Need help

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Shawn03 on Monday, June 22, 2015 and has 6 replies.

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@Shawn03
11 Years

I m 20yr old gemini n my gf is 20 yr old virgo.We wr in 2 yr rltnshp nt n wher frnds bfr tht fr 2 yrs.C recently broke up with me due to my angr . I realsd my mstk apolgzd to hr assred hr the sme wont hppn again bt c is still angry n i cnt convinc hr anyway... Help me pls tell me wt i cn do to gt hr bck..I took hr frgvnss fr grantd n now c dsnt trst my angr anymore c is afraid il do the sme again bt i think c still loves me bt its hr angr now thts cmng btwn.. I realy m guilty i regret now.. I wnt hr bk.C is bck in my hmetwn n m in abrd fr my stdies so txt is the only we cmmncte pls tll me hw i cn convnc hr..

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@Shawn03
11 Years

20yr old gemini n my gf is 20 yr old virgo.We wr in 2 yr rltnshp nt n wher frnds bfr tht fr 2 yrs.C recently broke up with me due to my angr . I realsd my mstk apolgzd to hr assred hr the sme wont hppn again bt c is still angry n i cnt convinc hr anyway... Help me pls tell me wt i cn do to gt hr bck..I took hr frgvnss fr grantd n now c dsnt trst my angr anymore c is afraid il do the sme again bt i think c still loves me bt its hr angr now thts cmng btwn.. I realy m guilty i regret now.. I wnt hr bk.C is bck in my hmetwn n m in abrd fr my stdies so txt is the only we cmmncte pls tll me hw i cn convnc hr..

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@Damnata
16 Years25,000+ PostsVirgo

You said she broke up with you because of your anger and thought "you'll do the same", or "angr" as you so eloquently put it.

What did you do? Yell at her? Hit her?

Get the fuck out of her life, stay out and while you're out learn to type.

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@HashtagSushi
11 Years

Virgos need to see solid evidence and action for one's mistakes. Ya know, "to better one self". Do something about your anger, take it under control (we NEED TO SEE ACTION. FUCK THE TALK.)

SOLUTION #1 - If you want her back, take an anger-management class OR before blowing up - excuse yourself - walk outside, or exercise to blow off the steam, then return back with a rational mind. (I have anger issues, so I know what I am talking about. I ALWAYS have to distance myself from the person that had struck my intense emotional cord. I return once I am calmed down - sometimes it takes days and then I will be ready to rationally talk to the person).

SOLUTION #2 - WRITE / TYPE out HOW YOU FEEL. WHEN YOU WRITE YOUR ANGER AND RE-READ YOUR EMOTIONS A FEW TIMES, YOU WILL SEE HOW UGLY AND TERRIBLE THE ANGER INSIDE OF YOU IS. THAT'S A WAKE UP CALL. THIS SHOULD AWAKEN YOUR RATIONALITY AND FORCE YOU TO LOGICALLY SORT OUT YOUR EMOTIONS. 😄 THEN you can rationally re-word what you want to say to her without the anger!! 😄 IT WORKS FOR ME!! 😄 You're a Gemini! You people are terrific with words and writing!! Exercise your emotions through writing!!!