In love with a Virgo woman who is Hot/Cold

Understanding a Virgo Woman's Hot and Cold Behavior

Virgo women may become distant during emotional stress or when they need space. Her mixed signals could reflect her need to process her feelings after her breakup. Maintaining patience, respecting her boundaries, and offering consistent support can help rebuild trust and connection over time.

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Trevor13
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8 Years

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Hi. I need help. My best friend is a Virgo woman. We have been inseparable for a couple of years. I confessed my love and everything was good. My life is a bit complicated at the moment so nothing moved forward. She also just had a messy break up. She has often said I complete her. Lots of I love you and emojis. Then one morning she said she cant feel anything for anyone. I should concentrate on me and not wait for her. She is always cold now in text but warm and loving in person. She has also broken dayes woth me all of a sudden. Dont know what to do. We are ALWAYS together in a small community so its likely nothing outside causing chaos. I feel the love. She texts me nearly every morning. But at times she appears to be trying to put distance between us but failing when we are together.

Sorry if this is long winded, it's complex. Please help.
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Lilianni
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10 Years1,000+ Posts

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It sounds like she's being nice to you when you're there but wants some distance when you're not. She just wants to be a good person which is why she's good to you. Her break up might be making her reconsider and contemplate her state of being and relationships right now. Don't think too much, your feelings for her are getting in the way of seeing objectively. It's best to just be there for her and not think too deeply about it. She probably just sees you as a friend. Wait until she has moved on to see if you two can be more than friends.