOL I guess we'll give the main talker to....CJ!! πŸ˜„ (I think he would kind of like being cuddled up like that!) πŸ˜›



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CJ would be the one hahaha. Wanting his own space and whatnot. I can see LV saying that too.
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lol, I barely talk in real life πŸ˜›
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^ Lol I'm sorry to generalize and point you out then VK. That wasn't very nice of me. Like I said, it had been a pretty intense moment. No hard feelings at all.

Your not really bothering me I know you have a lot of libra in your chart and it shows you have a big need for peace. I had to do what had to do that thread was getting on my nevers so had to close it down most of the time I idnore that suff. I have no libra in my chart so I don't care about making friends and all that crap lol, But yeah stuff like that happens when virgos are having to much fun. Its like they know, and u know who i'm talking about and they have this need to shut it down.
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Candeh, if you want to point out only one side, that's what it looks like--you pointing out one side.

If you had said what you JUST said up there^^^I would have agreed wholeheartedly.

ALL sides are getting heated, and a LOT of BS is flying around. But the difference is that this BS is being BROUGHT to this section. It's unecessary and rude, and has no excuse.



I'm sorry if it came off that way. I had only wanted to make a point about how I saw hatred towards a sign and why I didn't think it was that prominent on the virgo board. I still don't see it like you do, and I guess for that, we'll always be in disagreement there. I just wish you hadn't come at me like that...

Either way, I have no animosity towards you or your points. And I agree that thigns shouldn't be like this from either side. I still think that for things to die down, we need to not focus on it and redirect our attention else where. Shit is always brought here. I've seen it. Of course you're not going to tie down a virgo, it's not like us, but if we're not going to run them out, then we need to just step and say fuck you and move on.
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^ Lol I'm sorry to generalize and point you out then VK. That wasn't very nice of me. Like I said, it had been a pretty intense moment. No hard feelings at all.

Your not really bothering me I know you have a lot of libra in your chart and it shows you have a big need for peace. I had to do what had to do that thread was getting on my nevers so had to close it down most of the time I idnore that suff. I have no libra in my chart so I don't care about making friends and all that crap lol, But yeah stuff like that happens when virgos are having to much fun. Its like they know, and u know who i'm talking about and they have this need to shut it down.
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I actually have NO libra in my chart, except in like my third house haha. I'm not sure where my calm comes from. Oh wait, I just looked it up:

House III is the area of social and intellectual learning.

House III in Libra

She looks for refined people, with whom to have long discussions, without raised voices of any kind. Harmony and peace is very important. In early life, she worried that her siblings were getting along.

Okay nevermind. That probably makes sense haha. In all actuality, my chart is all earth, fire, and water.
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Candeh, if you want to point out only one side, that's what it looks like--you pointing out one side.

If you had said what you JUST said up there^^^I would have agreed wholeheartedly.

ALL sides are getting heated, and a LOT of BS is flying around. But the difference is that this BS is being BROUGHT to this section. It's unecessary and rude, and has no excuse.



I'm sorry if it came off that way. I had only wanted to make a point about how I saw hatred towards a sign and why I didn't think it was that prominent on the virgo board. I still don't see it like you do, and I guess for that, we'll always be in disagreement there. I just wish you hadn't come at me like that...

Either way, I have no animosity towards you or your points. And I agree that thigns shouldn't be like this from either side. I still think that for things to die down, we need to not focus on it and redirect our attention else where. Shit is always brought here. I've seen it. Of course you're not going to tie down a virgo, it's not like us, but if we're not going to run them out, then we need to just step and say fuck you and move on.
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Hatred has been spoken off in this section TOWARDS this section's sign all day. People have been making unfair generalizations, and I'm just confused to why anyone is turning a blind eye to it, but protecting those saying it (not saying you are, but in general).

It seems like when it goes on ignore, new threads pop up from signs with loating towards Virgos.

I apologize for attacking you.
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Candeh, if you want to point out only one side, that's what it looks like--you pointing out one side.

