Jullanar_
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My virgo cant commit
I forgot to say that I dont know his rising sign but he has leo venus and I am gemini with virgo rising and Taurus venus
this whole drama thing started when you did not shut down the flirting with the other guy.
now you have bigger problems.
caps and gems no selfcontrol with disrespectful flirting.
he should rock that on you like hes doing now. hows it feel?
you guys will never learn—?
now you have bigger problems.
caps and gems no selfcontrol with disrespectful flirting.
he should rock that on you like hes doing now. hows it feel?
you guys will never learn—?
Posted by yupvirgoI just checked and his moon is leo too. I just dont understand how he does that. He treats me like a princess and he ditches everyone for me. Everyone says that he loves me more than I do but how could he do that to mePosted by Jullanar_You said there was a time wherein you talked about marriage. Then maybe it's not so bad to bring it up again. But he seems to be clear that he's not gonna marry you. I just find that odd coz I'm a Virgo sun with a Leo venus too and we like getting married lol. What is his moon? And what is it in your culture that prevents the two of you from getting married?Posted by yupvirgoDo you think he might change? Maybe with time?Posted by Jullanar_Whaaatt?
One more thing. He also told me when we were talking about the commitiment thing that he told me from the beginning that he cant marry me. I told him that you never mention that. I wouldnt forget if you did
You should just leave him.
He's not gonna marry you.
Your Taurus Venus won't like that.
Should I talk to him? I didnt talk to him because I read that virgos run away when talk to them about commitment
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Mmmmh he's a virgo so very practical and thinks things through, if he said he is not marrying you he probably thought things through. I think you should have the conversation about marriage again, to see if he is willing to change his mind of if he already did (hopefully). I think he loves you but he seems torn between his brain and his feelings.
Posted by Jullanar_Keep us posted please, i hope your love will win over, you go girlPosted by VirgoSquirrelI really hope he does . Thank you. I will gather my strengths and talk to him again
Mmmmh he's a virgo so very practical and thinks things through, if he said he is not marrying you he probably thought things through. I think you should have the conversation about marriage again, to see if he is willing to change his mind of if he already did (hopefully). I think he loves you but he seems torn between his brain and his feelings.
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Posted by Jullanar_if you read the above you admit he keep on flirting with you and you never put a stop to it.
Calm down you guys! I told the guy that I have a boyfriend from the beginning. I talked about how we both go to diffrent universities and we take the same classes so we could study together. He knew that I wasnt intrested. I wasnt flirting. He was! In our socity guys just do not care if you have a boyfriend or not. If they know you're sleeping with someone they'll just think that you're a bitch even if it was your boyfriend because relationships before marriage is not common or usually stay secret. I promsie I am very loyal to him and res
you seem to be a women that needs attention
do you see why you are where you are now
so heres whats fucked up....
you have dumb asses here telling you should leave him when you are the woman that messed up.
liten to these people and i promise you, that you will never get that virgo guy back... never ever
choose your fate wisely
you have dumb asses here telling you should leave him when you are the woman that messed up.
liten to these people and i promise you, that you will never get that virgo guy back... never ever
choose your fate wisely
Posted by Jullanar_you could have walked away from him but you kept on entertaining him. kinda like you were enjoying throwing it in his face. it backfired.
It is not my fault that the guy didnt stop flirting. I showed him that I was not interested. My virgo asked me to stop hanging out with my guy friends and delete them from snapchat. i dont have a signle male friend now. I am not complaining because I dont want anyone but him. He taveled to visit his female friend and lied to me about it for a week and he said he didnt wanna upset me. And i forgave him and I have seen that he's changed and become faithful to me as I am to him. If you dont wanna believe that i am loyal to him, dont. But ever since I started dating him I have ever thought of another guy.
so now you change the original story to make out like hes the bad one.
Posted by OneJupiterWayI love him. I would never try to make him look like hes the bad one ! Why would I do that! I know he's changed and he's loyal.Posted by Jullanar_you could have walked away from him but you kept on entertaining him. kinda like you were enjoying throwing it in his face. it backfired.
