So I moved states recently to be with my family after ending a 4 year relationship with an aries. My cousin thought it would be a good idea to give my number to her coworker who has a cousin my age because I could use a bf *rolls eyes*. Anyway he starts texting me out of the blue my 2nd week here. I was nervous and suspicious because I haven't dated since HS. I decided to give him a chance because what if he turns out to be a good guy. After talking for a while things started getting serious and he would text me everyday and night. He was sweet and I liked his southern charm. We met up one day and it turned out to be a chill day. I met his friends, we smoked alil bit and hit up the courts. He texted me that night saying he was feeling some type of way bout me. I wanted him too so I didn't feel bad about giving it up. And I really did like him at this point. But after the day we hooked up he barely texts me and I have to text him first most of the time. It annoys me but I understand people have lives and can be busy. The thing that is pissing me off is that I've been trying to tell him how I feel but I can't get him in to a serious convo cuz he texts me 3 hours later or doesn't text back at all. And when he does its like "hey bae, wyd, when you coming over??" or "Cn u come out n play today?". He is driving me bananas. I said I was busy which I was and he never texted back. What kills me is that the first time we talked he was upset that i texted him back so slow. I hate texting I'm only texting him because its him and I want things to work. But he is playing games and I don't play games. I left out a lot because Idk how much space I have to write. But my question is what should I do to get him to understand without sounding as needy as I feel right now? Should I stick it out and keep trying or do you think he's playing with me? He said be hates being single and that "I'm his" wtd
