No hope now?

Virgo saw me, many times, didn't bother to come over and talk, seems to shy, and when I tried talking, avoids me and keeps away. = Not interested? or likes but is just shy? I heard if Virgos really like someone, they will tell them.

How old is he? When I was younger, the whole lack of self confidence that virgo's supposidly have was TOTALLY me. I'll be the first to admit I was a late bloomer.

Much to the dismay of my last few g/f's, now its the COMPLETE opposite and I'm too damn cocky for my own good 😛

He is 24

My current virgo bf told me that if i hadnt gone up to him first that he would have been too shy to come up and talk to me. He said he was happy that i went up to him.

yeah some of them are shy... real shy.

I know that if I really like someone a lot, I can get very shy as well. They have to make the first move...idk what's wrong with me.

I had this thing for thhis Taurus guy a little while back (he obviously was interested in me) and I totally ruined the whole situation because I just became too shy around him. Like I wouldn't even talk to him (yeah talk about lame)...

I mean what's the background info— have you guys talkeed before—

Well ya, like 3 words here and there, he won't look me in the eye, like he is terrified, I don't know if he's picking up that I'm interested , but I think I'm trying to hide it very well, trust me, no one sees it, I even act like I don't care, but when I "innocently" approach him, he avoids me, and is like at loss (or maybe annoyed and looking for a getaway?) he is trying to avoid my presence. weird.

Tx - if you read the "Virgo's arent all the same" section you might find some helpful ideas there. Dont hide your feelings from him, I think it helps if he knows you like him and are willing to be caught. Dont try to read into his behaviour, just be confident and have something interesting to say. Im willing to stand corrected but these people are quite intellectual. He might behave that way but that does not mean you have to. If he thinks youre playing some sort of cat and mouse game he wont want to play along. You should read more about this sign and know what you are up against.

I am full of interesting info, but the virguy doesn't give me a chance to talk to him 😢

Do something that requires the guy to "come to your aid".

Okay, but there's nothing I need help with so far... — I did ask him for a favor once, and he helped except when he did, it was only a split second and he seemed terrified! why is that? Then he quickly retreated.

what's that suppose to mean?

They don't normally pick up on these signs .... even if you are obviously blatant .. so, it's highly doubtful that he has any clue that you are interested in him.

Why play coy?

If you like him, approach him already.

If you're waiting for him ..... then you'll be in retirement before he "gets it" ... he's likely still trying to figure out why he can't figure out why you even looked at him.

What if I approached and got mixed responses? If he is contemplating too much over whether to hang out with me , what's that mean?

Tx_girl25: If he is contemplating too much over whether to hang out with me , what's that mean?

That he's an average young Virgo male. We think about everything - over & over & over & over & over ~~ & over again. Especially when it comes to women!

I'm a Virgo / Libra Cusper, and some of my VirGuy pals consider me BOLD when it comes to approaching women, and even I get tongue-tied, dazed, and confused when a woman shows interest in me...

...he won't look me in the eye, like he is terrified, I don't know if he's picking up that I'm interested...

He's terrified; so Yes!, he does suspect that you're interested...

You're gonna have to be assertive and up-front with this guy. He IS NEVER gonna make a first move with you.

Hey if Virgo backs down on you and avoids you, and doesn't want to make plans, then he aint interested?