Making a Virgo mad!

I know it said give Virgos time and space, how long do they need to sort out their feelings?

It's been a week and 2 days now and no word from my Virgo friend.

Everyone says give him "time and once he has chilled out and processed his thoughts he will want to talk and everything can work out, when he told me he said he was sad, and I know he loves you so much he will for sure come around."

Like Virgo point of view what goes on once you had a big argument?

Do you say stuff when your mad and having space too?

Honestly relationship is great beyond that yeah like every couple we do have fights but this is the first time he hasn't talk to me this long.

😆 my husband would take up to 4 months before talking about stuff. lol ' I cant talk about it now'. and even then it was like pulling teeth. just saying

uhhhh...

I always drop ONE text. Just one. and ask them to reach me because they are what matters to me.

or if you screwed up you can text them and ask if they are still angry...

idk just text, not spam. works for me.

We love avoiding our feelings, you should do the first move because we sure as hell won't.

I already reached out to him twice. Left a long text, no response. Even sent an apology letter and nothing.

Is he your friend or your boyfriend?

I am confused.

Boyfriend sorry

Posted by magma2
While a lot of us have similar tendencies, we're not stamped out of a mold, so there's no rock solid answer.

It would depend on what the argument was about and how it went. I would normally have seen the handwriting on the wall before there could be anything to argue about. Some of us have a lot more bounce than others.

Do you guys get sensitive about what is said in fight? I just got mad because his friend said a rude remark to me and I bit my tongue til we were in the car and I said what she said and he got very defensive and starting to fight. Me being me mad " said it's over, I'm over this" then he said " you ruin this for us" but we both say stuff when we get mad. Of course I cooled down and have been trying, he literally being super sensitive grabbed his stuff that night and hasn't been home since and has been ignoring me.

Literally honestly like everyone is shock his family and my family because yeah we had fights, like which couple doesn't but we were so happy together and have a huge trip to Europe plan in sept, he was happy I can tell. nothing seem up. So every even his family say just give him time to cool off and get his Thoughts figures out. But it's been 9 days. So that's why I'm asking what is the longest you had space between a partner?

duncan is making me mad.

this is a sign

Posted by Anevfi

Posted by magma2
While a lot of us have similar tendencies, we're not stamped out of a mold, so there's no rock solid answer.

It would depend on what the argument was about and how it went. I would normally have seen the handwriting on the wall before there could be anything to argue about. Some of us have a lot more bounce than others.

Do you guys get sensitive about what is said in fight? I just got mad because his friend said a rude remark to me and I bit my tongue til we were in the car and I said what she said and he got very defensive and starting to fight. Me being me mad " said it's over, I'm over this" then he said " you ruin this for us" but we both say stuff when we get mad. Of course I cooled down and have been trying, he literally being super sensitive grabbed his stuff that night and hasn't been home since and has been ignoring me.

Literally honestly like everyone is shock his family and my family because yeah we had fights, like which couple doesn't but we were so happy together and have a huge trip to Europe plan in sept, he was happy I can tell. nothing seem up. So every even his family say just give him time to cool off and get his Thoughts figures out. But it's been 9 days. So that's why I'm asking what is the longest you had space between a partner?

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Has he been bottling up something? I know when I need space to think, I need LOTS of time. Just continue to be respectful and polite to him, don't press him, but don't act like nothing happened. That's fake and it would make us think longer and give reasons why you're not the one.

Generally when we go off to think, we think about our feelings, how we really feel, how we should feel, the situation, how the situation made us feel, how it should make us feel, if we're right for feeling this way, what are the long term effects of this, will this keep on happening in the long run, are we willing to put up with this.

If it's a fight and you insulted us, how do we feel about this person, how did we feel before, will this change it, what did they mean?, do they really mean it?, am I really struggling with what they say?, what led me to this struggle?, how can I fix this?, what do I need to do?, is the other person going to be there for me?, ETC

We're complicated little cats

@lillianni thanks I know virgos have a lot to think about and even his sister has said give him time to process his thoughts. I think I'm just impatient and want s quick fix but everyone tells me that's not the Way

I'm actually going to talk to someone tomorrow for my insecurities and to make me more confident.

I hope he comes around and gives me s chance to proof to him that I'm willing to make myself a better personz

Also he just got a second job, which has been stressing him out like crazy. Cause they are both demanding his time and his first job is getting mad cause the new one wants him the same times. Also from getting from

One job to the other in time. But he also hates his first job but he doesn't want to quit until this new one works out. So yeah that's what he's been obsessing about and I gusss me picking fights didn't help.