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Finally he asks if I could take him to lunch and I just go radio silent on his ass. No response. Nothing. My sister tells me he's a low-life loser who's just out for an ego boost. I don't like him at all. I have no attraction to him at all and he can't do ANYTHING for me. Just never been in a situation like this before so I guess it's a lesson for me to learn how to deal with guys like this. I don't want to be too rude to him but don't know how to tell him to gtfomf!

As for your virgal, quite the clever little one she is and I know what you mean about using manipulation to get what you want.

Oh and sorry about the typos and sentences with extra words that make no sense and that have no punctuation marks. LOL.

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@CLC -- yeah I see that dude's point. And it's a good one, along with the compliment to you.

Yeah, I wouldn't want some giggling little girl to ask me out, but if she's classy and confident, then I wouldn't think any less of her. I've had girls ask me out, but none of them have ever been classy. hahahaha

But this made me think of something that's been mentioned in several movies like Citizen Kane and whatever that movie was with Demi Moore and Robert Redford when he offers her a million bucks to spend the night with him. What was the name of that movie?

Anyway, two characters in both of those movies mentioned seeing a girl for just a moment, like on a bus or train or whatever, but the guy hesitated, or didn't try hard enough, or the circumstances were just impossible at that very moment, and so the guy, for some bizarre reason always thinks about that girl for the rest of his life. For me, that has happened. It's so crazy, but so true.

Have you girls ever experienced something like that? You saw a guy and for some reason he stuck in your mind?

I thought Leos liked giggly girls. 😉

Yes, 'Indecent Proposal' is the movie you speak of.

How long ago did you see this girl that you still think of CG?

No, it never happened to me. At least not in that fashion.

Yeah, he sounds like a damn loser.

If he's that bold, and in your face, all "Jerome's in the hooooouse"

Oh, I will--most def.

And I promise to ignore to the best of my abilities.

Posted by CLCNY30
Yeah, he sounds like a damn loser.

If he's that bold, and in your face, all "Jerome's in the hooooouse"

AHAHAHAHAHAAAAAA!!! He kind of looks like Jerome too!

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Finally he asks if I could take him to lunch and I just go radio silent on his ass. No response. Nothing. My sister tells me he's a low-life loser who's just out for an ego boost. I don't like him at all. I have no attraction to him at all and he can't do ANYTHING for me. Just never been in a situation like this before so I guess it's a lesson for me to learn how to deal with guys like this. I don't want to be too rude to him but don't know how to tell him to gtfomf!

As for your virgal, quite the clever little one she is and I know what you mean about using manipulation to get what you want.

Oh, man, what a pain in the ass that guy sounds like. hahaha

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Yeah a PITA he is. LOL.

CG, what signs do you think you could see yourself w/long term?
And what signs do you think you could never see yourself with, marriage wise?
Any particular signs you think are easier/harder to impress/court than others?

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@CLC -- yeah I see that dude's point. And it's a good one, along with the compliment to you.

Yeah, I wouldn't want some giggling little girl to ask me out, but if she's classy and confident, then I wouldn't think any less of her. I've had girls ask me out, but none of them have ever been classy. hahahaha

But this made me think of something that's been mentioned in several movies like Citizen Kane and whatever that movie was with Demi Moore and Robert Redford when he offers her a million bucks to spend the night with him. What was the name of that movie?

Anyway, two characters in both of those movies mentioned seeing a girl for just a moment, like on a bus or train or whatever, but the guy hesitated, or didn't try hard enough, or the circumstances were just impossible at that very moment, and so the guy, for some bizarre reason always thinks about that girl for the rest of his life. For me, that has happened. It's so crazy, but so true.

Have you girls ever experienced something like that? You saw a guy and for some reason he stuck in your mind?

I thought Leos liked giggly girls. 😉

Yes, 'Indecent Proposal' is the movie you speak of.

How long ago did you see this girl that you still think of CG?

No, it never happened to me. At least not in that fashion.

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That must be like torture. To think about the same girl everyday at least once. I should know because I'm going through the same. LOL! Hey, are you coming over to my partay? I posted the thread.

No, definitely no giggly girls. hahaha As a matter of fact, I like a certain edge to a girl, their personality, you know, just enough where I would think twice about starting some shit. hahaha
Oh, god, I saw this girl about 7 years ago at a popular diner. I was actually having lunch with a girl I was dating at that time. I came around the corner from the bathroom and I saw this gorgeous girl at a table. I was like wow. Then she smiled and her face literally glowed. I had never seen that before and haven't since. But the girl I was dating was at the next table. I sat down, thinking how can I talk to this girl without being totally rude to my date. But there was no way I could be that cruel. B

Posted by CLCNY30
CG, what signs do you think you could see yourself w/long term?
And what signs do you think you could never see yourself with, marriage wise?
Any particular signs you think are easier/harder to impress/court than others?

No stop. GO over to the party thread. It's midnight and OP3 is there all alone. Can we finish the convo there?

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contd -- I think about her once a day. It's the craziest thing. I sometimes think that you know them on a soul level and you were meant to just graze each other in this life, sort of saying hello, and that's it. Again, I had never seen a face glow like that, and haven't since then. It's insane, I know. But Orson Welles wrote that truth in his movie. And it was repeated in Indecent Proposal (thank you, CLC).

Awwwwww! If the girl you were with seemed cool w/it, maybe you should have gone for it? But I can see how you thougth that was disrespectful, but DAMN at you still thinking on that woman! If it's meant to be, you're going to bump into her again at some point, especially if the attraction was that strong!

You mind if I ask what attracts you to a woman? Physically, mentally?

Physical/mental turn offs?

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Posted by CLCNY30
CG, what signs do you think you could see yourself w/long term?
And what signs do you think you could never see yourself with, marriage wise?
Any particular signs you think are easier/harder to impress/court than others?

No stop. GO over to the party thread. It's midnight and OP3 is there all alone. Can we finish the convo there?

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Oooh! Yeah! Good idea, heading over there now.
Thanks for being such a good sport, Candeh!

CG, you can answer in the other thread if you like.

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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
CG, you can answer in the other thread if you like.

Ok, I'll go over there, but I can only hang for about 45 min.

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Alrighty that's cool.

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Posted by CLCNY30
CG, what signs do you think you could see yourself w/long term?
And what signs do you think you could never see yourself with, marriage wise?
Any particular signs you think are easier/harder to impress/court than others?

No stop. GO over to the party thread. It's midnight and OP3 is there all alone. Can we finish the convo there?

Oooh! Yeah! Good idea, heading over there now.
Thanks for being such a good sport, Candeh!

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lol wait, what did I do?

Lol, you were a good sport--I just really wanted to dig his brain about the sign.

Posted by CLCNY30
Lol, you were a good sport--I just really wanted to dig his brain about the sign.

Ohhh lol. It's no problem. I didn't have much to contribute at this point, and hopefully you got the answers you were looking forr and all the best of luck. I've been in kind of a funk, so I've been laying low tonight anyway.