It is not my fault that the guy didnt stop flirting. I showed him that I was not interested. My virgo asked me to stop hanging out with my guy friends and delete them from snapchat. i dont have a signle male friend now. I am not complaining because I dont want anyone but him. He taveled to visit his female friend and lied to me about it for a week and he said he didnt wanna upset me. And i forgave him and I have seen that he's changed and become faithful to me as I am to him. If you dont wanna believe that i am loyal to him, dont. But ever since I started dating him I have ever thought of another guy.
so now you change the original story to make out like hes the bad one.
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Been in same situation with a Virgo/Libra. We "got engaged" around 4years ago. We were together for around 8 years. I eventually left. He was also a culture from arranged type marriages. His loss. His personality was the worst case or procrastination i've ever experienced, it was a nightmare to deal with. Maybe he wouldve married me...eventually, maybe not. I'm not wasting anymore of my life waiting to find out 🙂
Posted by cvurkoim not actually. its what he will do also. im preparing her to win him over and shes taking advice so she looks like she may be a keeper for him.Posted by OneJupiterWayPosted by Jullanar_if you read the above you admit he keep on flirting with you and you never put a stop to it.
Calm down you guys! I told the guy that I have a boyfriend from the beginning. I talked about how we both go to diffrent universities and we take the same classes so we could study together. He knew that I wasnt intrested. I wasnt flirting. He was! In our socity guys just do not care if you have a boyfriend or not. If they know you're sleeping with someone they'll just think that you're a bitch even if it was your boyfriend because relationships before marriage is not common or usually stay secret. I promsie I am very loyal to him and res
you seem to be a women that needs attention
do you see why you are where you are now
Come on, are you kidding me? Way to judgy... Why are you trying to make her blame herself? You weren't even there and even if you were you aren't the one to judge her and talk to her like that.
I can only imagine how you judge urself. It must be hard. :/ Relax.click to expand
she should now also know why he saw his friend and waited later to tell her.
btw i dont claim to be an angle and he prob is not either.
First of all .. the title of this thread says that he can't commit, when that is false.
He won't commit to you.
cannot and will not has two different meanings.
As a person tells their tale, their story progresses. Your story progressed from your frustration about him not putting the marriage label on your relationship to you purposely trying to make him jealous.
and "yes" it was obviously intentional. See the underlined above.
You later back tracked to try and say that nothing happened, when in reality, the Virgo saw you. If you saw him, seeing you .. then that means you were aware of his presence there. Since you were aware of his presence there and if you indeed live with this man .. then you have an obligation to your own loyalty, and your place was to leave this flirty man and go to your mans side.
If he saw you there and you weren't aware of it until later, then still the point still remains the same ..... you were doing something inappropriate for him to see you do it. Your place is by his side, if you are loyal and the moment you realized there was a (date) for you during your outing ... your obligation was to step away.
But, you didn't, did you?
No, you stayed there, and let another man fawn over you. Regardless of what you told the man, your actions said a different story .. your actions told everyone observing that you were sitting there with a flirty man. You even said yourself that in your culture, that a woman isn't considered respectfully if with a man without marriage .... and STILL you sat there with a man fawning over you, letting the world see that you are disrespecting your man by allowing this flirty man the opportunity to have a try at you.
this game you played trying to make him jealous became obvious as your story carried the plot further to the next quote above ....... where when he got mad at you for thinking you were with another man, you tried to use that to manipulate guilt out of him by asking him if he was ever going to marry you. The fact that you wait until this precise moment, when he thinks he might lose you ... is the sign on the wall for your viewing audience .. or it should be, if they are reading between the lines.
And finally ...... the last quote of a partial sentence is correct. He doesn't want you as a wife. In fact, no Virgo will. And in reality, no person should ever want to be committed to one who would play attention games with him.
Instead of being honest and forthright with your feelings and relationship concerns ... you took the low road and used manipulative tactics.
He won't commit to you.
cannot and will not has two different meanings.
Posted by Jullanar_
We've been living together for 10 months. So its pretty serious.
I went out with one of my girlfriends the other night and she brough her guy friends and one of them was flirting with me( believe It wasnt my fault I am very loyal to him) he saw us and he got so mad at me.
At home he said he was sorry and I said you treat me like if I was your wife. Then I asked him if he ever going to marry me .......
he just dont want me as a wife?
As a person tells their tale, their story progresses. Your story progressed from your frustration about him not putting the marriage label on your relationship to you purposely trying to make him jealous.
and "yes" it was obviously intentional. See the underlined above.
