Libra in love with Virgo Man

Well I feel he is falling as well, but the Libra in me needs the validation. Lol

Posted by LibraLady29
Very confused by Virgo man- 40 y/o (I am Libra woman 29 y/o). I need to know where I stand, he says relax and he's not going anywhere.

-he asked if I was falling for him after 3 months, I said no.

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I have asked him, he tells me to relax and that I think too much and that he isn't going anywhere, but that doesn't tell me how he's feeling about me, we are sexually involved, so it could be he's sticking around for that...

Well at 3 months in I hadn't quite fallen, but now at 5 months things are more clear and its definitely not infatuation or lust. I have told him I have feelings for him and in time I know I'll love him. But he's very guarded and hard to read.

I told him I was falling for him Thursday after he took me out to celebrate my birthday. It was 1 am, he text to say he couldn't sleep and when I replied he then called. After hanging up, we text a little more and I told him I was falling for him now- as in answering his previous question from months prior. He replied "why, relax, you'll be okay" after saying that, he told his brother a story on friday about our date Thursday, calling me to tell me he told his brother...and then the jealousy thing Saturday night....

The miscommunication that led to his "jealousy" was over text after I said I was staying over with friends Saturday night, he said "you better not be with another man, lol" and I explained that no, they were married and I had known them since High School.

These are new behaviors, prior he was in constant contact but distant and aloof and would dodge any deep conversations about emotions....

Knowing how guarded he is, I don't want to come out and say I love him. Even though I do, very much so. I'm like a giddy school girl and he's on my mind constantly. But I don't want him to run because I said it too soon. I don't care to say it first, but I want to know it will be well perceived.

Well just for the sake of not driving myself mad, I'm telling him. I am literally losing sleep over analyzing. I love everything about this man, and find his little OCD quirks adorable. I haven't felt like this in a long time, I want to tell the world he is mine and I can't risk him thinking I don't and walking away.

Thank you for all the help, what's there to lose? Either way I'll come out with an answer.