Leo woman and Virgo man advice

I'm a Virgo sun, Scorpio moon, Leo venus guy born September and she's a Leo sun born on august. She has a bf but me and her used to talk real good. We work with each other and met at work about 1 year ago. I know she likes or liked me cause she told me how her parents dont like her bf and says she needs a new bf etc. I never made a move cuz she was with her bf and i think if she likes me then she needs to break up with him. She would shower me with lots of affection and kindness, she'd touch me alot and we'd talk alot, she'd do things for me, say she misses me, she even asked me out a couple times (several) etc. She gained my trust by having my back, one day some colleages were gonna report me and she told me about it and i truly appreciated it. We never fought or had any issues really. I was mad once because i told her not to sign a petition for a 14% increase in salary because i believed we could have gotten more, she listened once then when i wasnt there she signed. She always told me to confront someone when i have a problem which i usually do but i didnt do it with her because i didnt wanna hurt the friendship. So recently a new worker was transferred a cancer girl who was my friend (just a friend) before ms. leo. So me and cancer girl talk really well and ms. leo would get jealous. She would stare at me hard for talking to the cancer girl. The leo girl even came and sat between us to separate us, so that i can only talk to her and not cancer. So for some reason i started ignoring the leo girl and moving cold, kinda because of the petition thing lol. She asked me whats wrong and if i was ok on whatsapp but i didnt reply then she put up her pic of her and her bf like immediately, to try and make me jealous. So i kept moving cold and ignoring (idk why i guess its my signs or they say love make people act in strange ways). She still tries to strike up convos even though she was trying to be cold to me and treat me the same way i treat her. A week ago while were both alone in the lunch room i swear i saw some tears drop from eyes and she was wiping with a napkin because of how i was treating her. I didnt ask if she was crying or nothing cuz i wasnt sure but i think she was. I feel bad now and if i knew id have asked her what was wrong. Now i realize i gotta act civil and not ignore her. So idk if she likes me again but if we do get together then will it be a good match. Look at us now hurting each other, its combustible.

Any advice on leo women and virgo men?

she has a bf and you KNOW damn well that if you ignore her it's going to hurt her and of course you want her to chase you. You flirt with the cancer girl to insure your Leo that you too could have someone else. You ignore because you like to be chased as you're insecure. She probably already wrote you off honestly. And if she really liked you and was serious about you she would of broken up with her bf. But you two are already hurting each other and I don't think she will leave the comfort of her bf for a love game.

@Moonshineleo You think she wrote me off? ok cool well like you say i dont chase, so i wont chase her, i dont even think i like her again, not after all this, she plays mind games too yo. but as far as just friends, does it make sense try to fix that or thats a no too?

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@Moonshineleo You think she wrote me off? ok cool well like you say i dont chase, so i wont chase her, i dont even think i like her again, not after all this, she plays mind games too yo. but as far as just friends, does it make sense try to fix that or thats a no too?

well i mean if you like her then make it clear to her how you feel dont ignore her...i think a friendship would be fine if youre ok with that

@Moonshineleo i cant tell her how i feel cuz she got a bf. and my feelings are, i liker her but i dont know if shes the right one for me. im getting the idea that she's the type of girl who can't be single. always has to have a bf. she'd have another man lined up so she can jump from one relationship to a next. she's not confident and strong on her own thats why she always need a man even if he aint good for her. i just dont know if i can deal with a girl like that. she has a high tendency to cheat. i on the other hand am loyal. im a virgo. i may take time to choose a partner but once i do i will not cheat and i will be forever loyal and loving.

also she ignored me today at work, so idk what that means (payback maybe). if she talks to me id talk back. im ready to act civil but shes now giving me a taste of my own medicine. im ready to talk and try to be back friends like normal but she aint trying. so idk if we can be friends again aswell. but im not chasing her. if ur with me ur with me. ill give u the world and more. but if ur against me then i have no love. and now its reaching to a state where i wanna cut off all ties with her.