No valentines day gift from my virgo :(

Posted by scorpio24
after a few months into the relationship, he just stopped all that.

Reread that.

Posted by scorpio24
after a few months into the relationship, he just stopped all that.

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Honeymoon phase was over and you started to see the real him.

Posted by scorpio24
after a few months into the relationship, he just stopped all that.

Honeymoon phase was over and you started to see the real him.




well why do they put on such a front then, its like he just wanted to get me to like him but then turned into a selfish prick.

Posted by scorpio24

Posted by scorpio24
after a few months into the relationship, he just stopped all that.

Honeymoon phase was over and you started to see the real him.

well why do they put on such a front then, its like he just wanted to get me to like him but then turned into a selfish prick.



It's not a 'front' it's reality...
Everybody does this, not just Virgo men, not just men in general either.
It is human nature.

It's part of the biological mating process, partners display their pretty colors... their bright tail feathers- to get some bootay/ reproduce and then move on...

He is being himself with you, I would be grateful if my Boyfriend decided to cook me a meal any day of the week irregardless of Valentine's day!
Anyhoo, first things first - ask him these things yourself.... don't be afraid to fight about it or what have you, be honest with him and with yourself first and foremost... you'll be fine I am sure of it.

It's not a 'front' it's reality...
Everybody does this, not just Virgo men, not just men in general either.
It is human nature.

It's part of the biological mating process, partners display their pretty colors... their bright tail feathers- to get some bootay/ reproduce and then move on...

He is being himself with you, I would be grateful if my Boyfriend decided to cook me a meal any day of the week irregardless of Valentine's day!
Anyhoo, first things first - ask him these things yourself.... don't be afraid to fight about it or what have you, be honest with him and with yourself first and foremost... you'll be fine I am sure of it.





Nah, i cant be bothered starting a fight, cause i know at the end of the day its not that big of an issue.
I know people change in relationships..

i sometimes HATE being a scorpio because i feel like GIVING all the time and want to give him ALL my love ALL the time. but have to restrict myself, cause he doesnt like that/begining not to appreicate this about me.

😢

Posted by CluelessCancer
Scorps and Cancers will always end up Bitter being with a Virgo our any male who doesn't feed our emotions.

VERY TRUE.

i often feel resentful to him.

Posted by scorpio24

Posted by scorpio24
after a few months into the relationship, he just stopped all that.

Honeymoon phase was over and you started to see the real him.

well why do they put on such a front then, its like he just wanted to get me to like him but then turned into a selfish prick.



They are very selfish.

For Valentines day - He cooked for you because it was fully booked everywhere and You bought him chocolates. You've expected a gift from him and he didn't deliver this day.

So your question is, why he just cooked meal for you and didn't put a bit more effort?. You said you appreciate this, but you DID NOT see this as an effort?. He is a 24yr old male and he cooked a meal for you. He did this only becuase genuinely likes you.

And You bought him chocolates? - I guess you bought it from the shop on the way?. He will appreciate your efforts for sure.

You are saying you are a relaxed girl and he knows that. I guess thats why must have felt not to try too hard this time. Trust me, Virgos are not attractive when they try hard. You have mentioned - you are not someone who expects gifts (really? why change of mind now?). If you said that to him before and he remembers that for sure. May be he felt being with you is more important than gift.

I guess with this feeling inside, you might have ruined the day by not enjoying it genuinely. I guess, he might have sensed that you were not happy and may be started worrying about what went wrong!.

Even after two years, you are feeling this way? I guess, may be you didn't understand him at all. This is where girls loose Virgo guys.

I could be wrong. And Who is selfish here?

He cooked for you. What do you want a parade?

Let me say this??_ anyone in a relationship who isn't goo goo ga ga over you, you??re in a boring relationship. The honeymoon phase should never be over.

Please read this:
"If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for." ?? Bob Marley

If he thinks you??re amazing, he??ll do anything for you. But he sees you as easy. If you walk away he??ll not fight for you, because he's given up.

Your relationship should be fire.

I don't care if you??re talking 1 month, 1 year, or 10 years, keep the fire going.

Yes, it takes work. Relationship takes work. But if he's too lazy to work at it, then he's not worthy.

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you??ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more.

Find someone like that and you??ll be happy.

^^^Yes! That is. That fire should burn forever...

Posted by scorpio24

Posted by scorpio24
after a few months into the relationship, he just stopped all that.

Honeymoon phase was over and you started to see the real him.

well why do they put on such a front then, its like he just wanted to get me to like him but then turned into a selfish prick.





What difference does it make what front is put on?

Instead of taking this reality to your awareness .... you chose to fuss over it, because you don't want it.

Be a grown up and step the fuck away.

I see many relationships were they are in a blahzee blah relationship. There's no fire, no nothing. They just exist. Maybe some people just want to —get off on one another?? because it feels good. Or maybe it's the companionship, or something to cover the loneliness.

They are either in:
Love + Sex = Couple
Friends + Sex = Treetrunk Buddy
Love + Friends = It's complicated

But, if you have: Love + Friends + Sex = Perfect couple Try to hit dead center and it'll be beautiful.

Some people are better off being friends.