If you had said what you JUST said up there^^^I would have agreed wholeheartedly.

ALL sides are getting heated, and a LOT of BS is flying around. But the difference is that this BS is being BROUGHT to this section. It's unecessary and rude, and has no excuse.



I'm sorry if it came off that way. I had only wanted to make a point about how I saw hatred towards a sign and why I didn't think it was that prominent on the virgo board. I still don't see it like you do, and I guess for that, we'll always be in disagreement there. I just wish you hadn't come at me like that...

Either way, I have no animosity towards you or your points. And I agree that thigns shouldn't be like this from either side. I still think that for things to die down, we need to not focus on it and redirect our attention else where. Shit is always brought here. I've seen it. Of course you're not going to tie down a virgo, it's not like us, but if we're not going to run them out, then we need to just step and say fuck you and move on.



Hatred has been spoken off in this section TOWARDS this section's sign all day. People have been making unfair generalizations, and I'm just confused to why anyone is turning a blind eye to it, but protecting those saying it (not saying you are, but in general).

It seems like when it goes on ignore, new threads pop up from signs with loating towards Virgos.

I apologize for attacking you.
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Because honestly... it's very easy to just blow it off. I'm not new to the internet. We deal with bullshit all the time. I'm someone who really takes nothing seriously because I know who I am. I will defend things if I find them unfair, but in the end, I'm just going to laugh about and move on. I've just never been the type to fight things unless I knew that it was beneficial to do so. I don't allow anyone to walk over me, but I sure as hell don't go looking for trouble.

And apology is accepted.
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Virgo bored is where the action is it.

Haters, Lovers and Impartial are all welcome πŸ˜›



Hey I am all three at times and you are correct this is the only board with consistent new threads. Which is why everyone accumulates here. It seems that the Virgos are the most popular in cyberspace. While Gems are most popular in the real world. But I am starting to think people are just afraid to tell us Gems what they really think of us in the real world. Oh well! I think you all are the most liked on here, contrary to what this thread states πŸ™‚.
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The gem board is poppin like that??

Okay, I def. need to check it out tomorrow.

And I promise not to speak, just lurk, LOL

Promise!!!

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Virgo bored is where the action is it.

Haters, Lovers and Impartial are all welcome πŸ˜›



Hey I am all three at times and you are correct this is the only board with consistent new threads. Which is why everyone accumulates here. It seems that the Virgos are the most popular in cyberspace. While Gems are most popular in the real world. But I am starting to think people are just afraid to tell us Gems what they really think of us in the real world. Oh well! I think you all are the most liked on here, contrary to what this thread states πŸ™‚.



The gem board is poppin like that??

Okay, I def. need to check it out tomorrow.

And I promise not to speak, just lurk, LOL

Promise!!!

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The gem board is actually a lot of fun. the people there are great. They really helped me out and were funny.

And SPP, I do quite love that picture. Although, I am a breast girl for sure lol.
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I've had bad experiences with gems too far and wide, but I ended up dating one for a few months. He was actually very sweet and I adored him. And at that time, I crept into the gem board because I needed help, and for once, I figured I should put down my pride. I actually really enjoyed them. CCdarling, GL, Lauren89 (she's gone for now, though) were some of my favorites just to name a few.
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don't let it bother you so much. πŸ˜‰

i suppose more often than not we come here to these boards to understand and learn about the virgos we know in real life. see if there are any valid similarities; etc. etc. or we are bored or an interesting topic just popped up. there are many reasons.

as for the haters. just look at it from their perspective. read between the lines. many seek attention that is denied to them in real life. many are pressured and let it out here. many people are just unhappy and lonely. many are just plain A $ $ holes.

you give these people satisfaction when you respond and argue; because it does not matter what you say, they don't care what you say - it is the response and ressonance they feed off. be that negative or positive. imo people like you described just disqualify themeselves.

chill πŸ˜„ actually i get a real laugh out of it.



