not much communicaton from virgo boyfriend

so..im a Pisces and we have been together 4 months and the problem we have is kind of petty... well i have to text him first all the time he responds when i text but we dnt talk long and i would like for him to text me first sometimes to show me that he misses me ! i was wondering do Virgo men like it when you text them first or whatever. i need some type of explanation from someone else because when i asked him he avoided the question and changed the subject. im very sensitive and i get kind of sad when i wait all day long for him to txt me first and it doesn't happen .we dnt see each other every day so little things like this is very important to me...:/

Stop texting him.

He will, eventually, text/call you when he hasn't heard from you.

It may take a day or three, but don't worry about it. Really.

Not to be mean, but it's kind of like the saying-- how can he miss you if you won't go away.

And he will. Miss you, I mean.

I never texted first with the last Virgo-- in the beginning, I mean-- after a couple of years, it doesn't matter quite as much (etiquette, or whatever).

(If you are the only one doing ANY of the communication, though (which doesn't seem to be the case), that's another issue, entirely.)

But you will live-- promise.

Virgos are weird. 😄

Posted by VirgoFlirt
tell ya what...ask him to go grocery shoping with you and if he don't then dump him..

Yes. This. 🙂

Honestly, don't take it personally. i've learnt with my virgo to not text him first all the time. it annoys the hell out of them, i just busy myself now and do my own activities, until he eventually texts me first. even if it takes a day or so. im sensitive too, but virgo men often feel trapped if their girlfriend is too full on and emotional. they will instantly pull away. so just relax & give him a chance to miss you 🙂

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Posted by scorpio24
Honestly, don't take it personally. i've learnt with my virgo to not text him first all the time. it annoys the hell out of them, i just busy myself now and do my own activities, until he eventually texts me first. even if it takes a day or so. im sensitive too, but virgo men often feel trapped if their girlfriend is too full on and emotional. they will instantly pull away. so just relax & give him a chance to miss you 🙂

haven't we grown🙂

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yes getting there! haha

Posted by VirgoFlirt
Find another virgo...mr virgo will txt you all the time if he really wanted you.

There are plenty more virgos for you that will adore a fish like yourself.

tell ya what...ask him to go grocery shoping with you and if he don't then dump him..

Is grocery shopping is the ultimate test to see if a guy is into you or not?

*the uliltimate.

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Posted by scorpio24
im sensitive too, but virgo men often feel trapped if their girlfriend is too full on and emotional. they will instantly pull away.

Not totaly true little scorpio. I'd rather you had be 'full on' and 'emotional', because that right there tells me what's going on. When you start hiding things that's when I leave.

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okay, well my virgo seams to pull away if im too full on/emotional.

which sucks, cause "relaxing" and "patience" is not in my nature

Kellz,

Virgos are not about chit chat, especially when they have more precedent things in life, like work or family. Not a bad thing. My Virgo friend who I hope will one day be more...but not anytime soon, I have seen and evolution in our relationship. And much comes to patience. We have gone at first as things really developed in our friendship where he or me may drop a line in an email every couple of weeks or so. Then it got to the point of everyday, then I would pull back and it could be 3 or 4 days before I heard from him. Sometimes I would initiate and he would reply, I was just thinking about you and was about to contact you. Now we are in contact everyday, 98% of the time it is him sending me a text Good Morning Beautiful. Sometimes it is me. But there are times I may be communicating with him and he is not as responsive, so I just back off. Crap, the guy has a job, kids and other things going on in his life. I will hear from him within a few hours. Just like today. Yesterday there was a revelation in my life that threw me into an emotional wreck then another incedient this morning. There was some communication and I was talking to him about it at one time today and he wasn't responsive. I also knew he had plans with his one kid. So I left him alone. Sure enough four hours later he was contacting me to see how I was. We spent all night talking. Not about my issue. But I told him he was the only person to calm me. And when I meet him in person (after 10 years) there was more then just the heat I felt. I felt a calmness and there was something special and beautiful inside him, but he throw me for a loop. He was like what you mean I throw you for a loop. I told he guards himself. He lets important people see the surface. But only those like his kids and mom see it all. He answered, yeah I do guard my self, but you know more of what is going on inside me then my mother. (Hmmmm +1 for me). Be patient. Let him come to you. Virgo's are busy. If he doesn't imitate at all, then you have to worry. They will want to know where you been.

Posted by Montgomery
Stop texting him.

He will, eventually, text/call you when he hasn't heard from you.

It may take a day or three, but don't worry about it. Really.

Not to be mean, but it's kind of like the saying-- how can he miss you if you won't go away.

And he will. Miss you, I mean.

I never texted first with the last Virgo-- in the beginning, I mean-- after a couple of years, it doesn't matter quite as much (etiquette, or whatever).

(If you are the only one doing ANY of the communication, though (which doesn't seem to be the case), that's another issue, entirely.)

But you will live-- promise.

Virgos are weird. 😄

^^^^^agree 100%

What does he do for a living?
Is he a busy man? If he is, it's normal if he doesnt initiate.
As long as he responds and treats you well whenever you meet, you shouldnt worry. I have many things to do every day, if I dont initiate it doesnt mean I dont think of you.

Oh Some virgo men are passive, not an initiator, depending on the birth chart.

Posted by VirgoFlirt

tell ya what...ask him to go grocery shoping with you and if he don't then dump him..

lol..perfect!🙂

Missed reading this part. This man doesn't treat you well.
Communication is important, if I am not happy about something or feel neglected (my virgo is a busy man who runs his own company and travels here and there) and let him know, he'll drop everything else to be with me and treats me like a princess...and then he gets busy again lol.

He ignored when you raised that up, how could he do that.
yup dump him. You're still young, explore..better men out there.

Posted by kellz
when i asked him he avoided the question and changed the subject.

^^^^^^ All the advice you need is right there.

You want someone that's crazy about you. Someone that's waiting on YOUR calls & texts. Someone that brags about you. Someone that cant wait to take you on a date. Someone that wants to get to know everything about you. Now that's what you call exciting! 🙂

Posted by applemint_fv
Missed reading this part. This man doesn't treat you well.
Communication is important, if I am not happy about something or feel neglected (my virgo is a busy man who runs his own company and travels here and there) and let him know, he'll drop everything else to be with me and treats me like a princess...and then he gets busy again lol.

He ignored when you raised that up, how could he do that.
yup dump him. You're still young, explore..better men out there.

Posted by kellz
when i asked him he avoided the question and changed the subject.

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he texted me first last night which really surprised me and also made me really happy !🙂