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Posted by Cg2016You must have not seen my post lol. Scorp is a sex offender lolPosted by LostinmyMind11Don't speak bad things over your life. What you say is powerful. Now say it will be great and he's a great guyPosted by Cg2016Just my paranoia lolPosted by LostinmyMind11What makes you think that?Posted by Cg2016Maybe?....idk he still hasn't really initiated anything so I will be keeping my guard up with this one. Either I'm being catfished, he's married or has a girlfriend. I will be calling him out on it soon lol.Posted by LostinmyMind11Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.
Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.
Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.
Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.
Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.
Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.
Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeYeah...not your "normal" cancer man.Posted by LostinmyMind11Uhmmmm that's badPosted by CaramelizedCoffeeThe type of angry that beats his gf or wife 😳
"Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet."
Oh yeah tell us more about this Cancer with a Scorpio mars, how angry did he get
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Posted by LostinmyMind11In your original post it didn't say that lol. I just reread it lolPosted by Cg2016You must have not seen my post lol. Scorp is a sex offender lolPosted by LostinmyMind11Don't speak bad things over your life. What you say is powerful. Now say it will be great and he's a great guyPosted by Cg2016Just my paranoia lolPosted by LostinmyMind11What makes you think that?Posted by Cg2016Maybe?....idk he still hasn't really initiated anything so I will be keeping my guard up with this one. Either I'm being catfished, he's married or has a girlfriend. I will be calling him out on it soon lol.Posted by LostinmyMind11Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.
Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.
Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.
Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.
Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.
Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.
Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.
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Posted by Cg2016Yeah I just found out yesterday.Posted by LostinmyMind11In your original post it didn't say that lol. I just reread it lolPosted by Cg2016You must have not seen my post lol. Scorp is a sex offender lolPosted by LostinmyMind11Don't speak bad things over your life. What you say is powerful. Now say it will be great and he's a great guyPosted by Cg2016Just my paranoia lolPosted by LostinmyMind11What makes you think that?Posted by Cg2016Maybe?....idk he still hasn't really initiated anything so I will be keeping my guard up with this one. Either I'm being catfished, he's married or has a girlfriend. I will be calling him out on it soon lol.Posted by LostinmyMind11Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.
Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.
Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.
Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.
Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.
Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.
Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.
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Posted by LostinmyMind11Omg hell yes listen to your gut! Be careful out there hunPosted by Cg2016Yeah I just found out yesterday.Posted by LostinmyMind11In your original post it didn't say that lol. I just reread it lolPosted by Cg2016You must have not seen my post lol. Scorp is a sex offender lolPosted by LostinmyMind11Don't speak bad things over your life. What you say is powerful. Now say it will be great and he's a great guyPosted by Cg2016Just my paranoia lolPosted by LostinmyMind11What makes you think that?Posted by Cg2016Maybe?....idk he still hasn't really initiated anything so I will be keeping my guard up with this one. Either I'm being catfished, he's married or has a girlfriend. I will be calling him out on it soon lol.Posted by LostinmyMind11Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.
Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.
Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.
Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.
Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.
Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.
Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.
See and I said it's my paranoia...nope just my gut instinct lol. I need to listen to it more.
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Posted by The_Mad_HatterHahaha. 😉Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by The_Mad_HatterRight! I did laugh a little at that.Posted by LostinmyMind11
And the Scorpio is.......A REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER. Having sex with of age inmates as a correctional officer.
He did not tell me but I was able to find out with the very tiny bit of information I got from him. Fanfuckingtastic...
Now I'm going to have to search on the others...I wouldn't doubt it in the least bit that one of the others are too. I apparently have some type of face or aura that screams criminals come to me.
I need to figure out why that is...
Scorpio is a registered sex offender..... Surprisingly not surprising...
Side note: reading this thread, OP sounds hot as fuck, you'll be alright, you don't need Tinder.
Meh I'm average at best but thank you 😊
That is a TRUE Virgo woman response. And I bet you're lying. 😉
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Posted by Cg2016Thank you!!Posted by LostinmyMind11Omg hell yes listen to your gut! Be careful out there hunPosted by Cg2016Yeah I just found out yesterday.Posted by LostinmyMind11In your original post it didn't say that lol. I just reread it lolPosted by Cg2016You must have not seen my post lol. Scorp is a sex offender lolPosted by LostinmyMind11Don't speak bad things over your life. What you say is powerful. Now say it will be great and he's a great guyPosted by Cg2016Just my paranoia lolPosted by LostinmyMind11What makes you think that?Posted by Cg2016Maybe?....idk he still hasn't really initiated anything so I will be keeping my guard up with this one. Either I'm being catfished, he's married or has a girlfriend. I will be calling him out on it soon lol.Posted by LostinmyMind11Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.
Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.
Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.
Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.
Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.
Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.
Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.
See and I said it's my paranoia...nope just my gut instinct lol. I need to listen to it more.
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomI love how women aren't allowed to play the field but it's perfectly fine for guys too...double standard much?!
Your way of dealing with Tinder sounds like its only working against you, you sound like a teenager who cant quite fathom all the male attention she's getting. Which would be understandable, if you weren't 34 with a biological clock ticking very loud.
Speaking from experience (I found my fiancee on Tinder) my advice to you would be: Pick one target at a time and really try to get to know that one person first before wasting your time on others. You're wasting your energy being trapped in an all-too-easy "Oh, Im loving all this attention way too much" situation. You're spreading yourself too thin.
Also, keep in mind, most people on Tinder are only looking into getting laid. So you're gonna have to do quite some effort to really find someone whos worth your time and effort.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomNo one is playing victim here and like I said I appreciate the advice even if it comes from a serial relationshiper 😉😋
I would have told you the same if you were a 34 year old male, so plueaseee, spare me the victimhood card.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoomHaha...thank you and deal! 😁
Good. I never had the impression you were one of those women trapped in the "Im a woman so therefore a victim" mentality, so dont act like one :p


Posted by SunsetvirgoHe's hooked 😜. On the 2nd day he already called me, gave me his last name, sent me pics of his life lol.
I’m late but
SIS YOU BETTER GET THAT ARIES

Posted by LostinmyMind11🤗 cyber hugs!
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.
THIS SHOULD READ (AS YOU'VE ONLY HAD TWO DATES):
Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.
Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.
Dude #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.
Dude#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.
Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.
Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.
So much for the answer to your question...glad you did your HOMEWORK! I did! I found out the dude I was talking too was also a sex offender. I called him out on it (text) and I texted him his sex offender # from his state...did I hear from him again? FUCK no! Talk about "Dodging the bullet!" I, too, have not been on websites for any online dating since 2017.



Posted by 2MoonEwww no lol
You need a Libra, Virgo

Posted by 2MoonHonestly...I've never been with a libra but I could see how it might work out. For me they would probably have to have water or fire in their chart...since that's what I seem to attract.Posted by LostinmyMind11😐😓 😫 😕Posted by 2MoonEwww no lol
You need a Libra, Virgo
😥 😢😢
Libra - Virgo is awesome.
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Meh I'm average at best but thank you 😊