This is exactly what I like to hear and so my attitude. Thank you pesca. πŸ™‚
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I've had bad experiences with gems too far and wide, but I ended up dating one for a few months. He was actually very sweet and I adored him. And at that time, I crept into the gem board because I needed help, and for once, I figured I should put down my pride. I actually really enjoyed them. CCdarling, GL, Lauren89 (she's gone for now, though) were some of my favorites just to name a few.



It's funny b/c I don't really care to date a Gem but I have a couple great Gem friends. One tried to date me but he was in the close circle of friends I hang out with most and I didn't want that weird dynamic if it didn't work out. I went out on a date with one a couple mos ago and he was just kind of strange but nice so I gave it a try. We just didn't click though.
I really liked Lauren89 and I didn't realize she was gone. 😒 I also really enjoy Cdarling and GL's posts along with some others. The only one on DXP that I have been treated pretty rudely by is a Pisces....lol. That's pretty sad!
I really like the Virgos. Sorti, Cajun and LV were the first to really befriend me when I came looking for advice on the Virgo board and they were very helpful!
πŸ˜„
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Posted by Pesca
don't let it bother you so much. πŸ˜‰

i suppose more often than not we come here to these boards to understand and learn about the virgos we know in real life. see if there are any valid similarities; etc. etc. or we are bored or an interesting topic just popped up. there are many reasons.

as for the haters. just look at it from their perspective. read between the lines. many seek attention that is denied to them in real life. many are pressured and let it out here. many people are just unhappy and lonely. many are just plain A $ $ holes.

you give these people satisfaction when you respond and argue; because it does not matter what you say, they don't care what you say - it is the response and ressonance they feed off. be that negative or positive. imo people like you described just disqualify themeselves.

chill πŸ˜„ actually i get a real laugh out of it.



This was wonderful--thank you so much for these words.

I know it doesn't look like it, but I'm seriously trying, but God almighty, me and my backbone springing into action...

I just don't like people seeking to control me. I work too hard, and came through too much in my life to succumb to that. I feel like staying quiet while people act this way is like giving in, and like I said...backbone...spring...

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CLC, you wondered how I could just pick myself up and not fight back when things were happening, and I think pesca explained it the best. You activate something in them when you fight. It's what they want. The harder you fight, the moree they fight back. Nothing is finished. You're only wearing yourself out, and you KNOW you are better than that. perhaps it is something about me and peace, but I know that fighting for me is honestly physically exhausting and puts me in a very bad place. I have a backbone, but when I break down to get dirty, I enter a place that I don't like. I hathat you can look at them and shrug and continue laughing freely because that's what you are, you are free and you are in control of your own freedom. I hate to say it, but by fighting, you only add fuel to the fire. You know when to pick your battles, but you just have to realize when it's all necessary to fight.
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CLC, you wondered how I could just pick myself up and not fight back when things were happening, and I think pesca explained it the best. You activate something in them when you fight. It's what they want. The harder you fight, the moree they fight back. Nothing is finished. You're only wearing yourself out, and you KNOW you are better than that. perhaps it is something about me and peace, but I know that fighting for me is honestly physically exhausting and puts me in a very bad place. I have a backbone, but when I break down to get dirty, I enter a place that I don't like. I hathat you can look at them and shrug and continue laughing freely because that's what you are, you are free and you are in control of your own freedom. I hate to say it, but by fighting, you only add fuel to the fire. You know when to pick your battles, but you just have to realize when it's all necessary to fight.



I understand this theory, but it's like at the same time I just see silence creating more of a void for them to fill with idiotic ranting, you know? Yeah, unfortunately I know I'm just wasting energy--they won't see my side, I won't see theirs. It's definitely exhausting. I guess I just like fighting for the underdog. I understand it's a losing battle...it's getting the message to that springing backbone that's the trick...
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...why do you come here?

I'm seriously curious to know.

I know some come here to find out more about their Virgo significant others, but what about the rest of you?

Especially those with a hatred for the sign?