You later back tracked to try and say that nothing happened, when in reality, the Virgo saw you. If you saw him, seeing you .. then that means you were aware of his presence there. Since you were aware of his presence there and if you indeed live with this man .. then you have an obligation to your own loyalty, and your place was to leave this flirty man and go to your mans side.
If he saw you there and you weren't aware of it until later, then still the point still remains the same ..... you were doing something inappropriate for him to see you do it. Your place is by his side, if you are loyal and the moment you realized there was a (date) for you during your outing ... your obligation was to step away.
But, you didn't, did you?
No, you stayed there, and let another man fawn over you. Regardless of what you told the man, your actions said a different story .. your actions told everyone observing that you were sitting there with a flirty man. You even said yourself that in your culture, that a woman isn't considered respectfully if with a man without marriage .... and STILL you sat there with a man fawning over you, letting the world see that you are disrespecting your man by allowing this flirty man the opportunity to have a try at you.
this game you played trying to make him jealous became obvious as your story carried the plot further to the next quote above ....... where when he got mad at you for thinking you were with another man, you tried to use that to manipulate guilt out of him by asking him if he was ever going to marry you. The fact that you wait until this precise moment, when he thinks he might lose you ... is the sign on the wall for your viewing audience .. or it should be, if they are reading between the lines.
And finally ...... the last quote of a partial sentence is correct. He doesn't want you as a wife. In fact, no Virgo will. And in reality, no person should ever want to be committed to one who would play attention games with him.
Instead of being honest and forthright with your feelings and relationship concerns ... you took the low road and used manipulative tactics.
Posted by Jullanar_Based on the bold, I don't know why you are here asking questions you already know the answer to. You must want people to help you live in a fantasy world.
Virgos help me out. I have been with this virgo guy for more than A year. We've been living together for 10 months. So its pretty serious. I am a gemini and I am very emotional and when I get attached I can never let go. He is absolutely the opposite. I am crazy he is very mature. Sex is great. He sacrificed a lot to be with me. And he always says he'd be nothing without me. But we didnt talked about marriage until this week. I always thought about it but I never wanted to talk so I dont sound clingy. I went out with one of my girlfriends the other night and she brough her guy friends and one of them was flirting with me( believe It wasnt my fault I am very loyal to him) he saw us and he got so mad at me. At home he said he was sorry and I said you treat me like if I was your wife. Then I asked him if he ever going to marry me he said I dont think so, he said his family would never apporve because we come from very different cultures. I didnt know if he was lying but in our society most people get arranged marriages and and Even I can never get married without my family apporval(by law)
But he didnt even say that he would try to talk to them he said Its impossible. I freaked out at him told him I cant be with you and left. But them I got back with him (because I am very stupid I hate me for that) we talked and he explains his family situation with me and I told him that I understand.
I really wanted to ask him if he would try to convince them but then again I didnt wanna sound so desperate and clingy😢 i cant stop thinking about it. I am very miserable and he broke my heart. My mind tells me that I should leave him but I just do not know how to do it. I ( we are away from home to study and we'll go back once we finish)
Virgos help me out! Do you think he's lying and he just dont want me as a wife?
Do you think I should talk to him again? Or do you think he'll change his mind with time.
He told you that his family will never approve. He said "it's impossible." He sat down with you and explained his family situation and you told him you understand. Even your family has to approve "by law." How do you leave him is another question you asked - you pack and leave.
Ill-fated lovers....
UPDATE: so I talked to him again.. I sat there and asked him to understand me and not to get mad. He seemed like he didnt want to talk to me about it but then he said he wants me and if it were his choice he wouldnt choose someone else. I asked him did you even consider trying, he said if you want me to try i will but it would be for nothing. I told him that i would need time to decide what to do. He knew that i was thinking about leaving and when we talked again i asked him what would ? He said that he wouldn't leave...
Honestly the past two weeks were very difficult. It was all drama and fighting. I am now visiting my family and we decided to take a break. He asked me not to bring up the marrige thing again because it will break him and me. I am sreiously thinking about staying with him becauae he might end up convincing his family i dont know. I dont imagine my life without him
Honestly the past two weeks were very difficult. It was all drama and fighting. I am now visiting my family and we decided to take a break. He asked me not to bring up the marrige thing again because it will break him and me. I am sreiously thinking about staying with him becauae he might end up convincing his family i dont know. I dont imagine my life without him
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