NEED VIRGOs, INCITE!

do yall say what yall mean— please read.

because i was textin my x virgo and we was talking and so i decided to play a lil joke on him just cause about me getting in engaged to someone else. i told him that i was happy and that i havent been happy in a long time. and if he is happy for me and would he come to my wedding.
he starts say NO and just being rude and cursing me out sayin "sh*t take your *** on and be happy then".then he was like "man bye". to make a long story short this went on for a good minute i think if i was playing with him i believe this would have been our first real fight because i havent ever heard him curse to me. but anyways i finally told him that i was just playing and i lied about the hole thing to get a reaction out of him. and i told him that he kinda hurt my feelings by being so rude and mean and he said i hurt his feelings.and he was like "u kno i obviously got some kinda feelings for u if i try to get u to call me and text you." "u not dumb" then what shocked me he texted "love you".

Congratulation....

You ??ve managed to put paranoia in his head and with your stupidity rendered his mind to the state of not trusting you EVER..!

Sweet revenge is right around the corner. Can you handle it..??

oh lord. i guess i can. i told him i was just j/p

do you think that this virgo is really gonna analyze this!

Oh hunny, have you no knowledge about a virgo? Of COURSE he's going to analyze it to death. And now that you played him with a joke that honestly shouldn't have been messed around with, he probably won't be sure what to think. To incite a reaction like that, the virgo has some deep feelings and obviously still cares; when someone we love hurts us, it cuts deep because we're so choosy about who we pick to be in our lives.

This is a prime example of my experience with Pisces women.

The joking style s are vastly different. Misinterpretations are common.

For you this is normal, for him it is crossing the line.

If he text that he loves you, there is still hope.

It will be done unto death. Lesson learned. Even in jest the jealousy card is not one to be pulled out and used lightly.

Posted by pisceslovethat12
do you think that this virgo is really gonna analyze this!

srsly?

Any time. *tipping hat* 🙂

look yall dont understand. i didnt know he still had feelings for me.until i did that i didnt plan that or nothing i thought he really didnt care about it until he starting cursing me out. but you have to see it on the Pisces part me and him use to date 2yrs ago was off and on until last summer then he disappeared for about 8 months until this year he told why he left and that he confessed to me when we were dating he was cheated on me with his ex. And he said that he couldn't think of one time he even got mad at me he said that i was good to him and he should've done me the way he did back in the past. i loved this virgo.i mean i didnt know he still love me because he never act liked it. and we dont really talk that often i told him a couple weeks ago im talking to this guy that treates me right. and he was right i did deserve better than him. and i wasn't trying to be rude or nothing and he was like thats not being rude it is what it is. That's why i thought he wouldn't care if i was to be engaged or not. you have to see that this virgo put me threw alot he lied to me and was messing around with other girls even when we did brake up and was talking. this wasn't no revenge or nothing. i apologized to him. i really didnt think this would effect him since virgo dont show any emotions half the time.

You have to understand that two wrongs don't make a right. Even if you think you had a right to do that, and you felt it was going to be harmless, you could have easily just asked/opened up about it. Just because a virgo doesn't show emotions doesn't mean he doesn't have any. It just sort of makes you look like the crazy bitch. I'm sorry if I seem harsh, but you need to rethink how you approach these things. Like CJ said, the fact he said he still loved you means you still somewhat in the clear, but that virgo is going to have a shield up. Even if you think you deserved better, you probably still harbor some feelings for him too if you felt the need to get an answer from him, and in the most convoluted way.

Posted by pisceslovethat12
i really didnt think this would effect him since virgo dont show any emotions half the time.

I understand where you are coming from, but under no circumstance, I believe saying such things is justified.

i get what yall are saying. and do you really think he is gonna have a shield up this time. i dont want yall to think that Pisces always play the victim but sometime we are the victim but in the case...i guess im wrong. what do you think will happen now.it shocked me because he said he still loves me.i cant read Virgos mind why cant they speak up sometimes!

Posted by pisceslovethat12
i get what yall are saying. and do you really think he is gonna have a shield up this time. i dont want yall to think that Pisces always play the victim but sometime we are the victim but in the case...i guess im wrong. what do you think will happen now.it shocked me because he said he still loves me.i cant read Virgos mind why cant they speak up sometimes!

Yes, he will have a shield up. Lest you drop a bomb on him again.
He will be extra cautious and will require more a serious apology and a lot of reassuring words and actions.

However, judging by your account of your history with him, it is inadvisable that you warm up to and become intimate with him again.

The Virgo in me is cringing @ "incite"... 😢

Posted by CLCNY30
The Virgo in me is cringing @ "incite"... 😢

Yeah, I had the same problem.
insight

It was nice to see Candeh use it properly in the thread though. That eased me lol

phew. you guys get me 🙂
awesome, lol.

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by CLCNY30
The Virgo in me is cringing @ "incite"... 😢

Yeah, I had the same problem.
insight

It was nice to see Candeh use it properly in the thread though. That eased me lol

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I don't even remember using it,lol. But the majority of the grammar in this thread was really getting to me.

And I must have been too in depth in my criticism to notice. LEAVE MY BRAIN ALONE CJ lol 😛

incite!!! lol sorry for that people make mistakes lol.