Is the rest of the interwebs broken? Do you think you're making some kind of a difference? Because if you must know ONE thing about Virgos it's that you're not going to change us. Say what you want, feel how you want, throw your hands in the air and wave them like you just don't care, we are going to be ourselves, just like you're going to be YOURself.

So please, enlighten us. Because it's about 12 years past annoying at this point.



yea, well i'm a gemini and you're NOT going to change me either. so there! πŸ˜‰

i canvass the virgo area and others because i simply enjoy interacting with people and hearing how others react/deal with similar life issues as I do. that's about it.
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I know 😒

I just said in sorti's thread, from now on--fail and kitteh pics to make a joke out of the as.shole threads.

Dear Lord I'm gonna try...




if these boards were moderated; guess who would??nt be posting? lol! anyhowz, sent you a little message to make you laugh!

which sign do you have in mars?
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Get outta my head! I just said that to a Leo friend who doesn't want to join the forum because she knows she'd hand her her ass, LOL. You can't mess with a Leo, they'll hunt you.

Mars is in Cancer for me.

*goes to check messages*
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We don't want you to change. We just want you to chill out before you give yourself a heart attack. Anger isn't good. Just laugh, girl. It's so much nicer to see your face bright and shiny than full of spite. You have a big heart, so don't let it get weighted down.



Thank you. I really appreciate that, it means a lot to me. Honestly? I do laugh as I type, LOL. Even when I'm insulting them, it's an adrenaline rush!! I don't get high or drink, and am not promiscuous so I guess it's like my weed/gin or vodka/sexual healing?

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We don't want you to change. We just want you to chill out before you give yourself a heart attack. Anger isn't good. Just laugh, girl. It's so much nicer to see your face bright and shiny than full of spite. You have a big heart, so don't let it get weighted down.



Thank you. I really appreciate that, it means a lot to me. Honestly? I do laugh as I type, LOL. Even when I'm insulting them, it's an adrenaline rush!! I don't get high or drink, and am not promiscuous so I guess it's like my weed/gin or vodka/sexual healing?

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I'm sure you do, we all laugh. But in a way, it's like, where is the humor in all of this arguing. It was becoming stressful for us all. I think because what you get a kick out of is something we can't necessarily enjoy. It's like, "This is my high, but is it really that great of a high?" I suppose it's just how one sees you. I truly think you are a nice person and you are a great asset, but I suppose it is good to figure out how to to also channel that need to fight in a way that's helpful for us all. I fight for the underdog, toop. I hate to see people pushed aside. But I guess we all do it differntly haha.
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Posted by Candeh15
We don't want you to change. We just want you to chill out before you give yourself a heart attack. Anger isn't good. Just laugh, girl. It's so much nicer to see your face bright and shiny than full of spite. You have a big heart, so don't let it get weighted down.



Thank you. I really appreciate that, it means a lot to me. Honestly? I do laugh as I type, LOL. Even when I'm insulting them, it's an adrenaline rush!! I don't get high or drink, and am not promiscuous so I guess it's like my weed/gin or vodka/sexual healing?



I'm sure you do, we all laugh. But in a way, it's like, where is the humor in all of this arguing. It was becoming stressful for us all. I think because what you get a kick out of is something we can't necessarily enjoy. It's like, "This is my high, but is it really that great of a high?" I suppose it's just how one sees you. I truly think you are a nice person and you are a great asset, but I suppose it is good to figure out how to to also channel that need to fight in a way that's helpful for us all. I fight for the underdog, toop. I hate to see people pushed aside. But I guess we all do it differntly haha.
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Damn...that's deep.

Yeah...what kind of real enjoyment is that...

Thanks again, I'm glad you can see through the fighting and aruging coming fro me that I'm really NOT trying to be mean or harsh, I'm usually a very laughey/jokey person--to be honest, I'm always the person on other forums going into threads to BREAK fights up with kittehs. I've just never seen this type of animosity on a forum before! And over astrology no less! It's just amazing to me...and not in a good way at all...