Kaleidescorp44: thankyou! for your advice and that makes alot of since. now i know better(:

Posted by Kaleidescorp44
I'm not a virgo and "incite" was bothering me. However, considering the question of the OP, and the actions involved with telling her virgo she was engaged when she wasn't, perhaps in this case "incite" is the correct term.

iDied, LMFAO!!!

BAD scorpio!!! LOLLLL

why should you care, he\'s your ex...I thought you Pisces (from the ones here) agreed that you leave an ex and keep it that way because there is a problem that will never be fixed?

But i guess you are all just like the rest of us: Prone to loves grip.

cajunspirit:

Yes, he will have a shield up. Lest you drop a bomb on him again.
He will be extra cautious and will require more a serious apology and a lot of reassuring words and actions.

However, judging by your account of your history with him, it is inadvisable that you warm up to and become intimate with him again.

so your saying that my x virgo is gonna remember this and not gonna believe any thing i say now. unless i show him that im serious.
now why do i have do this threw my actions and be intimate with him that im just now finding out that he still have feelings.

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
why should you care, he\'s your ex...I thought you Pisces (from the ones here) agreed that you leave an ex and keep it that way because there is a problem that will never be fixed?

But i guess you are all just like the rest of us: Prone to loves grip.

i dont go back to my ex's either. im now talking to someone else that actually puts me on a high pedestal. and dont think i would ever get back with my x virgo because im just scared he will do the same things to me in the past. and i dont need that in my life. i might still talk to him yeah. and if i do decide to take my x back but that i highly doubt we would probably try to Start over again. but this pisces wants better.

Posted by pisceslovethat12

i dont go back to my ex's either. im now talking to someone else that actually puts me on a high pedestal. and dont think i would ever get back with my x virgo because im just scared he will do the same things to me in the past. and i dont need that in my life. i might still talk to him yeah. and if i do decide to take my x back but that i highly doubt we would probably try to Start over again. but this pisces wants better.

...There you go. You answered your own problem.

So, you just did it to see if he still had feelings for you? Not cool. Keep in mind that what goes around comes around. Do unto others.

She has no real interest in him other than to use him as her test subject.

Posted by Kaleidescorp44

Posted by pisceslovethat12
okay damn its not that serious the hole "incite" thing.

Sweetie, that would be "whole". 😉

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I can't today

I just can't

LMFAO

Posted by CLCNY30

Posted by Kaleidescorp44

Posted by pisceslovethat12
okay damn its not that serious the hole "incite" thing.

Sweetie, that would be "whole". 😉

I can't today

I just can't

LMFAO

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LOL, yall just crack me up on this site.[: idk if yall try to be rude or what. but whatever.

I mean... we can't be rude when we're just being correct. But, we are funny. Even when being critical. But no, we're actually being serious lol.

no yall are good. i know what you mean.[:

i text him an apology couple hours ago and he hasn't text'd back should i care??

I think you should be more worried about if he's not texting you like two weeks from now. Let your apology rest and go on. As long as you feel you were honest in what you wanted to say, let it go. Virgos need time to let it sink in. No matter what happens, take this experience with you and realize how you should approach things from now on.

Posted by Candeh15
I think you should be more worried about if he's not texting you like two weeks from now. Let your apology rest and go on. As long as you feel you were honest in what you wanted to say, let it go. Virgos need time to let it sink in. No matter what happens, take this experience with you and realize how you should approach things from now on.

THANK YOU! i will do just that. (:

o to be honest with you i don't think he's gonna come around no time soon! even though he seem liked he was relieved when i told him i was just playing. but you never know with virgo's do you?

Posted by pisceslovethat12

so your saying that my x virgo is gonna remember this and not gonna believe any thing i say now. unless i show him that im serious.
now why do i have do this threw my actions and be intimate with him that im just now finding out that he still have feelings.

It's going to be a rollercoaster, that I believe, in the end will not be worth it.

Posted by Cajunspirit

Posted by pisceslovethat12

so your saying that my x virgo is gonna remember this and not gonna believe any thing i say now. unless i show him that im serious.
now why do i have do this threw my actions and be intimate with him that im just now finding out that he still have feelings.

It's going to be a rollercoaster, that I believe, in the end will not be worth it.

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your scaring me now! ROLLERCOASTER it's been a rollercoaster with him....o well i dont think we gonna be talking for a while anyways.im just gonna let it go.

Posted by pisceslovethat12
Kaleidescorp44: thankyou! for your advice and that makes alot of since. now i know better(:

since?

It makes alot of since?

Everybody in here thought I was so mean to her a couple months ago when I warned her about her games .... just because I have forsight doesn't make me wrong, it makes you all slow.

Posted by pisceslovethat12

would the Capricorn try to convince her to stay?

beacuse i've been talking to this cappy for 3months now.and when ever we spend time together it's great.he tells me that we gone have a future together and i will be his.and gives me affection and opens up to me.i've been hurt b4 by a Virgo.i'm a lil scared this time and i told him that and we talked about it.

but I've been anylzing and i don't think we gonna work out
as much as i want it too deep down even though I've known him for a short time i feel like i've know him for ever.he makes me happy.

Here's a thread she made on the Capricorn board, titled ..

If Pisces girl wanted to leave Capricorn guy

This must be the guy she refers to in here .. so she just gets guys to use them against each other to her jollies .. so she can feel special

look...my x virgo accepted my apology!!![: so i feel better.